Personal advise I would like.
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Ok stupid I may be but here is the situation:
I like this girl a lot, she and I work at the same place at in similar shifts. Well she had a bf and that's why I didn't try anything; however I found out she broke up with her bf 4 days ago ( she is not regretting or having any post relationship issues). She knows I like her (everyone knows). But I simply don't know what to do or how to get her to give me a chance! 😿
I really like her.Anything y'all can help pls tell me!
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If you work at a food place then you should try asking her to get something to eat at the end of your shifts. If not just tell her you'd like to go to a bar or something hope that helps 😌
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Well if everyone knows, then she probably does.
Wait a lil while longer but up the flirting. Show restraint but also reinforce your liking, then ask her out -
OneThumbBastard wrote:
I thought about it that way. But I can't help it.You should not date a co-worker. Don't get your meat where you get your bread👊❕👍
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OneThumbBastard wrote:
That is absolutely correct. I've seen so many Inter-work relationships go bad, it's not funny.You should not date a co-worker. Don't get your meat where you get your bread👊❕👍
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Tell her you have something to "show" her on break. You'll know if she is interested if you don't get a sexual harassment charge.
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Advise is the action advice is the thing the advisor gives.
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Well basically it's like this, your ego is afraid of being turned down by her. So you have to decide is your ego more important or do you take the chance knowing that whatever the outcome the sun will rise tomorrow and you will have either a positive outcome or se le'vie. That's Life.
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Sorry about the spellin.
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If you are up to the task, ask her about her break-up and have a serious conversation. Girls generally want to talk about things like that. And it shows concern for her well-being. If she's smart, she will get the message. But if you're going to make a move, wait a week or so after you talk to her about that. Even if she seems to not regret it (which is making me wonder if you've already engaged in this step; if she's only just said a thing or two that made you think that, ask her to sit with you during your lunch break and talk about it), she will not want to immediately jump into a new relationship. No sane person can really go from one relationship straight into another. If she does, that's a bad sign.
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Just ask her if she likes you
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(add) CAMO wrote:
Everyone knows that that rarely works. And after a break up, she won't want to hear that.Just ask her if she likes you
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emasterp wrote:
haha Id go with this one if I were u 😄 👍👍👍👍👍Tell her you have something to "show" her on break. You'll know if she is interested if you don't get a sexual harassment charge.
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Mention Turf Wars. Have her download that shit, and get her invite code. Then run game through PM.
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emasterp wrote:
😹 lmao that's the worst advice ever..... You should try it 😏Tell her you have something to "show" her on break. You'll know if she is interested if you don't get a sexual harassment charge.
actually no this is
"YOU SHOULD PUNCH HER, if she says anything resembling that she's in pain, ask her out.... If she says no or anything along the lines of you're crazy.... PUNCH HER AGAIN >:D "
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you should try that too lmao -
Tell her all about turf wars. Go into great detail. Impress her with your gps-based conquests! 😺👍
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joezingg:) wrote:
This. Use that lunch break to learn more about her, then see if there's a movie to go to another time. This is actually shockingly similar to my bro's situation, virtually the same workplace environment, too nervous to ask out, find out she's single, and then work up the courage to ask her out on dates. Today my bro has been married to that same woman for two years now.If you work at a food place then you should try asking her to get something to eat at the end of your shifts. If not just tell her you'd like to go to a bar or something hope that helps 😌
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Also have confidence. Why do you think women come out more when you're taken. You have more confidence n they sense that. Just think to yourself a no is a no. Who cares about the answer just go for it.
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Give it à try yannow you wint die if you fail
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emasterp wrote:
That's the worst advice everTell her you have something to "show" her on break. You'll know if she is interested if you don't get a sexual harassment charge.
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Offer her some afternoon delight ;)
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Jimmy Needles wrote:
What woman wouldnt get turned on by that!?Tell her all about turf wars. Go into great detail. Impress her with your gps-based conquests! 😺👍
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stupid wrote:
Only the ones who wernt previously men lol ✂✂✂✂✂Jimmy Needles wrote:
What woman wouldnt get turned on by that!?Tell her all about turf wars. Go into great detail. Impress her with your gps-based conquests! 😺👍
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emasterp wrote:
👍.. Did that to a chick at work she liked it!Tell her you have something to "show" her on break. You'll know if she is interested if you don't get a sexual harassment charge.
Yea it didn't work out after a few lunch break screws..
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I've been throu this exact thing. Trick is to play it cool-ish never come across shy or greatful to be near her. Act like you would normally do. Make her laugh and talk to her.
In my situation we were talking about a film that just came out and we both wanted to see. So my exact words were come let's go on Friday to watch it. She agreed then we went to a bar afterwards and chatted. -
Ask if she can suck an apple through a tennis racket, and then gauge her reaction.
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TMT wrote:
LOLAsk if she can suck an apple through a tennis racket, and then gauge her reaction.
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She only knows "work" you. That's probably not the best impression. When ever you and your friends are going to hang out, invite her along. Make sure you going to do something that shows her your best qualities, other than being punctual and following orders from the boss. Be yourself, if she's interested you'll have something to talk about at work (that's not work related)
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Guy at my work just quit because office relationship didn't work out. Couldnt stand being around her if she wasn't with him. Just sayin
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Spooky Ooky wrote:
OTB y do u delete every comment u make? R u scared of something? Y bother even post...OneThumbBastard wrote:
I thought about it that way. But I can't help it.You should not date a co-worker. Don't get your meat where you get your bread👊❕👍
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Wait, forget my last piece of brilliance. You should definitely go with this route.
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