🎀 Deal Breakers
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What is/are something(s) that are total deal breakers for you in a relationship? For example, do they have to have a college education? Do you only date girls with long hair and if they cut it all off to a pixie cut (no matter how cool the chick was) would you break up with her?
I once broke up with someone because he had bad breath. I, personally, couldn't sleep with someone who wears those "shoes" with the toes. Obviously, I wouldn't date someone who doesn't like kids. Its a deal breaker if someone is racially intolerant or is really bothered by homosexuality.
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I have a horrible habit of basing compatibility on intelligence so that tends to be a deal breaker if she isn't smart. Also if she shows to be super judgemental about anything it'll bug me. About all I can think about right now
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Wouldn't even date a smoker.
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What B said n chicks that'll just sleep with anyone. I want someone who's clean. But that's not a good example. Personal hygene is important. One of my exs picked her nose n put her boogers on the wall n blamed her 5 year old sister..... She was 16 at the time that wasn't the only thing I noticed she did. She didn't eat with spoons or forks. Purely hands. Even in public... Even if I give her 2 or 3 forks to eat spagettii with she wouldn't use them and she.... Idk just smelled weird. I'm a guy that won't do the breakin up I tried everythin to make her break up with me but she wouldn't so I was just tired of it n left her funky ass. There's nothin wrong with her mentally either she was an honor student in avid at my school so...
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⚡JUNIOR⚡ wrote:
Why would you wait for her to dump you? I would have just dumped her stright up. And I agree with you bad hygiene is a big turn off.What B said n chicks that'll just sleep with anyone. I want someone who's clean. But that's not a good example. Personal hygene is important. One of my exs picked her nose n put her boogers on the wall n blamed her 5 year old sister..... She was 16 at the time that wasn't the only thing I noticed she did. She didn't eat with spoons or forks. Purely hands. Even in public... Even if I give her 2 or 3 forks to eat spagettii with she wouldn't use them and she.... Idk just smelled weird. I'm a guy that won't do the breakin up I tried everythin to make her break up with me but she wouldn't so I was just tired of it n left her funky ass. There's nothin wrong with her mentally either she was an honor student in avid at my school so...
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Hmmm deal breakers for me would probably be, a guy who goes out and gets drunk all the time, a guy who is overly flirty with other girls, a guy who doesn't have a passion for cars (I am a revhead, work in the automotive industry and have a passion for cars). The other things would be smoking, cigarettes or weed are a complete deal breaker for me.
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This is a good question. Thiers a lot of stuff that can be a deal breaker. My top 3 are
1) Bad Hygine
2) Bad Attitude
3) Lack of Maturity
4) Someone who is always unoptimistic.
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A bad temper or excessive drinking gets the boot.
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Someone who cheats.
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Lying. Ugh, I hate liars. Before I moved, I was kinda hooking up with someone who was actually a pathological liar. Lied about literally almost everything that came out of his mouth. Stuff that didn't matter even. Totally random things like telling me he & his roommates were on a month to month lease when they had just renewed their 12 month lease.
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Justin Duran wrote:
cuz I feel like a dick after I do it that's why I let the girls leave me. She was the only chick I left (her and another one who cheated on me)Why would you wait for her to dump you? I would have just dumped her stright up. And I agree with you bad hygiene is a big turn off.
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When I was dating I wanted a Christian woman who had very good character. They has to be honest to the point that I'd never doubt anything they ever told me. Cannot have a bad temper. I don't put up with people taking their bad day out on me as I won't do it to them. Smoking is a deal breaker. Don't mind if they drink as long as its not an every night thing or that they have to constantly need babysat every time they drink. Good morals. I can't stand fake people either. As a Christian I have run into my fair share of fake people.
And I am proud to say I found someone who meets all of that criteria. And I knew within a few weeks this was the woman I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Hadn't met anyone like her.
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Awwww (puke) Jk TDub. You guys are super cute.
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I asked Viper and Saba.. They said its a 100% deal breaker of the guy isn't a good dancer
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There's really too many deal breakers to list. I'm picky.
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I only date left handed redheads (strawberry blonde counts). Strangely, it just turns out that way for as long as I can remember.
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I would have a hard time with the obese 😳 also, i really couldn't deal with someone extremely close minded and conservative. Or, anyone that thinks it's ok to impose their moral code on everyone else.
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Pinarello wrote:
Those & someone with no direction or motivation. Also, close-talkers freak me out. Another thing- I don't think I could be serious w/ an uncircumcised dude..it's like it doesn't have a face, no personality. Plus, they intimidate me.i really couldn't deal with someone extremely close minded and conservative. Or, anyone that thinks it's ok to impose their moral code on everyone else.
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ℬeƖƖɑIƗɑƖiɑɳɑ wrote:
*half TW goes to doctors to get a willy trim!!*Pinarello wrote:
Those & someone with no direction or motivation. Also, close-talkers freak me out. Another thing- I don't think I could be serious w/ an uncircumcised dude..it's like it doesn't have a face, no personality. Plus, they intimidate me.i really couldn't deal with someone extremely close minded and conservative. Or, anyone that thinks it's ok to impose their moral code on everyone else.
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ℬeƖƖɑIƗɑƖiɑɳɑ wrote:
Now that's a bit shallowPinarello wrote:
Those & someone with no direction or motivation. Also, close-talkers freak me out. Another thing- I don't think I could be serious w/ an uncircumcised dude..it's like it doesn't have a face, no personality. Plus, they intimidate me.i really couldn't deal with someone extremely close minded and conservative. Or, anyone that thinks it's ok to impose their moral code on everyone else.
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Killing Man wrote:
✂🍆👌ℬeƖƖɑIƗɑƖiɑɳɑ wrote:
Now that's a bit shallowPinarello wrote:
Those & someone with no direction or motivation. Also, close-talkers freak me out. Another thing- I don't think I could be serious w/ an uncircumcised dude..it's like it doesn't have a face, no personality. Plus, they intimidate me.i really couldn't deal with someone extremely close minded and conservative. Or, anyone that thinks it's ok to impose their moral code on everyone else.
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Killing Man wrote:
Guess we know who I won't be in a long term relationship with. 😳ℬeƖƖɑIƗɑƖiɑɳɑ wrote:
Now that's a bit shallowPinarello wrote:
Those & someone with no direction or motivation. Also, close-talkers freak me out. Another thing- I don't think I could be serious w/ an uncircumcised dude..it's like it doesn't have a face, no personality. Plus, they intimidate me.i really couldn't deal with someone extremely close minded and conservative. Or, anyone that thinks it's ok to impose their moral code on everyone else.
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Mikey2Times wrote:
aaahahahaha👏👏I asked Viper and Saba.. They said its a 100% deal breaker of the guy isn't a good dancer
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I was always way more of a pain to date than anyone I dated. My passions are demanding and take a lot of time. I have a lot of energy. I am very competitive. Consequentially, I had a long list to meet. I dated a lot but always wore gals out. I love to cook. I am an elitist. Education is essential. Ethics is a must. Women that read newspapers, discuss news, literature, ideas, art, poetry and hang out with the intelligencia were what I sought. Intelligence, wit, lightness of being, and a sweet disposition are things that I thought as positives. Most important for me was finding a strong confident woman who shared similar values with me. I dated accomplished professionals in many fields. Females who didn't stack up didn't get dates with me. Also, I looked for women who are compassionate. Volunteering or/and charity was seen as a plus with me.
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I seemed to find many lawyers, social workers, doctors, teachers, and vets. I tried dating other artists but at some point discovered that did not work for me as I needed more variety. When I met my wife it was very obvious early on she was the one. A couple years later I proposed. 💍
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This is probably shallow, but I like a girl who is lighter and shorter than me. I just think its plain weird seeing a fat bird with a skinny guy or a tall girl with a little man...
But I think what is most important is that she isn't a game player, tells the truth and is honest about what she wants, seriously if you are just gonna hint them get upset when I don't pick it up, then dont hint damnit!!!
Non smoking would be better, and some one who wants to be a couple and share everything not just a part.
I'm lucky, I found all that! -
We both love cooking together and enjoy working together on all of our projects. I think this ability to work together, laugh at our mistakes, and the joy we feel when we are together is everything. I also think that our strong belief and support of one another lift us up. my wife constantly inspires me and has been an amazing presence in my life. I don't know what I would do without her. 'Her' and 'I' have became 'us' and 'we'. That has been fun. It is the best feeling to see one another succeed and a heart hurt when we fall but we are together either way. That is the best part. Good luck to all you singles.
I would recommend holding out until you find the one. Don't compromise. They are out there. When you find them it is amazing. I never imagined I would be married and yet it happened. 👌
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Ok? I just thought it was odd that u mentioned a steak knife during foreplay. It struck me as odd and I'm thinking to myself y'all must be into some weird shit. Cuz some ppl have odd fetishes like some ppl get off by having ppl regurgitate on them. So I did not know
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Any kind of intolerance to another human being is a deal breaker for me, jealousy is a deal breaker for me, I don't get jealous so they shouldn't either.
I dumped someone once for showing signs of being dependant, I really get uncomfortable when people are like that, although I did date someone once who admitted that they had been obsessed/kinda stalking me after spotting me at a club lol that should have Been a deal breaker!
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Girls who are rude to people in the service industry. I broke up with this one girl because she never made eye contact with waiters or bartenders. If they were dressed as a clown, she seriously wouldn't even notice. I'm pretty out going, and I usually end up making friends of the staff at my usually hangouts. So I actually really couldn't help but be bothered by her actions with people.
Oh I also avoid people who mention watching shows regularly that I feel are bad for society. Jersey Shore, Kardashians, hills. Shows I give the benefit of the doubt to, and then regret ever seeing. Shows with no artistic direction, or depth.
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ℬeƖƖɑIƗɑƖiɑɳɑ wrote:
I'm circumcised, I'm just saying that reason alone is shallow in my opinionKilling Man wrote:
Guess we know who I won't be in a long term relationship with. 😳ℬeƖƖɑIƗɑƖiɑɳɑ wrote:
Now that's a bit shallowPinarello wrote:
Those & someone with no direction or motivation. Also, close-talkers freak me out. Another thing- I don't think I could be serious w/ an uncircumcised dude..it's like it doesn't have a face, no personality. Plus, they intimidate me.i really couldn't deal with someone extremely close minded and conservative. Or, anyone that thinks it's ok to impose their moral code on everyone else.
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