😥My grandpa past away. How can I make myself feel better😥
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Please if you have any advice that will help me today and in the future please right it down. Thank you for your time.
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Just don't think about him. I tried to that and it works. I still miss him though
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Talk to a close friend, family member or teacher about how you feel. Talking eases the pain bro. 👍chin up👍
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Sorry for your loss
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Put the game down for starters. Some people avaiid the issue, me I like to think of the person who passed. Think about the smiles u shared and their life, was is good. Find comfort in those thoughts and u will hopefully be proud of the time u shared together and their lifes greatness should ease their loss. Death is something that has to be accepted in order to heal, celebrate life more than morning(sp) death. But thatsjust howi deal with it.
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Avoid not avalid
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James87♏🅿🅰 wrote:
Talk to a close friend, family member or teacher about how you feel. Talking eases the pain bro. 👍chin up👍
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I lost all my grandparents (four regular, and a pair of step grandfolk) by the time I was a freshman in college. I mostly smoked a lot of weed to cope. I realized i was going through this phase of loss earlier than most of my friends. at a time when all you do is fight for your parents and friends to acknowledge your maturity, I capitalized on it by keeping a strong facade for my parents.
I'm not advocating doing drugs and building walls but it can buy you time if you're struggling to get your shit together.
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🐱 mama tek wrote:
Ah Tek, I love your posts and usually agree with you, but building walls and drugs are not the best ideas in my opinion. I lost both my parents by age 19 and I feel his pain. Reach out to your family and friends. They will comfort you. I'm very sorry for your loss.I lost all my grandparents (four regular, and a pair of step grandfolk) by the time I was a freshman in college. I mostly smoked a lot of weed to cope. I realized i was going through this phase of loss earlier than most of my friends. at a time when all you do is fight for your parents and friends to acknowledge your maturity, I capitalized on it by keeping a strong facade for my parents.
I'm not advocating doing drugs and building walls but it can buy you time if you're struggling to get your shit together.
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Call 211 and ask if there's a group that relates to grieving the loss of a loved one. Do not try and forget him, he was important to you.
Talk about him to your family and friends.
211 is a community resource information line
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Sorry for your loss. I was 13 when I lost my grandmother and it hit very hard because she was my world. I remembered all the good times and like they say it's hard at first but talk to friends and family ands time heals everything.
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Sorry to hear But SMOKE WEED
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You need to greive bro, a good cry and flip out is a good thing, my gran was my world and when she passed I just bottled it up and it haunted me for years, I have only just(11yrs later) learned to cope, so let it all out👍👍👍👍
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I know it's been said already but grieving is part of the natural healing process. Focus on celebrating the life your grandpa had. Feeling down and depressed about it is natural. Take some time to heal talk to your family about it. I lost my dad a couple of years ago. I know ur pain and I'm sorry u have to go through this experience.
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Troggy 🙎👊₲➋Ⓗ wrote:
It's now believed that it depends on the person and sometimes just giving yourself some time alone helps.James87♏🅿🅰 wrote:
Talk to a close friend, family member or teacher about how you feel. Talking eases the pain bro. 👍chin up👍
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When my grandparents died I just played a lot of very simple games. One was a super simple version of solitaire. Seemed to keep my mind off the grief just enough.
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I lost my grandfather 5 years ago. And my other grandpa died back when I was 2-3 years old. It sucks when I walk into grandparents day at school and see all the other kids with there grandpas. It sucks when I think about him too much and cry. But at the end of the day, you can come out stronger. Cry or get sad if you feel the need but make sure to get back to life after a few days. Unfortunatly for my family since we lost both grandfathers, both sides of my family have become hostile towards each other (one side we just don't talk to anymore and the other side has been making some big arguments and kinda wrecked Christmas) Hopefully you can get past the sadness. It's terrible but I agree just talk to some family members, remember that crying is normal when someone close has died (your not a wimp). Sorry for your loss and hope you can come back stronger in the end.
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Sorry about your loss. Think on how he is not feeling any more pain. I lost my grandpa too but after a while I think that he isn't feeling anymore pain, he isn't suffering no more.
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I was fortunate enough to talk with my 98 year old grandmother about mortality and her thoughts on dying. She told me that she had lived a great life, did everything she wanted to do, and outlived all she grew up with. She said she longed to be in her husbands arms. He had passed away twenty years before. She said some mornings she wakes up and calls out his name forgetting he is not there. She believed in heaven and looked forward to seeing him there.
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My father died tragically. It helped me to write a letter. The letter ended up being 60 pages.
Two books that are incredible help are 'Surviving the Loss of a Love' and 'On Death and Dying'. These helped me through my grandmother's death, fathers suicide from frustration of inability to cope with addiction, and the loss of a relationship of seven years. All happened at the same time. My grandfather passed away a couple years before these.
If these books and the letter don't work go to counciling. It is unhealthy to repress emotion. Get it out. Drugs are definitely the wrong thing. Chemical dependency is extremely dangerous.
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Troggy 🙎👊₲➋Ⓗ wrote:
James87♏🅿🅰 wrote:
Talk to a close friend, family member or teacher about how you feel. Talking eases the pain bro. 👍chin up👍
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A bottle of Jameson, a friend, a lot of talk of old memories you shared, and maybe some crying.
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YOU wrote:
Focus on his life, not his death.A bottle of Jameson, a friend, a lot of talk of old memories you shared, and maybe some crying.
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I have one grandparent left, my grandpa, if he passed away my dad would probably do something i havent seen in a long time: cry. I would too. My advice dont think about it, put the game down, and think happy thoughts like happy things.
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Great advice iklospot. Writing a letter would be beneficial even if you do nothing with it except throw it away.
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Sorry for your loss, I lost my 14 year old son in an automobile accident 2 years ago. We all have to look at it as part of life, not sure y the reasoning behind it and will never understand why things happen but they do. We talk about him very often and have accepted the fact we were
So lucky to have him the 14 years because to have not had him at all would have been a greater loss.
Talk often and good luck
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My grandad died two days ago.
He was my world, almost like a third parent. I am coping because i remember all of the happy times we apent together and we did some wonderful things. I seem to be getting by. Rip grandad <3 -
Remembering happy times togather is #1, cuz you will always have that. My little Sis has been gone for 3 yrs and I have kept her pic as my screen saver ever since. By keeping pics close it will help you to remember those good times. Wish you the best 👍
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Schmidty wrote:
Ah Tek, I love your posts and usually agree with you, but building walls and drugs are not the best ideas in my opinion. I lost both my parents by age 19 and I feel his pain. Reach out to your family and friends. They will comfort you. I'm very sorry for your loss.
like I said, I wasn't advocating it. it's just what I did when I was young and it got me through at the time. I guess weed is my whiskey, and this response also came from the crazy cat who wants a tiny bit of her ash sprinkled into a spliff to be smoked by all her my best mates in celebration when time. grain of salt, check.
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I feel for u. Mine past last Saturday. (one reason I havnt been in the forums much). You can grieve for them or you can take it like me and say to yourself there's nothing you can change about it, eventually you'll get over it like the other deaths, and life goes on....idk you're bond with you're grandpa...so....I wish the best of luck to you and hope you do fine.
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Activity. When my aunt died I was so mad I rode my bike 10miles to a diff gym and benchpressed while ditching school for the entire day. Luckily the school understood but said I should tell them next time. I felt a hell lot better after that though.
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