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What is the number one rule for husband and wife for achieving a happy marriage that lasts forever?
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Trust
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🎸₩℣ӈɪƖƖßıƖƖγ🎸 wrote:
👍Trust
Trust is everything, without trust theirs no Love, without love there's no relationship -
1. Find a woman who will happily clean.
2. Find a woman with a sense of humor.
3. Find a woman who's good in bed.
4. 👆 THOSE 3 MUST NEVER MEET! -
Trauger Jogger wrote:
I lol'd. 😉1. Find a woman who will happily clean.
2. Find a woman with a sense of humor.
3. Find a woman who's good in bed.
4. 👆 THOSE 3 MUST NEVER MEET! -
The saying goes "happy wife, happy life". Words of wisdom right there
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Trust, respect and honor... If any of those are broken gotta keep yo pimp hand strong :P lol j/k
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Compromise.
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Pick your battles
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The start to any relationship is friendship, concentrate on the friendship and the rest is easy. 😉
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ℑབ།༨ཇའ4།༏۴ཇ™ wrote:
I'm still tryna get their after 10yrs...I'd say healthy communication is a must!The saying goes "happy wife, happy life". Words of wisdom right there
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Respect.
You have to respect each other enough to be open and honest.
You have to respect each others feelings.
You have to respect each other.
That's it.
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Ignore your wife explicably ( ??) but don't act like it.....j/k
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Don't ever ever ever become complacent in your marriage. Make sure your spouse feels wanted and needed.
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Trust. I have a stronger relationship with my wife than most anyone out there.
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Respect and communication. If you're having an issue you have to discuss it and work it out. Understand each others position and respect it. If you are not communicating you're in trouble.
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Trust, Communication, and unity/loyalty.
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👿ℳℝՏ Ҝⅈʟʟعℝ ₲👿 wrote:
Are you back?!Respect.
You have to respect each other enough to be open and honest.
You have to respect each others feelings.
You have to respect each other.
That's it.
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It also helps to not go to bed mad at each other
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Do NOT lie to each other about anything. Talk about EVERYTHING. Hiding things or holding back just makes things bad.
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Give each other space and NO nagging.
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〽Ⓓ Add: DUNN wrote:
Nope, most definately not. Just browsed the forums for the first time since being inactive :)👿ℳℝՏ Ҝⅈʟʟعℝ ₲👿 wrote:
Are you back?!Respect.
You have to respect each other enough to be open and honest.
You have to respect each others feelings.
You have to respect each other.
That's it.
MKG
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There isn't just one thing, but some things I have learned:
1. Trust
2. Don't stop "dating" Continue doing the things that won each other over in the first place.
3. Respect
4. Communication -
Everything being said here is like pillers. They are all important.
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Funky buffalo hit on the head compromise.
Trust doesn't even make my top 10. instead try openess and I'm not sure if that even a word. Being open and honest keeps everything out front. But everybody has a different kind of marriage from everyone else. -
After 22 years, I'll say agreeing at the start that stopping is not an option. Take the divorce word out of your world and that leaves you with one option - work it out.
My wife and I have had one of the harder marriages that I know of (we are very different types of people and both come from families with not so great histories of healthy life) so we've clashed, crashed and smashed each other in so many ways.)
I agree with all the comments above, and we've done them all, but if we didn't have the bottom line death-before-divorce agreement at the start, we'd have been done 22 times so far.
Oh, and she is the most wonderful, sexy, fun, caring, exciting, beautiful women there is - and my best friend.
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Almost everything above me is good.
Trust
Honesty/openness (Never hide anything)
Compromise
Pick your battles
Don't become complacent
Communicate (Which was hard for me and I'm still working on this one. I grew up in a family where we really couldn't come talk to our parents about our frustrations ever. But for those who don't communicate well, you just have to fight thru it and talk to them. Even if you have to step away for a bit, do it but go back to them and share your feelings). -
OttoNorse wrote:
Very commendable. But for me I was at the guns and roses point and divorce is better than that.After 22 years, I'll say agreeing at the start that stopping is not an option. Take the divorce word out of your world and that leaves you with one option - work it out.
My wife and I have had one of the harder marriages that I know of (we are very different types of people and both come from families with not so great histories of healthy life) so we've clashed, crashed and smashed each other in so many ways.)
I agree with all the comments above, and we've done them all, but if we didn't have the bottom line death-before-divorce agreement at the start, we'd have been done 22 times so far.
Oh, and she is the most wonderful, sexy, fun, caring, exciting, beautiful women there is - and my best friend.
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Trust or you will end up divorced like someone I know...
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SILENT SHADOW wrote:
OttoNorse wrote:
Very commendable. But for me I was at the guns and roses point and divorce is better than that.After 22 years...
Yeah, I was only talking for us. I can't tell anyone else what to do.
For us, it took a long (long) time to grow up (still working on it) and if we'd not stuck it out, we'd have missed out on the best thing in our lives.
We have never physically hurt one annother, but on every other level it's been sid/nancy at times.
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A relationship is built on trust but a family is held together by loyalty.
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