Just one of those times..

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O-Dogg Oct 22, 2010

You know the times when shit don't make sense? Shit just don't work out! Who's here had their fair share? I've had to many in my life time I just wanna forgot everyone..

I know family isn't perfect yet mine don't make sense! Everyone hates eachother.. I've owned my business for a little more then 3 years and only my moms pops and brothers know, simply becuz other family members would hate and have a hand out..
I feel like i'm loseing my mind!
Today I was shopping, a worker said a smart remark I wanted to give him a beating but held back.. As they where callin the cops I just lost it I started to tear and laughted at them..

Don't mean to bring my problems to a game but I cant talk to family obviously, friends wouldn't understand I know this from experiance. I don't like airing my problems either. Gives people things to talk about
atilatthedom Oct 22, 2010

Wait why they cop?
O-Dogg Oct 22, 2010

atilatthedom wrote:
Wait why they cop?

because I have a bad temper, I choked the dude up I shook him up and yelled at him while forcing myself not to react. So security came and wouldn't let me leave till the cops came.
james87 Oct 22, 2010

Perhaps you could take up boxing or something. I have a pretty bad temper! So I started boxing training and it's really helped control my aggression. I know it's hard to ignore pricks like you encountered at that shop but it's just not worth the hassle smacking them! What about a holiday o get away from the family and bullshit?
O-Dogg Oct 22, 2010

James87♏🅿🅰 wrote:
Perhaps you could take up boxing or something. I have a pretty bad temper! So I started boxing training and it's really helped control my aggression. I know it's hard to ignore pricks like you encountered at that shop but it's just not worth the hassle smacking them! What about a holiday o get away from the family and bullshit?

I was in mma just don't have time anymore.. Funny thing is I live alone yet it's like they know how to get to me! I've changed my cell twice withen the year, my family (mostly cousins) have a hand out. Now I got this ex hittin me up asking for the same.. Ahhhh I wanna get lost!
I'd love a trip to a island for a few weeks just no time at all.
Killer Khalsa Oct 22, 2010

O-Dogg wrote:
You know the times when shit don't make sense? Shit just don't work out! Who's here had their fair share? I've had to many in my life time I just wanna forgot everyone..

I know family isn't perfect yet mine don't make sense! Everyone hates eachother.. I've owned my business for a little more then 3 years and only my moms pops and brothers know, simply becuz other family members would hate and have a hand out..
I feel like i'm loseing my mind!
Today I was shopping, a worker said a smart remark I wanted to give him a beating but held back.. As they where callin the cops I just lost it I started to tear and laughted at them..

Don't mean to bring my problems to a game but I cant talk to family obviously, friends wouldn't understand I know this from experiance. I don't like airing my problems either. Gives people things to talk about

What was the "smart remark"?
PUTZ Oct 22, 2010

Killer Khalsa wrote: What was the "smart remark"?
It was... Mob the fvck up!!!
Vadan™ v2.0 Oct 22, 2010

I know how You feel but we gota keep at the grind. Families, especially relatives can be a pain at the bet of times. Worse than your worst enemies, just keep the non-important at arms length. And yeah boxing would really help funnel that aggression in to something positive.
Don Igor Oct 22, 2010

Tell your family to stop being money grabbing little bitches and make their own income... If all else fails, buy a hummer and plough them all down....
TΛLLY Oct 22, 2010

There comes a time in your life when you need to clean out your cupboard, so to speak, and wipe them from your life. and live happy,
⚪️ Oct 22, 2010

work on managing your temper.
O-Dogg Oct 22, 2010

Bull✯God wrote:
Killer Khalsa wrote: What was the "smart remark"?
It was... Mob the fvck up!!!
he bumped into me I just looked at him and said no problem. Thought he was goin to say sorry, he didn't he then smirked and say Id fuck you up if I wasn't working here.. Not the worst of remarks to be said but it set me off!
O-Dogg Oct 22, 2010

saelo2myltlfren wrote:
work on managing your temper.

believe me when I'm not being messed with I'm a mellow type of guy. I respect life for what it is yet at times i just get loose.
It's not that easy to escape them. I feel bad yet at the same time feel FUCK them! My parents always got mad at me when I said I don't like "those" realitive so I gave up tellin them
⚪️ Oct 22, 2010

I hear ya. just know that if your family make you unhappy, learn to build and lean on your chosen family -- ie your friends.

congrats on a successful business. now learn to tell your cousins to eff off and start their own business. don't brag about your success but certainly dont hide from them either. just be who u r.

I hope u r feeling more upbeat soon.
 Oct 22, 2010

Do intense sports that take concentration like boxing football or basketball it will calm you down
stupid Oct 22, 2010

Contact sports and listening to music work for me- hope this helped
O-Dogg Oct 22, 2010

saelo2myltlfren wrote:
I hear ya. just know that if your family make you unhappy, learn to build and lean on your chosen family -- ie your friends.

congrats on a successful business. now learn to tell your cousins to eff off and start their own business. don't brag about your success but certainly dont hide from them either. just be who u r.

I hope u r feeling more upbeat soon.

thank man.. It's actually goin very well, even for this time of season ☺. As far as tellin them that. I have it don't work no hint I guess. They also keep askin if I wanna start up a business, we go half on everything yet I work n they sit n scratch their balls all day. I just do yhe normal no thanks Get up off ur ass and gain income yurself