My mom is in the hospital.
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My dad just came home to tell me that my mom has appendicitis and is in the hospital and found out she needs to get a surgery. It's the first time something like this has happened. I already made a prayer.
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There is not much that you can do but I'm so sorry that this happened
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itl all be good surgons know what theyre doin and it happens everyday
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Try to stay calm. Any younger siblings you can talk to? In general make sure you are more of a help to your parents during this time. I'm sorry this happened to our mom. My brother's appendix ruptured, he complained about his abs hurting for at least two weeks before he just passed out one day. Thankfully he was still living at home, parents found him, rushed to the ER, had the surgery the next day, doc said he's never seen it so bad. My bro was 14 at the time. That was 4 years ago, no problems with him (besides being an emotional teen) since!
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Yo im really sorry but you cant to anything, its up to the doctors
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bee ryan wrote:
I'm the only child I'll talk to my friends soon.Try to stay calm. Any younger siblings you can talk to? In general make sure you are more of a help to your parents during this time. I'm sorry this happened to our mom. My brother's appendix ruptured, he complained about his abs hurting for at least two weeks before he just passed out one day. Thankfully he was still living at home, parents found him, rushed to the ER, had the surgery the next day, doc said he's never seen it so bad. My bro was 14 at the time. That was 4 years ago, no problems with him (besides being an emotional teen) since!
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it may be my appendix but i dont complain a crap load cuz i dont wana be called a girl or w.e. i kinda have a rep for pain tollerence. but my right side like right at the bottom of my ribs have been having some pain. like it feels like it hurts for a second goes a way for ten and hurts again. kinda like a heAd ache
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Appendacitus is very common and the doctors know wat there doing I'm sure ure mum will be ok !!
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any thought to it out there any docs? lol
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No worries.
Just make sure to stay calm, and help your dad out by being there and not a distraction. You can do this...and you will be fine. -
As long as it's not burst everything is ok, procedure is fairly straight forward. If it is acute and has burst it can take longer. My dad was rushed in with acute, it burst literally in hospital, luckily they rushed him in to theatre and all was ok, it did take 3 hours though. Stay positive and I hope your mum makes a fast recovery.
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i❇ᎠεᎦτףφλ wrote:
I've looking it up is it a sharp pain? You getting shivers. If so go to a doctor right away.it may be my appendix but i dont complain a crap load cuz i dont wana be called a girl or w.e. i kinda have a rep for pain tollerence. but my right side like right at the bottom of my ribs have been having some pain. like it feels like it hurts for a second goes a way for ten and hurts again. kinda like a heAd ache
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She should be ok. My best friend had something wrong with his appendix. He got surgery and then he was happier than ever! Sorry to here this though 😥
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Paging dr p
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Yes appendicitis is very common all the surgery will do is remove it, stay calm and stay positive, but still I will say a prayer for you, all should be fine though
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Sir talk a lot wrote:
ya it is but not a sharp enough pain to say that hurt but ik it does. it doesnt happen constantly but once in a while, passed 2 weeks really. but what do u mean about shivers?i❇ᎠεᎦτףφλ wrote:
I've looking it up is it a sharp pain? You getting shivers. If so go to a doctor right away.it may be my appendix but i dont complain a crap load cuz i dont wana be called a girl or w.e. i kinda have a rep for pain tollerence. but my right side like right at the bottom of my ribs have been having some pain. like it feels like it hurts for a second goes a way for ten and hurts again. kinda like a heAd ache
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i❇ᎠεᎦτףφλ wrote:
U know when your cold u shiver. Just type it in there is websites of what it is. How it's cured and the side effects.Sir talk a lot wrote:
ya it is but not a sharp enough pain to say that hurt but ik it does. it doesnt happen constantly but once in a while, passed 2 weeks really. but what do u mean about shivers?i❇ᎠεᎦτףφλ wrote:
I've looking it up is it a sharp pain? You getting shivers. If so go to a doctor right away.it may be my appendix but i dont complain a crap load cuz i dont wana be called a girl or w.e. i kinda have a rep for pain tollerence. but my right side like right at the bottom of my ribs have been having some pain. like it feels like it hurts for a second goes a way for ten and hurts again. kinda like a heAd ache
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My son, Bones73 had an appendectomy. He wasn't in the hospital 24hrs. Only made 4 really small incisions. Recovered really fast.
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Thank you guys. I didn't know that you guys still cared about me and my mom.
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I'll bring up updates.
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It sounds like the docs caught it in time, that's. Good thing. This is a very routine surgery, your mom should be fine. Just be helpful for the next few weeks, healing up after this one can be a little rough so mom might get a little cranky once in a while.
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Hang on there and help her out when she gets home because she will be sore for a while. Good Luck.
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* hang in
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Best of luck. My mom just had breast cancer surgery and is starting radiology, lots of time in the hospital.
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i❇ᎠεᎦτףφλ wrote:
Exactly. Sir talk a lot I'm sorry this happened but she will be ok. If u haven't yet, take her some flowersitl all be good surgons know what theyre doin and it happens everyday
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Sir talk a lot wrote:
Well this is real life stuff dude. Nobody wishes any I'll will towards you or your mom. No matter if you don't like someone or the way they act on the forums doesn't mean you don't feel compassion for them.Thank you guys. I didn't know that you guys still cared about me and my mom.
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My son had that I dec. Try to help her with house .
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Turn to the Internet. Educate yourself about the surgery and recovery time. See what you can do to make her life easier for the next month or so. The best medicine is ❤LOVE❤. My mom pasted away awhile ago. So appreciate her AS MUCH AS YOU CAN. And let her know you'll always be there for her in any situation she's in. I'll pray for her also. Much respect 🙏
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Sorry to Here that Bro. It's good they Cought it & she is In Hospital. Surgery sounds bad but is good they will Fix her right up. Like everyone said just Help your Dad out & your mom when she gets home. The Best thing you can Do is give Suport & Not make it hard on you Parents. Sorry again to here this But I'll Pray for a Swift Recovery. In Game players might not care For you but when there is an Real life Problem I've Seen Players Suport you in your Hard Times & even tho we have not Meet chatting on here will help you I now from My Exp on here & Real Life. FF
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🔥⌖ Renegade ⌖🔥 wrote:
It sounds like the docs caught it in time, that's. Good thing. This is a very routine surgery, your mom should be fine. Just be helpful for the next few weeks, healing up after this one can be a little rough so mom might get a little cranky once in a while.
pretty much what I was going to say. just really help her out while she's recovering at home. tidy up, help with any siblings, bring her ice water, let her control the remote, and just make sure her recovery time is peaceful and quiet.
she'll be just fine. it's a scary thing but quite routine if caught early like this was.
take good care!
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Don't get her flowers just now as she is probably OD'd on them from other people. Get her some in a couple of weeks or so when all the others have gone.
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