Suspense
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Girlfriend just texted me and said we need to talk. I asked about what and she hasn't answered. The suspense is distracting me. ARRRGGGHH
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Well fuck.
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I got the "it's not you" shit. Fuck.
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That sucks 😿 sorry Newf!
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Ignore her now. Go out and have a lot of fun. Rub it in her face on FB. Do not under any circumstances take her back.
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Coulda been worse.....
It could of been you -
Yeah. Could of Bru. But everyone knows that the "it's not you" means that it's you.
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Anyways, fuck it. Who gives a fuck. It's only been a month.
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You're just being you. She's the one who's changed. The new her can't see herself with the you that you are. It really isn't you, it's her.
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Maybe Katie wrote:
Well said. 👍You're just being you. She's the one who's changed. The new her can't see herself with the you that you are. It really isn't you, it's her.
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We're only like 16. Obviously it seems young if you're older. Just a lot of shit went down in my life recently and she was kinda amazing, pretty, smart, almost like a path out of all the shit I've been into. But hey, plenty of fish in the sea and in pretty fucking young. Lots of time to fish ;)
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TheNewfieBullet wrote:
You're so young, don't be so serious. A tiny fraction of relationship started at your age last very long.We're only like 16. Obviously it seems young if you're older. Just a lot of shit went down in my life recently and she was kinda amazing, pretty, smart, almost like a path out of all the shit I've been into. But hey, plenty of fish in the sea and in pretty fucking young. Lots of time to fish ;)
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Maybe Katie wrote:
+1You're just being you. She's the one who's changed. The new her can't see herself with the you that you are. It really isn't you, it's her.
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Roger That wrote:
Yeah man, I know. Thought it would outlast a month though. Anyways, I kinda feel free. Only shitty part is admitting it to the b'ys.TheNewfieBullet wrote:
You're so young, don't be so serious. A tiny fraction of relationship started at your age last very long.We're only like 16. Obviously it seems young if you're older. Just a lot of shit went down in my life recently and she was kinda amazing, pretty, smart, almost like a path out of all the shit I've been into. But hey, plenty of fish in the sea and in pretty fucking young. Lots of time to fish ;)
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It's probably her who found the glory hole, n liked it! At least she broke it off instead of kissing you with protein bubblegum breathe. I've been to Newfoundland and it's as easy to get laid there, as getting wet falling in the ocean! Think about that with the next one, how many flatfooters did you shag? Food for thought!
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It's not you = I wanna fuck other people...
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༺☣ℳཞ71ᏤཡℬüᎦ☣༻ wrote:
ThisIt's not you = I wanna fuck other people...
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༺☣ℳཞ71ᏤཡℬüᎦ☣༻ wrote:
Haha, she was a good Christian. I would be surprised.It's not you = I wanna fuck other people...
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TheNewfieBullet wrote:
I wouldn't trust her. 😉༺☣ℳཞ71ᏤཡℬüᎦ☣༻ wrote:
Haha, she was a good Christian. I would be surprised.It's not you = I wanna fuck other people...
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“⚡Տɧɑƌøա₭ɪɲɠ⚡ wrote:
It's not you. It's someone else.༺☣ℳཞ71ᏤཡℬüᎦ☣༻ wrote:
ThisIt's not you = I wanna fuck other people...
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Dude if you're 16 you don't need to be wasting your time worrying about commitments with girls. They take up too much time and money. Go do fun stuff with your bros. Worry about the relationships later on down the road
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✵ᎢཡཇཇᏦ✵ wrote:
“⚡Տɧɑƌøա₭ɪɲɠ⚡ wrote:
It's not you. It's someone else.༺☣ℳཞ71ᏤཡℬüᎦ☣༻ wrote:
ThisIt's not you = I wanna fuck other people...
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Dude just sneak into her house in the middle of the night and kill her that solves everything
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Turf🐑Warrior wrote:
✊Dude if you're 16 you don't need to be wasting your time worrying about commitments with girls. They take up too much time and money. Go do fun stuff with your bros. Worry about the relationships later on down the road
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TheNewfieBullet wrote:
Well saidWe're only like 16. Obviously it seems young if you're older. Just a lot of shit went down in my life recently and she was kinda amazing, pretty, smart, almost like a path out of all the shit I've been into. But hey, plenty of fish in the sea and in pretty fucking young. Lots of time to fish ;)
I give kudos to you. -
Maybe Katie wrote:
Katie, that's just some weird female logic us guys will never understand. Ever. No matter how old we are.You're just being you. She's the one who's changed. The new her can't see herself with the you that you are. It really isn't you, it's her.
The "it isn't you" line is one of the classic transparent lies heard over and over again. The person saying it just doesn't have the courage to tell the other one the real reason why they're being dumped. Not that it matters because the message is still, "moving on and you're not included". -
First you lost your dildo then your girl? Sucks man sorry
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FBGM
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Joyride. wrote:
That could be the reason...😏First you lost your dildo then your girl? Sucks man sorry
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@ The Far Side - I don't think you can boil it down to a logic only used and understood by females. Dumpers everywhere of all genders use this excuse avoid having to own up to what they are really feeling. In youngers years it may be "It's not you, it's me". When older it may sound more like this "I feel that we've grown apart". Both scenarios show that the dumper has had an aha-moment of some sort that makes them unable, or unwilling, to continue the relationship. They may, as Bus mentioned, have met someone else. They may, as Bru mentioned, be unable to deal with a change that has occured (such as Newf losing the almighty Dildo). Or they may in fact suddenly be unable to oversee the little things, such as the way the dumpee eats soup while moaning (true story!). Whatever the reason, I believe it to be directly related to the sentiments of the dumper, not the dumpee. Whether the dumper can identify the reason or not, it really is them, not the person being dumped.
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Unless you were unfaithful ofcourse, but that is usually pretty straight forward...
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