Is it ok for parents to hit their kids?
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My mom has slapped me a few times. Most of the times I deserved it, some other times, she just needed to chill out. She makes small things a very big deal sometimes.
Any ways I think slapping or hitting (not beating) your kids can get them to listen to you and make them stop arguing (that's usually the reason my mom slaps me) But beating or hitting ur kids multiple times is just wrong in my opinion. What do you think? -
She needs to keep her hands to her self! She needs a belt or something..
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If they misbehave, it's a pop to the chops. Nuff said.
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๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅADD๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅAKS๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ wrote:
A belt? That seems to be more of a man thing and my dad would never hit me.She needs to keep her hands to her self! She needs a belt or something..
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Small hits every once in a whole seem fine, just as long as they stay away from being abusive obviously
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๐บ๐ธUอSอMอCอ๐บ๐ธ wrote:
๐๐๐If they misbehave, it's a pop to the chops. Nuff said.
Moderation in all things.
I would have turned out loads better if I had just got a good old ass whoopin from time to time.My Gf the best person I know and she did. -
Id like to add another thing. At least for American kids. Back before the government didn't do anything about parents hitting their children the kids turned out to be fine. But when they made that illegal my generation and some others from the previous generation have been complete screw-ups. Kids my age don't give a care in a world what they do wrong because their parents didn't punish them right. You can easily ignore a parent yelling at you. But it's hard to ignore when your mom or dad hits you.
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I volunteer at a teen court to complete my required community hours to get in college.
And I seen all kinds of careless kids never discipline right.
I remember one case this guy stole from Walmart because he was bored. What does that tell you? -
Whip that ass if they are bad. Not in the face though that's a bit much
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I remember when I was a kid, my grandpa made me go pick out my own switch. God that shit sucked.
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I had wooden spoons broke over my behind several times. The worst though was: "Go to your room and wait til dad gets home."
Even though nothing worse than a stern lecture usually resulted, it was still enough of a threat to adjust my attitude.
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When i was a kid, my mom would slap the shit out of me if i deserved it. Sometimes the shock of getting smacked is exctly what a kid needs to bring them back to reality if they get a little too big for their britches
I remember this one time when i was 13 and thought i was cool and i called my mom a "stupid fucking bitch" and rightly got popped so hard my nose bled... Its been 10 years and i have never called her that again
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Mฮนโกโกใษชโฑฅฦถฦถษ๐ wrote:
Is that all? The things my mom would have done if I said that... It's scary to think about it.When i was a kid, my mom would slap the shit out of me if i deserved it. Sometimes the shock of getting smacked is exctly what a kid needs to bring them back to reality if they get a little too big for their britches
I remember this one time when i was 13 and thought i was cool and i called my mom a "stupid fucking bitch" and rightly got popped so hard my nose bled... Its been 10 years and i have never called her that again
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No.... It wasnt all.... That was the physical part of it.
I got quite a bit of verbal bashing and When we got home, she broke my cds, made me clean it up and then locked me out of the house for the night.... Lol.... All that plus getting hit so hard ur nose bleed is pretty eye opening to a 13 year old
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I got my ass handed to me every time I deserved it. I support proper discipline. ๐
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แปแฉแขแฌแกโชโขแทแขแแฌโ wrote:
๐I got my ass handed to me every time I deserved it. I support proper discipline. ๐
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๐บ๐ธUอSอMอCอ๐บ๐ธ wrote:
๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐and a knot on the headIf they misbehave, it's a pop to the chops. Nuff said.
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That's what kids these days need. A trip to the wood shed. Tan than hide a few times and the kid will streighten out. I got my ass beat many times. I'm not saying the abuse I took was right, my old man took it too far. But I turned out good.
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Pmite wrote:
Think knot. Hell yea.๐บ๐ธUอSอMอCอ๐บ๐ธ wrote:
๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐and a knot on the headIf they misbehave, it's a pop to the chops. Nuff said.
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I agree with all of the above people like i said in previous thread about this. I only got my ass pounded when i deserved it. I once got a serious beating by my dad because i was lying to him to protect my brother. But in the end, you just made sure you behaved as you knew that when you didnt, daddys hands started itching ๐
And like sir talkalot says, kids dont know shit about what it means to show respect or behave, they dont get punished like us older (ahem ๐ช) peeps.
Bring out tha ๐ข and kick some ๐ฉ if they deserve it, just dont over do it
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Mr_White wrote:
And god forbid you bring back one that wasn't good enough... ๐๐๐I remember when I was a kid, my grandpa made me go pick out my own switch. God that shit sucked.
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It's not ok for parents to hit their kids.
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Honestly i wouldn't be the same person i am today if my parents hadn't hit me. And they were. Personaly i think its alright as long ad its for a reason and the parent isnt out of control
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About the only thing I ever bust on my kids for is back talking. Other thank that just normal ground meant that they normally get out of anyway.
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Back hand slap never killed somebody!
Only dads should "hit" their childs if realy needed. On the hands or something that is.... But, never a full power fist, with sticks, belts or other crazy things lol
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I have never slapped/hit/beaten my kids and they behave and are lovely. Oh, I have five.
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Hitting in anger, no. In discipline, yes.
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So the boss can slap you in a discipline matter?
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I say they shouldn't. When I was a kid, I hated my dad because he would spank me so much. I still like my mom better to this day. Also, I am the nicest, politests kid I know. But that's because I learned my please and thank yous and watched Barney and stuff everyday.
Backtalking or arguing is never a reason to hit your kids. If they Backtalk or argue, there's problably a reason why, be it they think that what you're making them do is unfair, or just trying to tell why they should be able to do something you're making sure they don't do.
Just ground them. It works a lot better. Spanking never taught me anything
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We got soap in the mouth for swearing and for anything else we got a belt. Not like the belt was a whipping just enough so we felt it. 6 kids the older three were disciplined with a belt the younger three were not. I am happy I was one who got the belt. I think I turned out a better person for it.
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LexSuede wrote:
I agree.It's not ok for parents to hit their kids.
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