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A gfs abusive ex boyfriend who won't leave her alone and she has nightmares about?
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32🔫🌊🗻 wrote:
she says it's not worth it but I'm about ready to fuckin piledrive this motherfucker👊😲💏
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JohnnySledge wrote:
👏👏👏32🔫🌊🗻 wrote:
she says it's not worth it but I'm about ready to fuckin piledrive this motherfucker👊😲💏
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Wow idk that's a tough spot to be in.
Hope everything works out.
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Λdoиίs wrote:
thanks and yea it is hard not to seek and destroy this fuckWow idk that's a tough spot to be in.
Hope everything works out.
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Fill her up and have her spit it in his face, this should enrage him enough for you to claim self defence! Or watch first 48 and take a few notes, problem solved!
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originalbones wrote:
not my styleFill her up and have her spit it in his face, this should enrage him enough for you to claim self defence! Or watch first 48 and take a few notes, problem solved!
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I had a recent encounter like this. My gf was sexually assaulted 5 years ago... She told me about it around 1 year ago and i swore that if i ever saw him I'd fuck his shit up... Well we did, sat in a bar he walked in and she told me we were leaving... I asked why so she reluctantly told me... I waited by the table raging for him to go to the bathroom... He went in and I turned his lights out.... She doesn't know to this day that I did anything to him...
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So in answer to your question.... Just show her support... Don't try and be the big guy and beat him up, she won't appreciate it... I would be tempted to warn him before things get messy... Then if he continues start stalking that asshole back...
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AmNeZ wrote:
I'd never lie to my gf so if I did something shed know. She can always tell when I'm lying. This guy just won't let up. I'm usually a peaceful kinda guy but... This guy just pushes my buttons to the limit. He already attacked her a few months ago. I just don't want to wait until he does it againSo in answer to your question.... Just show her support... Don't try and be the big guy and beat him up, she won't appreciate it... I would be tempted to warn him before things get messy... Then if he continues start stalking that asshole back...
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This happened to me once, I had a female friend keep calling his work really distraught asking for him. Over and over and over and screaming nonsense at him on the pay phone then hanging up. After about a week and a half he got fired and had other issues to worry about more serious than his ex.
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My girl was attacked by an ex a few times she was beat pretty bad on the third occasion a had to do some thing think you should scare the shit out of him in just the same way couple of friends masks black him out with a cotton pillow case breathable of course shove his head up to a car wheel hand break on a couple of revs so if feels like it's happening tel him why he's in this mess you or her won't even hear from him again worked for me
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Is it worth going to jail? Be sure to think this out before you act because you don't really want a record if you don't have one these days. There are a lot of employers now days that check for this stuff and it could cost you a good job. If he's stalking her, have her file a report.
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The thing with that is they will file a report and at best pay the kid a visit that's it and if he was attacking her before he would probly be pissed off even more the next time he sees her chances are she would need to be in hospital before the authoritys take it serious enough to do out if you Scare him or give him a slap then he's getting the message first time around and he won't be running to the cops either he will simply stay away
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SirWasteAlot wrote:
I don't have a record and my girl said the sane thing, but I just can't sit back and watch as this fucker torments her. I already told my gf that if even touches her again I'm going to fuck him up royally.Is it worth going to jail? Be sure to think this out before you act because you don't really want a record if you don't have one these days. There are a lot of employers now days that check for this stuff and it could cost you a good job. If he's stalking her, have her file a report.
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Dont tell ur gf and just go out grab him and stamp all over him and then break his legs and let him know why but dnt show ur face the guy has to prove it was u who attacked him b4 u get a record for it be smart its only illegal if u get caught break him
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dannu23 wrote:
shed know it was me either wayDont tell ur gf and just go out grab him and stamp all over him and then break his legs and let him know why but dnt show ur face the guy has to prove it was u who attacked him b4 u get a record for it be smart its only illegal if u get caught break him
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The police will handle it, restraining orders sound like a must. If this doesn't work don't go over and beat him up, I know it's tempting, but it won't solve anything, just get you done for assault.
Just try to be supportive, and if all else fails, maybe a few threats, a letter or two through the door perhaps. Oh and if you write a letter wear gloves, it's unlikely it will come to fingerprints, but best to cover your tracks. -
Howard wrote:
the police were brought in when he attacked her, they didn't do anything. I've been very supportive but when he keeps bothering her I feel like I haven't done enoughThe police will handle it, restraining orders sound like a must. If this doesn't work don't go over and beat him up, I know it's tempting, but it won't solve anything, just get you done for assault.
Just try to be supportive, and if all else fails, maybe a few threats, a letter or two through the door perhaps. Oh and if you write a letter wear gloves, it's unlikely it will come to fingerprints, but best to cover your tracks. -
If your near Southern Cali...hit me up, I'll take care of it 4ya...I've got some frustrations I need to release on someone...& this sounds like a dam good reason...I can't stand wannabe tough guys n e ways!!
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Really? Nothing? Jesus, I understand how you feel then, you could try talking to a lawyer or someone to get a restraining order filed.
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Marvlas wrote:
thanks for the offer but sadly I don't live near south CaliIf your near Southern Cali...hit me up, I'll take care of it 4ya...I've got some frustrations I need to release on someone...& this sounds like a dam good reason...I can't stand wannabe tough guys n e ways!!
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Howard wrote:
yea they didn't do anything, a restraining order wouldn't do anything either.Really? Nothing? Jesus, I understand how you feel then, you could try talking to a lawyer or someone to get a restraining order filed.
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As a woman who has been abused, I can tell you that it may seem that you are not doing much, but you are. Provide a safe place for her to come home to where she knows she'll never have to deal with that crap again. Be the kind of guy she can call on in a pinch when she's in trouble who can keep a clear head and help get her to safety--this is hardest of all I think because it requires you to fight the urge to sit her in a corner while you pummel his ass. Most of all, though, just don't be that OTHER guy. Keep your record clean. Support her in legal ways. It's a long, hard battle, but it sounds like your heart is in it. Most of all--make the relationship about you two not that other crap that happened to her. She needs to move on and that's hard to do.
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Restraining orders aren't to keep people away. It's so when they don't stay away, it hurts.... A lot
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I always make it about me and her, but she was with this abusive prick for two years because she was afraid. Each time he starts shit it gets harder to not go out and stomp his ass. He knows I treat her way better than he ever could, but still he won't leave her alone. I'm just afraid that if I don't stop him now that I'll go off alot worse later on.
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dannu23 wrote:
No, something is illegal because it's against the law. Not getting caught does NOT make it legal.Dont tell ur gf and just go out grab him and stamp all over him and then break his legs and let him know why but dnt show ur face the guy has to prove it was u who attacked him b4 u get a record for it be smart its only illegal if u get caught break him
I don't know what stewbdoo said because it he didn't use punctuation.
Why is her ex able to reach her so easily?
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