Does This Count as a Rejection?

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V. An. Scaletta Dec 25, 2011

I was exempt from school one day so I asked my friends to ask a girl out for me while I wasn't at school. They did, and here's what she said (according to my friend that asked her out): "I'm kinda dating somebody, sorry." Do you all think that counts as a rejection or a "just wait"? PS-My friend said that she deliberately smiled when he asked her.
🇮🇱Tinea🦶Pedis🇮🇱 Dec 25, 2011

Start looking for option B.
DCB Dec 25, 2011

She's just not into you.... I agree with Sabasaul.. option B
☠️EYESOFDEATH☠️ Dec 25, 2011

I still don't see why you didn't wait until you were back in school to ask her
₳ⅅⅅ: GUNN1 Dec 25, 2011

⚡Жж•ㄕĦʘミℵĭㄨ•жЖ⚡ wrote:
Just fuck her best friend...

I don't think he fucks if he's in school, kid u need to wait a while then ask her again...when she doesn't have a bf. 👍
★ʗℝ₳ℤㄚℝㅌⅆℕⅇʗҜ★ Dec 25, 2011

Not a rejection just honesty stop getting the cart In front of the horse. It wiil happen when the time is right. What if she was your GF and others were asking her out. How'd you feel? But here's a bit of advice..... A leopard never changes it's spots if she'd do that to him she'll do it to you as well....
bugster Dec 25, 2011

A boyfriend? So what. You need to nut up and tell her how it is. Don't let " a boyfriend" stand in the way.

You need to learn what women are deep down. Boyfriends and husbands are mere Speedbumps. Slay that pun-tang boy!
V. An. Scaletta Dec 25, 2011

There is no damn "Option B"! And I'm 14 years old, I'm not going to rape her fatty lard bucket friend; that would just make her mad! @brendend-I was going to do it myself after Christmas when I gathered the courage, but my friends wanted to do it. @GunnGunn-I think your advice is the best so far.
slugboy Dec 25, 2011

Kinda have a bf, sounds like a blow off to me
Johnny Cage Dec 25, 2011

There's always men 👨
C. Salvatore Dec 25, 2011

Kid listin to gun so u don't lose ur chance the next time u ask when the Time is right you'll get the girl
Jason L Dec 25, 2011

Johnny Cage wrote:
There's always men 👨

No, no there is not.
Tommy Gun Tony Dec 25, 2011

Look somewhere else bro. Hate to be the bearer of bad news but take it from a dude who's been there before. Pursue other options. Don't let some girl fuck wit ur head, just move on.
Add MARC Dec 25, 2011

brendend wrote:
I still don't see why you didn't wait until you were back in school to ask her

Cause he's lyk 12 n talkin t girls givs u cooties :) got t agree wiv option B
uksspy Dec 25, 2011

Don't lose her attention keep doing nice things for her until she's available.
♠️ADD TURFA♠️ Dec 25, 2011

uksspy wrote:
Don't lose her attention keep doing nice things for her until she's available.

This is about it buddy. Be friends with her, and wait till her 'kinda bf' is gone. If she sees that you've stuck around and you're still keen on her, then dude, she's gonna be impressed.

Take it from me. I should know. I've done it before and we were together for a long time.
Dovely Dec 25, 2011

bugster wrote:
A boyfriend? So what. You need to nut up and tell her how it is. Don't let " a boyfriend" stand in the way.

You need to learn what women are deep down. Boyfriends and husbands are mere Speedbumps. Slay that pun-tang boy!

That's horrible advice. To persue her at this time would be disrespectful towards her and her present bf. Huge turn off. Trust me. Keep being "friends" until things change. But the next time you want to ask a girl out make sure u do it in person and no go betweens. This will show confidence and she will know that you are comfortable around her. A girl will often sat no even if she thinks she likes the guy, because she is uncomfortable and can tell that the guy is as well.
How old are you ? Just curious cuz your actions were so uber cute.
BakedBananas Dec 25, 2011

If a friend of a friend asked me out I'd say the same thing. She may have thought they were winding her up, so declined to save her own face. Ask her YOURSELF and see if you get the same response.
bugster Dec 25, 2011

No way dovely. He's 14. Bf and GF are meaningless at that age. It's not like the cohabitate or split utility bills or anything. It's freshman year nonsense.

If he waits around he's the fool. He either needs to move on to a new chick or keep trying with her.

Nice guys finish last and you don't want to be such a good friend you never get a turn.

Lots of chicks out there. Run the field. Have a good time. You've got all your adult life to settle down and play the married game.
mango12 Dec 25, 2011

I let them come to me but dont get in the freind zone