My world just fell apart...
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Sigh. I just might settle for that. But it's not good enough. The suburbs WAS my compromise. She wasn't STRAIGHT COUNTRY.
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You mentioned being a recovered addict. Are you in a 12 step? I think some Serenity words need to be repeated to achieve some calm at the moment:).
Sit with your sponsor and do an inventory. If you haven't go to some Al-anon meetings.
You need to take care of yourself first to be of any use to someone else.
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Add RaiKou wrote:
Isn't that the best kind of lesbian 😄I am a lesbian. A girl with a girl :)
Anyway... 😄
You may think you have your mind made up but as time goes by, people change.
Four years is a long time and you never know what place your head or heart may be in at that point.I never thought I would accept living in an apartment again (long story 😳) but my girlfriend wanted to and we're in a point in our life where it was ok 😄
In 4 years you may hit your point where it's ok for you 😉
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In all honesty, you cannot possibly take four years at a time. At most, one day at a time is all one human being can hack. You love her today? She loves you? Why panic? I'm not saying throw planning out the window, but over focussing on four years down the road when you cannot predict tomorrow is a bit much for anyone in any situation. You have today. There is no predicting tomorrow--ever. I wish you all the best.
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bunnymcd wrote:
Been there done that. It's not for me. I got enough rehab under my belt for a lifetime. I still drink and smoke💚. Sometimes. But overall I can't stand 12 steps. I'm just glad it's here for others.You mentioned being a recovered addict. Are you in a 12 step? I think some Serenity words need to be repeated to achieve some calm at the moment:).
Sit with your sponsor and do an inventory. If you haven't go to some Al-anon meetings.
You need to take care of yourself first to be of any use to someone else.
Ignore the idiots above😉. -
I just wanted to say thank you everyone for your support. I will let you all know what we decide when we decide. At this point were at that akward living together stage. Where we don't wanna talk about it or make it any more real. I'm supposed to move out on Saturday. But I don't want to. So we will see :) oh, and i cant beleive swags leavin!!!!
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Add RaiKou wrote:
Mmm. Be careful with you, then. It's those rainbow-farting pixie types spouting serenity with names like bunny(😉😘) what always gave me hives. Same people, though, are the only ones ready to step down in a ditch and sit down in 3,000 years of your piled up shit when you need it. Also the only ones tough enough to do it. And getting over the physical addiction is such a small part of recovery. I freaking hate the program. But I also love it. I can't stand the 12 steps--they can't stand me either--but I need them. It'll be there when you need it. Off. Of. Soapbox.bunnymcd wrote:
Been there done that. It's not for me. I got enough rehab under my belt for a lifetime. I still drink and smoke💚. Sometimes. But overall I can't stand 12 steps. I'm just glad it's here for others.You mentioned being a recovered addict
You need to take care of yourself first...Ignore the idiots above. -
Well I mean. I think I'm good I stopped 💉 3 years ago may 20th. That's not really an issue for me. I mean it gets a little rocky sometimes but I learned a lot in rehab and aa. I still talk to my old sponsor occasionally and I have pleanty of support should I ever feel like... Well you know.
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