Hey guys, you were all Teenagers once, help please.
Forums › General Discussion › Hey guys, you were all Teenagers once, help please.-
I've lost a lot in the past few months. Early last month i was on the "edge" so to speak (You should know what that means...) Then i met a girl that changed my life. She completely understands me. And i love her. (I've had 2 people i've actually loved in my life before, this isn't "puppy love.") She now lives in canada and she's not sure if our relationship will last over the video cam. I'm sure as hell i could do it, but i don't know what she's thinking... Since she's left i've been back into my "old slump" like before. My friends are trying to talk to me about it but it doesn't help. I was thinking about dropping everything and driving to canada. I don't know what i'd do without her..
Any advice would be appreciated.
And i'm not going to just "get over it." I know some people out there have gotten the "This is my one and only love" feeling before. Forgetting isn't an option. -
Go for it man ;)
-
Continue the love
-
Never give up man. Don't listen to what others tell you. Do what's in your heart.
As far as she goes, show her that you're committed. Talk to her every day. Tell her every day you love her. Send her shit in the mail if it's not too expensive. Tell her every day that you're not gonna stop trying, that you are going to just give up.
As cheesy as this line is, "absence makes the heart grow fonder" you've already realized that, and she will too eventually
-
Never give up. Thts the worst thing you could do cuz you'll regret it forever (I know from experience :/ )
-
YOU wrote:
That you AREN'T going to just give upNever give up man. Don't listen to what others tell you. Do what's in your heart.
As far as she goes, show her that you're committed. Talk to her every day. Tell her every day you love her. Send her shit in the mail if it's not too expensive. Tell her every day that you're not gonna stop trying, that you are going to just give up.
As cheesy as this line is, "absence makes the heart grow fonder" you've already realized that, and she will too eventually
-
I'm not sure what on the edge is, so if you pm me with what that means, I can try to help.
-
Visiting would be good, but dropping everything as a teenager is too extreme. You have your whole life ahead of you and if she truly loves you then she won't drop you.
-
Zebulon Pike wrote:
ThisVisiting would be good, but dropping everything as a teenager is too extreme. You have your whole life ahead of you and if she truly loves you then she won't drop you.
-
Go to Canada or get over it drama queen!
-
Primo wrote:
See, this idiotic remark makes me want to throw up.Go to Canada or get over it drama queen!
You know, i bet you haven't lost friends and family in a span of 3 months. I don't think that's being dramatic.
-
Drive to her, take the chance! You'll live to regret it with the "what if" thoughts.
-
Zebulon Pike wrote:
Thanks, but see, i live 2500 miles away. Visits aren't going to happen much. And when i say drop everything i mean take my savings and move up there to be with her. Honestly, if i lose her, i don't feel like i have anything else to live for. Maybe that's just my heart talking but it really hurts to lose so much.Visiting would be good, but dropping everything as a teenager is too extreme. You have your whole life ahead of you and if she truly loves you then she won't drop you.
-
2500 miles away?! The only thing you should be dropping is some sweet turfs along the way... Good luck man.
-
Zebulon Pike wrote:
Word of wisdom 👆👆👆Visiting would be good, but dropping everything as a teenager is too extreme. You have your whole life ahead of you and if she truly loves you then she won't drop you.
-
KrazyEyesKillah wrote:
Actually, that's not a bad idea. I'll hop to her hometown. It won't solve my problem, but it'll keep me occupied for sure.2500 miles away?! The only thing you should be dropping is some sweet turfs along the way... Good luck man.
Thank you all for your advice, i think i'm going to try to go there soon. If you have any other ideas feel free to post😓
I still don't know what i'm going to do about money though.
-
Rather than using all of your life savings to move up to her, take a vacation (or an extended one If you have $$) and see how things are still going. You two could even vacation somewhere together/meet half way. The other problem is that if she isn't serious enough, then you could be out a lot, so be sure of what you will do.
-
Zebulon Pike wrote:
That's my dillema.Rather than using all of your life savings to move up to her, take a vacation (or an extended one If you have $$) and see how things are still going. You two could even vacation somewhere together/meet half way. The other problem is that if she isn't serious enough, then you could be out a lot, so be sure of what you will do.
I don't know if she's as serious as i am. -
👿ℳℝՏ Ҝⅈʟʟعℝ ₲👿 wrote:
I would I've been with my Gf for 5 yrs we've been through alot and I would of (and still would) drop everything and go to china if she asked and I know she would do the same 💞Drive to her, take the chance! You'll live to regret it with the "what if" thoughts.
Talk to her, if she wants you there as much as you want her there she'll help you get a place to stay an a place to work.
DO IT SMART.
Work together.
Make it Happen
😽 Best of luck Chiken -
Chiken wrote:
Have you tried discussing being serious?Zebulon Pike wrote:
That's my dillema.Rather than using all of your life savings to move up to her, take a vacation (or an extended one If you have $$) and see how things are still going. You two could even vacation somewhere together/meet half way. The other problem is that if she isn't serious enough, then you could be out a lot, so be sure of what you will do.
I don't know if she's as serious as i am. -
I agree with anyone who said that you should keep at it. I wouldn't try to move up with her, though. If you're in the teens still, a lot can happen. If you believe in "fate" or "destiny", or something along those lines, you'll stay together if you're meant to. And if she truly feels the same way towards you, she'll try to make things work too. However, even if you both decide to "take a break" from your relationship because you feel it isn't working, you may end up back together. That's what happened with my parents. But still, if she breaks up with you, that just shows that there's someone better than her out there for you.
-
How old are you two??
-
Morgan Freeman wrote:
Not much of a destiny/fate guy myself. More of a "Where there's a will there's a way" type of person. That's besides the point though. I'm not the richest person. Not poor, but by all means i don't have enough money to travel there and back very often at all...I agree with anyone who said that you should keep at it. I wouldn't try to move up with her, though. If you're in the teens still, a lot can happen. If you believe in "fate" or "destiny", or something along those lines, you'll stay together if you're meant to. And if she truly feels the same way towards you, she'll try to make things work too. However, even if you both decide to "take a break" from your relationship because you feel it isn't working, you may end up back together. That's what happened with my parents. But still, if she breaks up with you, that just shows that there's someone better than her out there for you.
-
By that i mean Yearly if even that.
-
Just found something out.
She's going to Ottawa for two weeks this summer.
Hm.
I take this as a chance. -
Have faith in yourself.
i was first with my GF when i was 12 she then dumped me but 7 years later we're together again and hae been for 3years 2months.
the heart is a beautiful thing but it can also be a dreaded thing when broken.
true loe defeats all in its way even long distance. me and my GF were thinking of splitting up after xmas because we've been through alot(Infertility etc...)
but like it was mentioned earlier, you both have too be truely commited.
why not do it like one year you go visit her for 1-2months and the year after she comes to visit you for 1-2months until you finish school and build a career for yourself then think of the more permanent side. -
Never gonna give you up
Never gonna let you down
Never gonna run around and desert you
Never gonna make you cry
Never gonna say goodbye
Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you -
FussyJosh wrote:
If you've been together that long and would like to start a family, shouldn't you get married?Have faith in yourself.
i was first with my GF when i was 12 she then dumped me but 7 years later we're together again and hae been for 3years 2months.
the heart is a beautiful thing but it can also be a dreaded thing when broken.
true loe defeats all in its way even long distance. me and my GF were thinking of splitting up after xmas because we've been through alot(Infertility etc...)
but like it was mentioned earlier, you both have too be truely commited.
why not do it like one year you go visit her for 1-2months and the year after she comes to visit you for 1-2months until you finish school and build a career for yourself then think of the more permanent side. -
We're planning too this year (:
-
I met a girl when I was up in north dakota (I live in Kansas), and we ended up really liking each other. She was 15 and I was 17. We decided to try the long distance thing. 4 years later we now live happily together in Wichita since last April. We weren't dating the whole time, but all other relationships didn't work for either of us. So anything is possible 😊
-
FussyJosh wrote:
That's nice.We're planning too this year (:
![[][]](https://turfwarsapp.com/img/app/ajax-forbutton.gif)
Purchase Respect Points NEW! · Support · Turf Map · Terms · Privacy
©2021 MeanFreePath LLC