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Ok im kind of a trouble kid when it comes to everything. My mouth being my biggest problem. Im on thin ice with my mom, if i fuck up again im getting kicked out. I have 2 months left of school.. Whats the best way to get back on the good side with still being me? Or do i actually have to male the effort to change my ways for the last 2 months? Idk
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Keep your trap shut is a good way to start
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Buy her something nice, and just keep quiet.
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As a parent (and a former kid), let me say this: most kids are so busy "being me" that they forget (or never realize) that their parents are actually trying to help them mature into successful adults. It may well seem like they are bent on crimpin' your style in every way possible, but they really do have your best interests at heart. (Assuming they're not the abusive types, etc). Try to see it from the parents' viewpoint: are they =really= being unreasonable, or are you being stubborn about your pride? Perhaps there's a way you can each meet half-way.....
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Or just don't say anything bad?
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Bugsy✯Siegel wrote:
Exactly. Best way is quit "being you". If you are on this thin of ice then you most likely need to straighten up. Treat people with the same respect you want to be treated.Keep your trap shut is a good way to start
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Doc Xray wrote:
Amen.As a parent (and a former kid), let me say this: most kids are so busy "being me" that they forget (or never realize) that their parents are actually trying to help them mature into successful adults. It may well seem like they are bent on crimpin' your style in every way possible, but they really do have your best interests at heart. (Assuming they're not the abusive types, etc). Try to see it from the parents' viewpoint: are they =really= being unreasonable, or are you being stubborn about your pride? Perhaps there's a way you can each meet half-way.....
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Ok. Ill see what i can do. Cuz im tryna spend next tuesday with my gf and get some of that birthday sex! But naw like ill try. I need some ADD medicine or something
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Trust me your mother & father
will do anything 4 u ( even there life) as a kid we all think we know better but your parents try there best please trust them, one day you will be the same ❎ -
There's a school called hard knocks (basically it's the school of real life) you and only you can choose your path. But each path has its rewards and consequences. But from my expierence if you do the right things in life your reward is far greater than doing the bad. Choose wisely young one. ♦
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Ηξ₦R♆ (reset) wrote:
That makes you speed bro.Ok. Ill see what i can do. Cuz im tryna spend next tuesday with my gf and get some of that birthday sex! But naw like ill try. I need some ADD medicine or something
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Yeah, that's a good idea. Pretend you respect her for just the last 2 months, then tell her to fuck off.
"Thanks for nothin', Bitch!"
You gotta be you, right?
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What doc said. I've worked with teens for the past 30 years and my advice has always been the same.
Do what your parents ask the first time they ask. Because in the end your gonna do what they say so cut out all the crap and arguing and just do what they want.
You'll find that in a couple years that your parents were a he'll of alot smarter then you thought
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Bugsy✯Siegel wrote:
👆👆👆👆Keep your trap shut is a good way to start
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Dude, can you just sit down and THINK for a second. This woman spent hours giving birth to you, she fed you when your ass was hungry, helped provide a roof over your head, and I'm guessing she's flipping the bill for you to play this game. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure what you need to do. If anything could you just simply say "Mom Thank You For What You Have Done For Me".
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Howard wrote:
Gift from Blackpool perhaps Donkey RideBuy her something nice, and just keep quiet.
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Killa Whale♠♠ wrote:
Don't forget wiped your ass. She cleaned your tears when you cried. Gave you hugs when you needed them. .... Not matter how old you are or how old you are trying to be. You will always be a kid in her eyes. And if you have younger siblings, well guess what? You have to be a good example, not show little Jimmy how to disrespect mom when she's already had a frustrating day of working or whatever she does to make sure you, little Henry becomes a responsible adult oneday not an over grown brat that swears the world is against him. Do you have any idea what your moms heart feels like inside when tell her to basically fuck off. Do You??!!! It fucken breaks and feels like shit, just like the time that one girl broke your heart. Yeah something like that... But who gives a shit, right?This woman spent hours giving birth to you, she fed you when your ass was hungry, helped provide a roof over your head, .
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Yo Henry I'm 19, I been there fuckin up in high school. I barely graduated from an alternative school and made a lot of other bad choices. When my parents tried to check me I let my stubbornness and my pride get in the way. I now don't have a relationship with my father at all, there are other reasons I don't care to put out here and it was a poor attitude and actions on both sides. I try not to say I regret anything I did but I know I've made mistakes. I ain't gonna say don't be yourself, change completely or any of that cuz I'd feel like a hypocrite but really think about what you do before things go to far. I can say I do that now for the most part and I'd say I'm a better person. I'm not perfect though no one is and will never be. If you need to talk hit me up, I'm sure we could relate.✌
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1) Show your Mom you got your shit together in life 2) Respect her point of view.
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Ηξ₦R♆ (reset) wrote:
Ok. Ill see what i can do. Cuz im tryna spend next tuesday with my gf and get some of that birthday sex! But naw like ill try. I need some ADD medicine or something
You don't need ADD meds. You need to have your ass whipped. I'm going out on a limb here and say that you probably didn't get your share of ass whippings.
It should be obvious to you by now that 'being you' isn't working out. Sit down and actually listen to your mom and follow some of her advice. The world needs fewer douchebags.
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Best thing that ever happened to me was going to court, but it's obvious that isn't enough to change you. I don't know, just figure this one out on yourself. If you're actually willing to make some changes, something will happen.
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RevStraylight wrote: The world needs fewer douchebags.
Hey, it's the Alabama racist.🙎👊U are right though, we need less of u in this world
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Henry, you know I love ya, but frankly I'd have kicked yer tail end by now just for your mouth 😜. That being said, there's some good advice up there 👆. Follow it. Keep yer trap shut. Obey your mom. Be honest. Do what you know is right ('cause somewhere in there if you know you screwed up, then you have at least some idea of what the right thing to do is). A nice conversation to start with your mom might be..."Mom, I screwed up. How do I turn this around?" No fair punkin' out if she hits you between the eyes with the truth when she answers at that point. And if you really love her, now's a good time to learn how to say it. 💗 you, kid. Get it together or I'll have to come to VA and kick your tail end myself.
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Henry....Bunny? Really? I remember a cool ground bear that went by groundhog...but bunny?
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BUNNY? WTF
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Tumble✭weed wrote:
cuz i wanted something that was soft and doesNt do much. I reset again cuz im just done with the game.ChainedHunter wrote:
For once I have to agree this kid👊❕👍BUNNY? WTF
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Go ask her instead of us. Even if you don't apologize, which is a good idea, saying you don't want fvck up the relationship any more for the next couple months could go a long way
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You changed your name to bunny?
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Thuglial wrote:
No. It clearly still says Henry Solis.You changed your name to bunny?
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TrailerTrash wrote:
LolThuglial wrote:
No. It clearly still says Henry Solis.You changed your name to bunny?
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The best way to get by in life, i think... is to understand what the people in your life really want, this may not always suit you, but it can benefit you if you decide to do it, so, your mum most likely wants you to think before you speak or think before you act, take the time to consider others feeling apart from your own, honesty is a major part of life too, admitting when your wrong and having the courage to accept it can go a long way 👍
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