My world just fell apart...
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So my girlfriend and I of almost 3 years, are at a breaking point. Her daughter graduates in anout 4 yeara. I do not want to leave this city because my parents are getting old and will need me. And I will forever take care of them for all they have done for me. Once they are gone, I will be miserable in the middle of nowhere. Which is where she wants to move because it's closer to her mom. She is miserable in the city and I am miserable in the country. We just decided we probably need to break up because one of us will always be miserable with our living sitation. My heart is breaking and I can't breath! I can't imagine my life without her. But I can't imagine living in the country either! I'm 23 as Shes 36. I understand her tho. I'm so confused. I don't know what to do.
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Give in and go with her women always win 😜
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If you rele love her, I don't see how location can over rule love?
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Back Stabber wrote:
I believe she is a woman too...Give in and go with her women always win 😜
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I am a woman
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If she really loved me I don't see why she can't stay here.
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Maybe you should take turns. How long has she lived in the city with you?
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Unfortunately, I can never understand what your going through. I Wish i could. But through my life I've always been told that if you love something, set it free.. If it comes back, it's yours forever, and if it dosent, then it wasn't right for you. ...
My lovely wonders if you might, instead of a break up, attempt a trial LDR.. If you find you cannot stand being without one another, sacrifices are made for the ones we love.. And if you find you can go about your life.. With all the standard visits and calls and letters, then maby you can take the time to figure out a better solution...
I hope this helps... I know I'm just the random acquaintance here, but I think of you as a friend. -
She moved to frisco with her ex husband almost 3 years ago. I grew up all 23 years in this town. We couldn't move till her kid graduates school in about 4 years.
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If the daughters graduating high school bump the mom date the daughter!
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Bruenor wrote:
This👆👆 (>")>Unfortunately, I can never understand what your going through. I Wish i could. But through my life I've always been told that if you love something, set it free.. If it comes back, it's yours forever, and if it dosent, then it wasn't right for you. ...
My lovely wonders if you might, instead of a break up, attempt a trial LDR.. If you find you cannot stand being without one another, sacrifices are made for the ones we love.. And if you find you can go about your life.. With all the standard visits and calls and letters, then maby you can take the time to figure out a better solution...
I hope this helps... I know I'm just the random acquaintance here, but I think of you as a friend. -
squishedfrog wrote:
😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹If the daughters graduating high school bump the mom date the daughter!
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Thay was fucking wrong. Someone get that guy PLEASE. I'm in no shape right now.
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We're talking but no Way around it. I'm so not okay. Going to work now.
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You're falling apart today about something that might happen in four years? You gotta live in the moment a little better.
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Do you really think either of us want to continue wasting time on this relationship if we're knowingly not gonna make it? No. We would be separating quickly. We uhm, have to work extremely hard to make this work as it is. Let alone all this shit.
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Ur a girl
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taffy127andy wrote:
Really? -____-'Ur a girl
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😝😝😝😝😝😝 mmmm hairy plate
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What's the point of asking for advice if you don't want to listen?? Yes there are all these jerks.. (Whom I'm about to go destroy btw) but even a half decent answer is useless if your mind is made up to breakup.
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Add RaiKou wrote:
He made a joke sine you are closer in age to the daughter then the mom.Thay was fucking wrong. Someone get that guy PLEASE. I'm in no shape right now.
Sounds like you two are in completely different places in your lives. She's 36 and wants to settle down in the country. You are 13 years younger, 23, and want to have fun in the city. And if you aren't moving to the country for another 4 years then what's the problem now? Maybe you will be done with the city in 4 years. Or maybe something else is the real problem. I mean breaking up over something that's not going to happen for another 4 years is a little bit of an overreaction, or sound like it to me at least. -
Unfortunately you have to live for yourself and not your family... I would never want one of my children to pass up any chance of happiness to be closer to me.. As sad as it is all my chicks will leave the nest soon, and I'll be "stuck" with the love of my life.. Just kidding in the stuck... But that's how life is... It progresses you need to go with it... Good luck with whatever you decide... Big age gap there also..I'm 8 years older than my husband, best of luck😉
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I am actually open to advice. I wouldn't have posted if I wasn't. I'm not one of those. and it's an issue now because I know even in 4 years, or whenever my parents pass away I will not be happy in the country. I know my mom would want me to move on and be happy and she would be so upset if she found out I was reluctantly staying here for them. But I am. And I'm not going to tell them that. She's blind, and he can barely stand on his own two feet.
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Maybe I will have a pre trial with the issue as suggested above.
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And thank you for everyone taking this seriously. Anyone who knows me knows I don't cry wolf unless the wolf is really scary and I can actually see him.
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💐jus want yuo to no im thinkng of yuo
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Thank you :)
I think... Idk I'm going to propose we stay together a little longer and see if we can't figure it out. Someone up there might be right though. Maybe it's more then not wanting to live in the country. I mean, I'm extremely monotonous and very domesticated at this point. But I don't think I'm ready to make that move and I don't think I'll be ready in 4 years either. If we do decide to break up, i am literally going to be devastated for a whileeee. -
Split the city/country difference and live in the suburbs.
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Add RaiKou wrote:
Because she has a child and she is being a good mother and doing what's bes for her child.If she really loved me I don't see why she can't stay here.
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squishedfrog wrote:
👍👍👍👍✋If the daughters graduating high school bump the mom date the daughter!
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Frog
Ur so uncaring ( foot stomp)😂😂
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