My world just fell apart...
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Golddigga wrote:
Very true point. Very true.Add RaiKou wrote:
Because she has a child and she is being a good mother and doing what's bes for her child.If she really loved me I don't see why she can't stay here.
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Ghetto Monstazz wrote:
We basically do live in the suburbs. And we're fixing to get a house even more in the suburbs. That's not good enough for her, she doesn't want neighbors.Split the city/country difference and live in the suburbs.
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Whatever happens i hope you come out alright. Let me know if there's anything I can do.
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Thnx bro. Maybe go grab a couple beers with me next chance we get ;) and play some more gears of war :)
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My best wishes to u. I hope evrything turns out ok, and if u ever need someone to talk to,
Know I am here :) -
Add RaiKou wrote:
Deal. Just try not to die right away, as per usual.Thnx bro. Maybe go grab a couple beers with me next chance we get ;) and play some more gears of war :)
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It's difficult when family is involved. I'm in a situation where when I get my next job (definitely not here) i'll still need to spend time here near my family due to "situations." It's hard enough w/o a sig oth. I would suggest staying together and trying to work out some middle ground. Be specific about what is important to each of you and do what you can to accomplish both if possible. Live in between? Live in one spot and travel often to the other? Hard to say. But if you really love each other it can be worked out. The boonies have their benefits ;) just no Starbucks....grrr. Or good pizza. But a lot of other good things in exchange...like someone you love.
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Add RaiKou wrote:
Its alright bro! Ull b okay just talk it out.Thank you :)
I think... Idk I'm going to propose we stay together a little longer and see if we can't figure it out. Someone up there might be right though. Maybe it's more then not wanting to live in the country. I mean, I'm extremely monotonous and very domesticated at this point. But I don't think I'm ready to make that move and I don't think I'll be ready in 4 years either. If we do decide to break up, i am literally going to be devastated for a whileeee. -
Thanks trig 😉.
So I just talked to her I said. "I'm not willing to give up any time with you just because we may not be able to agree on where to live in FOUR years." she said she's not willing to spend the next four years with someone who has predecided not to leave while my parents are still alive" (FYI my parents won't be moving either) I said "omg I just can't leave them! I JUST CAN'T." guys, I put my parents through the ringer. They did so much to support me to get me to where I am today. I used to be a heroin addict and all kinds of stuff. I love them. I can't leave them. Holy shit this is hard. I got clean for myself but stayed that way for my parents and Angie. Sometimes... It's just hard. Fuck. Yeah I said it FUCKKKK. This hurts. -
If you love something, set it free. If it doesn't come back, hunt it down and get it...
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MalAdOsteo wrote:
You wouldn't be thinking about a certain "Cali" player, would you? 😱If you love something, set it free. If it doesn't come back, hunt it down and get it...
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I just have one question, and if you are a woman I'm not judging you or anything. Are you an mam or a woman? I got really confused
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I am a lesbian. A girl with a girl :)
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Live in a suburb? Seems like a good compromise.
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Get a bf, and then you won't have this problem
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Hey bro, I'm really sorry I know what it fees like to be torn....best of luck and hope that everything works out😂
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❕VW TDI❕ wrote:
🍴✂🔨🔍🌂 what do all these things have in common with this poster? Their all some sort of tool.Get a bf, and then you won't have this problem
Did it work for you bro💄💄
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RaiKou,
I'm sorry so many people are being jerks on this thread. I've seen some amazing things unfold on these forums. Hopefully, we can get our sense of community back.As for your issue, I'll pass to you the best love advice I ever got: "Don't kid yourself." Be honest with what your heart wants, but smart at the same time.
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I think I love you lol. It's terrifying when your mind and your heart don't line up.
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Is this the first woman you've dated seriously? If so the pain is understandable but we aren't meant to be with our first love.
You guys are breaking the half plus seven rule as is anyway (when did you start dating?)
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I have been a lesbian since I was 13. This by far NOT my first love AT ALL. We've been a couple for 2ish years going on 3 in may.
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Had many serious relationships with other girls. And a couple guys too. But I am only 23 so this would have to be the most "adult" relationship.
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Add RaiKou wrote:
I've got a couple of Les and Bi friends over here in Australia .. Only the les ones call themselves dykes ... Anyway point is, good luck with everything.I am a lesbian. A girl with a girl :)
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We use the word dyke here all the time. I am a dyke. But dyke is more for the boyish girls like me. Lipstick lesbians are the girls girls.
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And lol thanx:) its nice to have some bro support. I'm used to guys being like "hehehe you just need some good dick" yeah so much to insult so little time.
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Add RaiKou wrote:
We use the word dyke here all the time. I am a dyke. But dyke is more for the boyish girls like me. Lipstick lesbians are the girls girls.
Labels do more harm than good regardless of how you think of yourself it's important that everybody else knows you're just a person and feel the same.
As for your predicament. Four years is a long time so maybe things will get better, who knows. But regardless the age gap is substantial you will be reaching your prime when your love is fading and it'll be hard.
Enjoy your life now in the moment and worry about the changes when they happen.
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I both agree with and fear what you are saying. However it's not just my choice to "wait it out" and enjoy the moment. It's her life too.
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Btw do you read Dan Savage? His column is very good if you don't read it already. I think the campsite rule applies.
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Add RaiKou wrote:
Hah. There's too many blokes who are dicks. Kick em in the balls and get on with life I say. Sad that a bloke has to say that eh 😒And lol thanx:) its nice to have some bro support. I'm used to guys being like "hehehe you just need some good dick" yeah so much to insult so little time.
You'll be 'right one day just keep aimin for what you're after and you'll be 'right.
Take care. -
Could you live in a suburb that's close to a city?
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