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Ok guys I'm in a situation that I need help, in May there was this girl I liked and I texted her all the time and she told me she loved me very often but we werent dating, but then one day she says she looks at me as a little brother, so with her saying that I held it against her as she played me and was bitter towards her all of summer. But then in September I let it go. And had been fine all the way up until now, because I found out she liked me the same time I liked her, and now I don't know what to do because some of those feelings are coming back but i also like this other girl, but at the same time she's datin a friend of mine and I don't know what to do. Advice please
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Whats so bad about being a little bro to someone? If he's a good friend dont do anything. My friend found that out the hard way.
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I don't have an answer but I feel for you man
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☣Golden Dino☣ wrote:
I've been that friend one time. Ruined our relationship because we were best friends. Learned my lesson, and I don't plan on doing it again. My advice is to look elsewhereWhats so bad about being a little bro to someone? If he's a good friend dont do anything. My friend found that out the hard way.
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If you think you won't regret it do nothing a good friend with the sort of bond it seems you have from your post doesn't come along everyday.
If you will regret it try everything you can to get her you might end up losing out but at least you won't be forever wondering what if? -
Bruenor wrote:
I understand the meaning but I really don't see how it applies to me.It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all ~ quote from some dead person, but truth be told, you can take that anyway you want to.
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Sorry my bad, shouldnt be here in the forums.. up late.. Can't focus.
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Bruenor wrote:
It's fine, I don't even know why I'm up.Sorry my bad, shouldnt be here in the forums.. up late.. Can't focus.
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Little brother? Ouch...
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I hope it works out, somehow
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I think some advice from girls could Help out to.
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How old are you, and the girl? That would affect my advice
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Joshua James wrote:
I'm 14 and the girl is 16.How old are you, and the girl? That would affect my advice
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If you want to ask the first girl out, ask her out. If you don't then don't. Hell ask out that other girl too if you want. Your friend will hate you but that's bound to happen anyway.
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Philosopher wrote:
True an also there's one thing I forgot to mention me and the girl are good friends we've known each other for about 5 years and my brother and her sister always said we would end up Dating each other.If you want to ask the first girl out, ask her out. If you don't then don't. Hell ask out that other girl too if you want. Your friend will hate you but that's bound to happen anyway.
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Also I don't know if she likes me anymore
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Well, do what ya gotta do but trust me on one thing: you won't be friends with probably 90% of the people you know in 5 years. You won't hate them but people just change and drift apart. Don't let the fact that you're friends now and have been in the past sway what you want for your future. Chances are it won't even matter anyway.
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Philosopher wrote:
Very wise words and I will take it into account thankyou.Well, do what ya gotta do but trust me on one thing: you won't be friends with probably 90% of the people you know in 5 years. You won't hate them but people just change and drift apart. Don't let the fact that you're friends now and have been in the past sway what you want for your future. Chances are it won't even matter anyway.
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What if I play hard to get like she is the girl who asks almost every guy for a hug, should I tell her Not to give me one like I have been doing but text her very often. I mean I don't know it's just an idea.
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Isnt there a better place to ask questions like these like friends or family?
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Mr. Stienen wrote:
1 I don't have a lot of friends at least some that I can talk to and 2 My family has told me that she isn't for me so they couldn't help me out.Isnt there a better place to ask questions like these like friends or family?
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Well, I'm a girl, so let's just put that into clarification. First off, where would you go? You're what, like not even out of middle school(or are you a freshman)? There's only so long you could date each other without getting married, which you'd definently be too young. My advice is to wait and see how things work for a few years. If you still like her after a few years of not obsessing over her, then fine, I suggest you take the next step when you feel the time is right. Love that's true will last a few years without dying, even when there's nothing to keep it burning.
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Sister Shadow wrote:
Yea your right and yea I'm a freshmen so I guess it really doesn't matter, I will just wait and be patient and see what happens.Well, I'm a girl, so let's just put that into clarification. First off, where would you go? You're what, like not even out of middle school(or are you a freshman)? There's only so long you could date each other without getting married, which you'd definently be too young. My advice is to wait and see how things work for a few years. If you still like her after a few years of not obsessing over her, then fine, I suggest you take the next step when you feel the time is right. Love that's true will last a few years without dying, even when there's nothing to keep it burning.
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So yea I think I might be giving up on this girl I was texting her today and I just got this unwanted feeling like she didn't want to talk to me, 😢 oh well time to move on again but there will always be that thought of what if I wasn't such an idiot and I had not takin the little brother thing so harshly, oh well I might never know.
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JrMiScHiEf wrote:
Honestly dude, don't throw it all away. Don't let this ruin your friendship. She might look back on this someday and wish that she had said something different, texted you back, anything to bring back that friendship that she lost. Don't let this ruin you, or your friendship, by having to avoid her whenever you see her. Run after her. Even if you aren't meant to be together, that doesn't mean you have to be apart.So yea I think I might be giving up on this girl I was texting her today and I just got this unwanted feeling like she didn't want to talk to me, 😢 oh well time to move on again but there will always be that thought of what if I wasn't such an idiot and I had not takin the little brother thing so harshly, oh well I might never know.
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Sister Shadow wrote:
Wow that just totally brightened my day thanks for that.😃JrMiScHiEf wrote:
Honestly dude, don't throw it all away. Don't let this ruin your friendship. She might look back on this someday and wish that she had said something different, texted you back, anything to bring back that friendship that she lost. Don't let this ruin you, or your friendship, by having to avoid her whenever you see her. Run after her. Even if you aren't meant to be together, that doesn't mean you have to be apart.So yea I think I might be giving up on this girl I was texting her today and I just got this unwanted feeling like she didn't want to talk to me, 😢 oh well time to move on again but there will always be that thought of what if I wasn't such an idiot and I had not takin the little brother thing so harshly, oh well I might never know.
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^You're welcome😊 Remember, everything will be alright in the end. If it isn't alright, it isn't the end. 🌈🌅
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Just ask her out the worst answer is "no" go to the next
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⬆You're not a girl, are you?
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There is actually a huge difference between a 14 year old guy & a 16 year old girl. I'd say stay friends with her for now. In your 20's & up 2 years isn't a big deal. Right now it is.
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Mystery wrote:
Me and her aren't actually 2 years apart more like a year and a half but yea I was thinking about that.There is actually a huge difference between a 14 year old guy & a 16 year old girl. I'd say stay friends with her for now. In your 20's & up 2 years isn't a big deal. Right now it is.
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