IVF cycle with my wife Pray for us
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Ʈℍㅌ ʘㄕㅌℝ₳₮ミℝ wrote:
14-16weeks earliest possible "quickening"VitoRitz wrote:
I think they feel butterflies type sensation from 10ish(?) weeks.... If that's what you mean. But before that and maybe after that it's too smallQuick question for the woman of turf war or anyone else who has had there wife get pregnant. Did you feel any type of twinges at the vert early phases?
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🌷You are a great man, keep positive! All the best to you and your wife, good Luke.🌷
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My wife took the hOme pregnancy tesy and it came back negative her appointment is Christmas eve for the blood test which she thinks she's not pregnant and this would be really shitty the wait is like torture
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remember that her hCG level has to be high enough for the test to detect. very early in pregnancy there's just not enough hormone for the test to detect! tell her NOT to stress yet, Vito, although I know, it really is like torture. the waiting will make you crazy. If it will make her feel better, she can pee on a stick every day, but make sure she does it in the morning.
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VitoRitz wrote:
Still hoping for you. You're right, though, it seems like torture even from the outside looking in.My wife took the hOme pregnancy tesy and it came back negative her appointment is Christmas eve for the blood test which she thinks she's not pregnant and this would be really shitty the wait is like torture
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MK💉Ultra wrote:
She knows what she's talking about. There's a reason they wait 2 weeks before they do the blood test. Try & stay positive & most importantly try and stay as relaxed as possible. Stay positive. Best of luck to the both of you.remember that her hCG level has to be high enough for the test to detect. very early in pregnancy there's just not enough hormone for the test to detect! tell her NOT to stress yet, Vito, although I know, it really is like torture. the waiting will make you crazy. If it will make her feel better, she can pee on a stick every day, but make sure she does it in the morning.
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We are still pulling for you two. With my first pregnancy I tested negative at 10 days past IUI and again at 13 days past IUI. I didn't get a positive until day 16. It may just be too soon.
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Thanks Sab, Karma, MK and Mrs Ikslopot I hope we fall into the same boat and the negative turns to a positive today was like dejavu when we had gone this summer for the ultra sound to find out we had the last baby. I'll keep praying and hope Saturday will have good news. Just the waiting is like slow motion torture, sort a football game and us losing in the fourth quarter by 21 points and hoping to get an interception and score some quick downs. I'll keep you all posted I think I'll go visit a church, synagogue and mosque this week and pray like crazy
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VitoRitz wrote:
My family sponsered a girl too! :D good luckYa I am so anxious I am praying it will be positive and to have to wait to Christmas eve is even harder but my wife is off work now relaxing
I'm going to donate money to charity if it's positive or not in the new year, we sponsored an orphan last year in Iraq for a girl who lost her father during the war through someone I knew. We would like to do the same with a child in another country doesn't matter which country, a child is a child and I have a soft spot for orphans because it must be hard not to have their parents god bless them and protect them
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also... i did research a while back... caffeine and stress an cause hormonal imbalances causing a false negative... cut out caffiene and relax. best of luck👍 we have too wait until next april :(
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Thanks Fussy If the news is negative this week I'm afraid im going to retire from TW and rethink about life and what my wife and I will do. I feel like crap now no matter what anyone says also I haven't told anyone no family or anything maybe I'll take time off from work re evaluate life what goals o have feel very lost now and like crap. A girl at work just had twins and another guy had his second baby and he's 5 years younger than me I don't think I ever felt this low or depressed ever in my life
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VitoRitz wrote:
Don't give up. There are many, many ways to have a child be a part of your life. This isn't the right time to think about those ways, perhaps, but anyone with dedication to a process like IVF has a lot to offer.Thanks Fussy If the news is negative this week I'm afraid im going to retire from TW and rethink about life and what my wife and I will do. I feel like crap now no matter what anyone says also I haven't told anyone no family or anything maybe I'll take time off from work re evaluate life what goals o have feel very lost now and like crap. A girl at work just had twins and another guy had his second baby and he's 5 years younger than me I don't think I ever felt this low or depressed ever in my life
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I thought you meant like a like and easter egg hunt and you found 5 eggs but then i read and put them in mai wife hope all goes well bro
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I have friends who went through IVF unsuccessfully and so they stopped trying, few weeks later she fell pregnant. There is always hope, I wish you guys the best of luck.
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I wish you could talk to my parents, vito. I know they went through a few ivf cycles that didn't work out well. My mom says after awhile she realized that she just wanted to be a mom and my dad, just a dad. My sister and I are adopted and she says that they needed to try but she thanks god for the way things turned out cause she couldn't imagine her life without us. She says we were born not from her womb, but from her heart. Good luck to you.
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VitoRitz wrote:
Be strong for your wife mate, i understand how it feels. Will keep you both in my prayers tonight.Thanks Fussy If the news is negative this week I'm afraid im going to retire from TW and rethink about life and what my wife and I will do. I feel like crap now no matter what anyone says also I haven't told anyone no family or anything maybe I'll take time off from work re evaluate life what goals o have feel very lost now and like crap. A girl at work just had twins and another guy had his second baby and he's 5 years younger than me I don't think I ever felt this low or depressed ever in my life
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A few more days can you imagine we will find out the good or bad news on Saturday Christmas eve when we have a family Christmas dinner and no one knows about us going through this cycle.
It's been a crazy crazy week I don't even know how I have made it through, actually I have been a bit better because we still have hope and this is destiny that we cannot control. I just hope and pray every day and won't give up
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Keep believing Vito. You have friends here with you every step of the way, praying for success. Whatever the outcome, don't give up on your dreams.
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Thank you a million times Mr-Nice*guy that means the world to me we won't give up
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of you need a chat vito i'll be free in 30mins...
you are a strong man and an inspiration!
your wife needs you too stay strong for her and we'll be here every step of the way👍 -
FussyJosh wrote:
of you need a chat vito i'll be free in 30mins...
you are a strong man and an inspiration!
your wife needs you too stay strong for her and we'll be here every step of the way👍Thanks so much Bro:) TW community is the best honestly priceless I have no idea what I would do without everyone's support
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You just have too remember...
many of us have gone/going through it (:
stay strong and best if luck too you both -
God, mate. Pray to God. No matter what happens, he cares about you indefinitely. Whether you have a baby or not will never change that. He has created millions of boys and girls that became rejected by their parents or somehow orphaned at a young age. If IVF doesn't work, God may be telling you to adopt a child in need. I'm praying for you, too.
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BakedBananas wrote:
Good luck.
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We will find out today what ever happens it's the will of God and I accept that 100% without any anger at least we tried and have no regrets :)
Will keep trying and nit give upThank you all again for your support it's helped us more than you will ever know
👍👍👍👊👊👊
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VitoRitz wrote:
Good luck! I know how u feel.. After our daughter died of SIDS in 2006 me and my husband have been trying to get pregnant ever since with no luck as I have poly cystic ovaries. We r now looking at hormone treatments but may end up having to do the same as u have. I feel your pain. I'm not religious but this is 1 thing I will pray for.. Don't give up! Good luck!Thank you everyone huge hugs to everyone I'll find out tomorrow if the eggs get fertilized my fingers are crossed.
I've been feeling really depressed with highs and lowsthe miscarriage was tough during the summer.
But I'm trying to stay positive that we don't give up but worry that time is ticking and if I could never have a baby with my wife who I am crazy about that would really F??!? Suck
I think I would want to just get away from everything but trying to stay positive -
Came back negative :( :(
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Good luck I'll pray for y'all
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I'm sorry for you and your family, Vito. I hope you stick around and let us be a sounding board for your frustrations-- I know you said that if the news wasn't good you might leave TW, and I hope you don't. Thinking of you.
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MK💉Ultra wrote:
👆👆👆👆I'm sorry for you and your family, Vito. I hope you stick around and let us be a sounding board for your frustrations-- I know you said that if the news wasn't good you might leave TW, and I hope you don't. Thinking of you.
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