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My 13 year old daughter had been having issues with a particular boy in school who was constantly bothering her. She finally had enough and told the boy to leave her alone and stop bothering her. His reply? He turned and punched her in the face! As she tried to retaliate a teacher came between the two and told the boy to keep his hands to himself. That's it?! When she came home she told me about the incident and I noticed a bruise in her cheek and under her eye, both if which were noticeably swollen. I called the school and informed the Dean that the school needed to take further action on this and that the boy's parents need to be made aware if the situation. Simply telling him to keep his hands to himself was unacceptable. The next morning the Dean called to inform me that he had spoken to the boy and that he was being suspended.....for 1 day! Seriously? I am sick and tired if the over abundance if poor parenting that seems to have now become the norm.
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Bottom line, teach your children that it is never acceptable to resolve situations by laying your hands on them. A 13 year old boy should know better by now not to punch people, especially girls
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I deal with this kind of crap everyday.
We recently had a kindergartner attack another group of students with a pair of scissors. I have had to physically restrain him several times and even had to carry him to the office once. I have also had to chase him on foot when he decided to leave the school.
His punishment, work in the office for 2 days. That was it. Parents wouldn't take him, daycare said, "Hell no we don't want him!" and so we were stuck with him.
The kids are getting away with so much stuff because the consequences aren't that bad. They don't feel the weight of the poor choices that they make. It's getting pretty bad (always been bad).
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ƑƦཇཇ☠ཀaʂ٥ท wrote:
Sounds an aweful lot like the rest of the world. Rapist and violent criminals let of the hook with slaps on the wrist and a "stern lecture" from a judge. Suddenly they are back on the streets doing no good.I deal with this kind of crap everyday.
We recently had a kindergartner attack another group of students with a pair of scissors. I have had to physically restrain him several times and even had to carry him to the office once. I have also had to chase him on foot when he decided to leave the school.
His punishment, work in the office for 2 days. That was it. Parents wouldn't take him, daycare said, "Hell no we don't want him!" and so we were stuck with him.
The kids are getting away with so much stuff because the consequences aren't that bad. They don't feel the weight of the poor choices that they make. It's getting pretty bad (always been bad).
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ƑƦཇཇ☠ཀaʂ٥ท wrote:
And we can't even spank them anymore under the threat of being arrested for child abuse?Pfffft. These kids today have it easy I tell you.I deal with this kind of crap everyday.
We recently had a kindergartner attack another group of students with a pair of scissors. I have had to physically restrain him several times and even had to carry him to the office once. I have also had to chase him on foot when he decided to leave the school.
His punishment, work in the office for 2 days. That was it. Parents wouldn't take him, daycare said, "Hell no we don't want him!" and so we were stuck with him.
The kids are getting away with so much stuff because the consequences aren't that bad. They don't feel the weight of the poor choices that they make. It's getting pretty bad (always been bad).
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💻ӈɑͭcͪĸͤєя💻 wrote:
She tried to fight back but the boy grabbed her arm. She had scratch marks from where he dug his nails in her. I have 4 daughters and ALL of them have been hit or punched by boys. The girls know that they have my full permission to defend themselves at any cost.➰♠FlαωlэssOG♠➰ wrote:
Agree, golden rule. Do on to someone that you want done to youTell her to punch him in the face and see what happens .
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Fuck that file for assault charges against this kid and get a restraining order.
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Babyyy wrote:
If he hits her or scratches her tell her to tell the dean and if he does nothing go to the superintendent and he doesn't do anything then go to the police and file for assault and in the report say that th superintendent didn't do anything💻ӈɑͭcͪĸͤєя💻 wrote:
She tried to fight back but the boy grabbed her arm. She had scratch marks from where he dug his nails in her. I have 4 daughters and ALL of them have been hit or punched by boys. The girls know that they have my full permission to defend themselves at any cost.➰♠FlαωlэssOG♠➰ wrote:
Agree, golden rule. Do on to someone that you want done to youTell her to punch him in the face and see what happens .
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YOU wrote:
You can file because the superintendent didn't take care of itBabyyy wrote:
If he hits her or scratches her tell her to tell the dean and if he does nothing go to the superintendent and he doesn't do anything then go to the police and file for assault and in the report say that th superintendent didn't do anything💻ӈɑͭcͪĸͤєя💻 wrote:
She tried to fight back but the boy grabbed her arm. She had scratch marks from where he dug his nails in her. I have 4 daughters and ALL of them have been hit or punched by boys. The girls know that they have my full permission to defend themselves at any cost.➰♠FlαωlэssOG♠➰ wrote:
Agree, golden rule. Do on to someone that you want done to youTell her to punch him in the face and see what happens .
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💀༄्ཧ़ཀंེབ།༨ཛყ༄💀 wrote:
Fuck that file for assault charges against this kid and get a restraining order.
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I'm not excusing any of these actions, and I really hope your daughter is ok. I'm just wondering where these children learn these behaviours? Are they seeing their father beating their mother? Are they getting beaten? I know a lot of harm has been done removing children from parents, but I honestly believe in some cases a lot of harm happens when they are left with bad parents. Too often we hear of abused children dieing at the hands of those who should be protecting them. I just really believe it is a responsibility to be a parent, not a right and to me having children like owning a pet, driving a car or owning a gun should only be permitted by those who have proven they have the ability to take on this responsibility.
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Kaͣrͩaͩs wrote:
If the school won't take care of it, then legal action's probably your best bet. If nothing else it'll scare the boy's parents into teaching him some decency💀༄्ཧ़ཀंེབ།༨ཛყ༄💀 wrote:
Fuck that file for assault charges against this kid and get a restraining order.
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Brad Lovegrove wrote:
Not if they are abusing him already. All they'll do is beat the shit out of him.Kaͣrͩaͩs wrote:
If the school won't take care of it, then legal action's probably your best bet. If nothing else it'll scare the boy's parents into teaching him some decency💀༄्ཧ़ཀंེབ།༨ཛყ༄💀 wrote:
Fuck that file for assault charges against this kid and get a restraining order.
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Hyena wrote:
Well social service can take care of that. Him getting his ass kicked by his parents is no excuse to put his hands on another kid. At that age you should have already learned right from wrong.Brad Lovegrove wrote:
Not if they are abusing him already. All they'll do is beat the shit out of him.Kaͣrͩaͩs wrote:
If the school won't take care of it, then legal action's probably your best bet. If nothing else it'll scare the boy's parents into teaching him some decency💀༄्ཧ़ཀंེབ།༨ཛყ༄💀 wrote:
Fuck that file for assault charges against this kid and get a restraining order.
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Hyena wrote:
Better him than her...Brad Lovegrove wrote:
Not if they are abusing him already. All they'll do is beat the shit out of him.Kaͣrͩaͩs wrote:
If the school won't take care of it, then legal action's probably your best bet. If nothing else it'll scare the boy's parents into teaching him some decency💀༄्ཧ़ཀंེབ།༨ཛყ༄💀 wrote:
Fuck that file for assault charges against this kid and get a restraining order.
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I do hope she's okay...
Wish you lived in a more strict district.. The problem with suspensions is that kids don't see them as punishments, they see them as vacations -_-
What they should have served him is Inschool suspension and
Multiple detentions. Hell, I once watched a kid foul another in a basketball game and get a longer suspension than that -_-make sure she knows that if that dumbass tries something physical again, there's nothing wrong with fattening his lip, the time honored way of behind the gym at 3:00👊
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I teach my son ju jitsu and muy Thai but he also knows that he's learning to fight so he doesn't have to. He had a lot of altercations with other kids and sure if your attacked attack back but he normally just gets them pinned down and waits for a teacher. There was only one time to we're he actually had to fight back.
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Hyena wrote:
Couldn't have said it better 👍👍👍I'm not excusing any of these actions, and I really hope your daughter is ok. I'm just wondering where these children learn these behaviours? Are they seeing their father beating their mother? Are they getting beaten? I know a lot of harm has been done removing children from parents, but I honestly believe in some cases a lot of harm happens when they are left with bad parents. Too often we hear of abused children dieing at the hands of those who should be protecting them. I just really believe it is a responsibility to be a parent, not a right and to me having children like owning a pet, driving a car or owning a gun should only be permitted by those who have proven they have the ability to take on this responsibility.
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Ʈɧḛ Ƥuɳḭʂђeŗ wrote:
My little half sister is taking karate lessons, and she loves it. Just make sure they have a class with the kids age group, and make sure she's not the only girl. My half sister is a girly-girl too. Makeup, dolls, etc. I never expected she'd enjoy it so much.I teach my son ju jitsu and muy Thai but he also knows that he's learning to fight so he doesn't have to. He had a lot of altercations with other kids and sure if your attacked attack back but he normally just gets them pinned down and waits for a teacher. There was only one time to we're he actually had to fight back.
I've witnessed her self esteem grow tremendously. Karate does wonders for young kids, and its a good release for their energy too. Pops loves that she comes home tired. You're not creating a monster either, because they are taught many, many ways to avoid fights. They're also taught honesty, accountability, and lots of virtues.
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Welcome to today's entitled society , no respect for anyone not even themselves , messed up everybody is to scared to scold and teach morals
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Before you "hang the bully", I'm sure there's another side here. While punching someone isn't an appropriate response, what was the untold reason for such aggression? Was this reaction the final blow of the girl bullying him?
Not saying this is the case, but... Girls can be friggin mean. Then, when things don't work out so well, they can put on an innocent face, hide behind their proverbial skirts and cry "but I'm just a girl".
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My dad is a martial arts instructor. He teaches women's and children's self defense classes. I understand the values that self defense classes can teach. In my daughters case, she was caught off guard but did try to defend herself. I'm just appalled at the schools that boast about their "Anti-bullying" policies but do little to uphold them. Some things look good on paper I suppose.
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I remember at my elementary school they always taught us to say "thats bullying and i dont like it" nobody ever said it because why the hell would a kid stop what he was doing just because you said so? Schools dont know shit when it comes to solving problems in their system. They need to do more to help children at home to stop bullying. And we have to admit that some people just arent cut out to be parents
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〓 Ｇ Ｅ Ｔ Ｃ Ｈ 〓 wrote:
I was waiting for a post like this. My daughter had been putting up with this boys name calling and harassing since the beginning of the year. She was finally fed up. Apparently the boy didn't like being stood up to when she told him to stop and to leave her alone. Other students witnessed the account and, when questioned by the Dean, their accounts were all the same. Even the boy himself admitted to punching her in the face and said it was because she "mouthed off" to him.Before you "hang the bully", I'm sure there's another side here. While punching someone isn't an appropriate response, what was the untold reason for such aggression? Was this reaction the final blow of the girl bullying him?
Not saying this is the case, but... Girls can be friggin mean. Then, when things don't work out so well, they can put on an innocent face, hide behind their proverbial skirts and cry "but I'm just a girl".
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Babyyy wrote:
You tell your daughter that next time a male (doesn't matter how old) tries to put his hands on her, she's supposed to kick that fucker square in the nuts just as hard as she possibly can. And then do it again if he doesn't fold up the first time.〓 Ｇ Ｅ Ｔ Ｃ Ｈ 〓 wrote:
I was waiting for a post like this. My daughter had been putting up with this boys name calling and harassing since the beginning of the year. She was finally fed up. Apparently the boy didn't like being stood up to when she told him to stop and to leave her alone. Other students witnessed the account and, when questioned by the Dean, their accounts were all the same. Even the boy himself admitted to punching her in the face and said it was because she "mouthed of" to himBefore you "✂.
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Ʈɧḛ Ƥuɳḭʂђeŗ wrote:
Genius. I do martial arts and if I had a daughter, I'd get her started early!I teach my son ju jitsu and muy Thai but he also knows that he's learning to fight so he doesn't have to. He had a lot of altercations with other kids and sure if your attacked attack back but he normally just gets them pinned down and waits for a teacher. There was only one time to we're he actually had to fight back.
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Times have changed for the worst. A Hundred years ago a "major offense" in school was talking in class, or being tardy--and was punished by a switching by the School Master, And school suspension was not a vacation back then, the child's parents were honorable and loved the child enough to give a punishment of their own in response to the disobedience, even the child understood the disgrace. But 60 years ago that all changed with the bible no longer being taught in schools, prayer being removed from daily routine. Now of course a "major offense" is assault and bringing "illegal substances" to class (including the bible in most states, on which the entire school system was based) It isn't just bad parenting that makes the child a coward and disobedient, it is also the school in which he spends 3 quarters of his day at. (cont.)...
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If at school he were taught morality from the bible--if he was taught more about a moral standard than of a respect for all standards--if due punishment was given for the disgraceful act of striking a girl, disrespecting authority, and not putting effort into studies then the system would work perfectly, but until the bible is brought back into the child's learning he has no reason respect anyone but himself.
Very sorry about your young daughter, but you know as well as I do there is absolutely nothing you can do about it--except change the system that allows it to go unnoticed.
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Babyyy i dont have right words but this makes me mad and sad and mad again. Huggys for your girl and you
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ᎠᎡᎾᎳ wrote:
Ridiculous, true the bible could be a good way to teach morals. But it all comes back to parenting. And the fact that more and more parents are skipping on raising children to be good citizens.If at school he were taught morality from the bible--if he was taught more about a moral standard than of a respect for all standards--if due punishment was given for the disgraceful act of striking a girl, disrespecting authority, and not putting effort into studies then the system would work perfectly, but until the bible is brought back into the child's learning he has no reason respect anyone but himself.
Very sorry about your young daughter, but you know as well as I do there is absolutely nothing you can do about it--except change the system that allows it to go unnoticed.
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The belt. It will solve so many parenting problems. When I was little my parents would pull it out I knew I was in trouble. This will help mold kids not to be assholes and think they can get away with anything that they do. It's an easy thing that's parents can use when a kid steps out of line.
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