Life isn't worth living
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Recently my life has just turned and I don't want to live anymore, I get really stressed do I started smoking, managed to controll that and I have stopped, but I have no social life. I don't want to do anything but sit on my ps3 all day, so I put that in a droor and I'm not bringing it out but I feel so depressed and don't feel like life is worth it
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It's going to be very interesting to see how the community reacts to this.
How old are ya buddy?
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I used to be in the same spot. Go hang out with your friends, be adventurous, and have fun! Read books, play games, etc. life is for living! I promise you it'll get better. But f it's really bad, you should go get professional help.
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I'm not qualified to help but please don't do anything to yourself. Call a hotline, go see a family member, do something to take your mind in a different direction. I'm an old guy, trust me, it does get better, it's just hard to see it happening at this point. Pm me if you want to talk.
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Add RaiKou wrote:
13It's going to be very interesting to see how the community reacts to this.
How old are ya buddy?
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Сюмшдиdэя. Рщи wrote:
That's how old I was when it happened to me. It sucks, it really does, but start having fun again, hang out with your friends. If your friends have ps3, take that back out and play with them.Add RaiKou wrote:
13It's going to be very interesting to see how the community reacts to this.
How old are ya buddy?
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Instead of playing PS3 and smoking why not turn the situation into something positive? Go workout or do something productive. Never underestimate negative energy, use it to your advantage.
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To analyse is to paralyse. Don't think too much on anything but get out of the house and go for walks, meet friends,pick up an interest in something. Know that this will pass. Just ride it out buddy. I too was like that many years ago.
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Сюмшдиdэя. Рщи wrote:
O, you can afford to smoke? O, you can afford a ps3? Not that monetary gain is everything in life but it is certainly a blessing. Always remember that there is someone who has it a lot worse. Life is what you make it and sitting around doing the same routine is insanity. Go volunteer, go to the gym, go somewhere. Just find something you like to occupy your time and you'll be alrightRecently my life has just turned and I don't want to live anymore, I get really stressed do I started smoking, managed to controll that and I have stopped, but I have no social life. I don't want to do anything but sit on my ps3 all day, so I put that in a droor and I'm not bringing it out but I feel so depressed and don't feel like life is worth it
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It's called puberty....
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Travel to a third world country and see how people live there. Should give you a new perspective.
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🔫 wrote:
Try wrestling or kickboxing or working out.. helped me take out angerInstead of playing PS3 and smoking why not turn the situation into something positive? Go workout or do something productive. Never underestimate negative energy, use it to your advantage.
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💀nobody💀 wrote:
Not even that far. Go to your closest major city and see the amount of homeless and desperate people who would love to live in your shoesTravel to a third world country and see how people live there. Should give you a new perspective.
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ʗℝ₳ℤㄚℝㅌⅆℕⅇʗҜ wrote:
*not makin him feel better*It's called puberty....
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🔥zUntamed🔥 wrote:
Well said.The Right Hand wrote:
Doesn't matter. He may have depression or something, which you can't really help by realizing other people would love to live your life. It sucks for YOU, because YOU'RE depressed.💀nobody💀 wrote:
Not even that far. Go to your closest major city and see the amount of homeless and desperate people who would love to live in your shoesTravel to a third world country and see how people live there. Should give you a new perspective.
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Thanks for the feedback guys
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Сюмшдиdэя. Рщи wrote:
Take it easy friend. :)Thanks for the feedback guys
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That is life. It is a diverse experience that is not always positive. If you let it defeat and control you when at this point you can easily control it, you will destroy everything. Rationality, knowledge, and logic are different from emotions, urges, and instincts. You can think positive while feeling negative.
Don't let the emotions, etc. bring you down. See family members, play your PS3, do something that is positive and new. Skydive out of a plane if you have to to (not a typo) experience something new and mind changing. Life has phases, some longer than others, and each is unique in itself. You let it defeat you and it is pointless. I know people that have drilled their own Gand through their hand's nerve but never let that pit them down. More physical than emotional, bur still a potential downer all the same.
Will yourself to change. Don't let time do it, do it yourself and make a better life. Teenaged years are an emotional trip. It happens.
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What's it like living in Kilwinning?
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ИЕШ☠ВГЕЕD wrote:
Ditto. You could also find a hobby, spend time with friends and have a social life, or find comfort within your spiritual faith what ever it may be. And if none of those help then I suggest you seek professional help. Though never hesitate to come to the forums, there would always be someone who'll lend an ear.🔫 wrote:
Try wrestling or kickboxing or working out.. helped me take out angerInstead of playing PS3 and smoking why not turn the situation into something positive? Go workout or do something productive. Never underestimate negative energy, use it to your advantage.
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★★St. BIGWIL★★ wrote:
Really you looked at my location.What's it like living in Kilwinning?
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I'm going to go against the grain here and say leave the PS3 in the drawer unless you have another person in the room playing with you.
Online gaming with people you don't know or see isn't real social interaction.
Trade for a more social hobby. RC car racing, sports; if money is tight Ping Pong🔍 or Pool 🎱 at your local rec center.
13 is a tough age. It is hard to figure out who you are because things change fast at that age.
Now, I'll put on my parent uniform for this next bit (sorry, but it has to be done).
You're just now getting to the age where your decisions start to matter. Bad Decisions, like smoking, make life harder in the future. When you realize that you've made a Bad Decision start to correct it and learn from the experience.
If you can't tell a good decision from a bad one then ask around. -
Hey, feel your pulse, do you feel a heartbeat? If so that means you have a reason for living, don't worry man you will push through this.
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vishbume wrote:
Well said vish old buddy. 👍To analyse is to paralyse. Don't think too much on anything but get out of the house and go for walks, meet friends,pick up an interest in something. Know that this will pass. Just ride it out buddy. I too was like that many years ago.
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Being 13 is hard. Girl problems, popularity problems, parental problems, puberty. Good lord being a teenager sucked... If you looked at it like that. But I promise you you don't get those years back. So make the best of it. All these things that suck now dont mean shit when you become an adult. You will have a new set of problems and will look back and wish you enjoyed this part of your life. Don't waste it. If your having trouble getting friends bc you don't think you are cool enough, just try. Find someone not intimidating who makes you laugh, or you make them laugh.
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Little by little you will make friends (and it doesn't have to be the popular kids either, I swear on my own life their gonna all knock each other up senior year anyways, you dont want any part of that I promise) like everyone said, play ps3 with your friends, or go work out. I'm 23 and I have those days. You just gotta push through it, there's always a better day after the bad one.
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Add RaiKou wrote:
👍👍👍Being 13 is hard. Girl problems, popularity problems, parental problems, puberty. Good lord being a teenager sucked... If you looked at it like that. But I promise you you don't get those years back. So make the best of it. All these things that suck now dont mean shit when you become an adult. You will have a new set of problems and will look back and wish you enjoyed this part of your life. Don't waste it. If your having trouble getting friends bc you don't think you are cool enough, just try. Find someone not intimidating who makes you laugh, or you make them laugh.
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And like they said, if this stays permanent and or gets worse, talk to an adult you trust, you might need some professional help. And I don't mean your crazy. A lot of kids these days have the option for chemical balancing medicine and physiologists spending years in school just to help people like you find those answers. Or at least learn to cope. I personally thig medication should be a last resort and there's nothing better then tackling those emotions by yourself. Good luck and pm me if you need to talk. I can assure you, you are NOT alone.
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(I'm sure you guys can do the mental spell checks for me as you read along, that was a lot. Thanks)
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Keep going man as every one said keep pushing through I'm going through the same things just not puberty that already passed me
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Сюмшдиdэя. Рщи wrote:
Life has its ups and downs, its just how life works, if you need help im sure lots of your family and friends will be supportive, you just gotta ask them for help. I hope this helps you feel better :)Recently my life has just turned and I don't want to live anymore, I get really stressed do I started smoking, managed to controll that and I have stopped, but I have no social life. I don't want to do anything but sit on my ps3 all day, so I put that in a droor and I'm not bringing it out but I feel so depressed and don't feel like life is worth it
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