My dad's birthday (june 3rd)

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Anonymous69 Jun 4, 2016

It's my father's birthday today, but we're not talking to each other at all. It was my choice to stop talking to him, because he failed to have anything to say to me when my uncle passed away. I considered my uncle as a father figure because he taught me everything I know on how to be a man and have self respect. I was especially hurt because of the fact that my father and my uncle were once great friends before I was born. And yet, he never said a word when my uncle died..... I'm not sure why I'm posting this, maybe I just needed to let it out...
UMMM POOPY Jun 4, 2016

Turf Wars. Vent for daddy issues since 2011.
Anonymous69 Jun 4, 2016

Haha I just felt like I should share something. Not a daddy issue, more of a getting to know me issue. Why the hate? I thought a big part of this game was the community... Not the trolls
🎀ᏚαяαнᏦяαγ🎀 Jun 4, 2016

Maybe he never said a word when your uncle died because he couldn't? He was probably hurting too.
Anonymous69 Jun 4, 2016

I thought about that. I did meet up with him once after my uncle died. His girlfriend mentioned that my uncle died and asked how I was. But I never saw any emotion on his face when my uncle was mentioned.
stewbdoo Jun 4, 2016

Different people have different ways of dealing with shit ! I would approach him 121 and talk about you uncle maybe go fishing camping or even just for a pint talk it out hug it out then put it behind you enjoy each other and the lives you have !
Anonymous69 Jun 4, 2016

That's the major hurddle though, my dad isn't the kind of guy who shares his emotions easily. And I'm very much the same way. Maybe I'll talk to him before my upcoming birthday and see how me and him stand.
cap my turfs Jun 5, 2016

Ask tumblr
BigAl! Jun 5, 2016

Wish him a happy birthday. Simple. No major conversation. At least it shows that you would like to have some form of a relationship with him.
Anonymous69 Jun 5, 2016

I will the next time I see him. Thanks for the advice guys.
★DΞICIDΞ★ Jun 6, 2016

plot twist, your uncle was your real dad!
шΞΛᔖΞĿ Jun 7, 2016

★DΞICIDΞ★ wrote:
plot twist, your uncle was your real dad!

🍿👀
Anonymous69 Jun 7, 2016

Nope
Brown🎵Note Jun 7, 2016

Anonymous69 wrote:
Nope

How would you know? Your fake Dad apparently never tells you anything.
mathamatics Jun 7, 2016

★DΞICIDΞ★ wrote:
plot twist, your uncle was your real dad!

And he was a spy
Anonymous69 Jun 7, 2016

I know a troll when i see one....
mathamatics Jun 7, 2016

Anonymous69 wrote:
I know a troll when i see one....

👋 But a wise troll, with great advice when I give it
Ojibwe Jun 7, 2016

you have a duncle. :)