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So i have a 9 year old who is getting bullied in school by this group of boys. I have brought it to the attention of the teachers and principle. What do i do next ? Do i go above them to the board of Ed? Do i go back in the school ? Should i go to the authorities . I dont know what to do any more. Maybe someone on here has any ideas of what i could do next.
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I do believe in trying to get things resolved through the proper Channels and non violent means whenever possible but I'm also a firm believer in the fact that a good ass kicking every once on a while goes a long way. Especially when it comes at the hands of someone unexpected. Might not be the answer you're looking for but it's a answer none the less. I wish you good luck and a speedy resolution. Not something I'm looking forward to having to deal with, with my kids.
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Teach him how to punch.
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What about contacting the kids parents? Most parents would not be thrilled to hear their child is bullying someone if they are a decent parent. I would ask for a conference with the school and the parents of those kids as a starting point to see if that may help.
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Meh, you'd be suprised at how many parents are blind and claim the "not my kid" routine or worse, don't see anything wrong with what their kids are doing. It's def worth a shot though. Violence should be a last resort but also not an option to completely overlook.
Just out of curiosity, what type of bullying is this? Verbal, physical, combination? Does the school have any written policy on bullying? Do you have any evidence of the bullying you can present to them?
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〓🔫ØᎦᏌ✴ᏀĮЯŁ🌹〓 wrote:
Bully kids have bully parents. But you could try talking to them. I would teach him how a sharp jab to the nose will usually keep those idiots at bay.What about contacting the kids parents? Most parents would not be thrilled to hear their child is bullying someone if they are a decent parent. I would ask for a conference with the school and the parents of those kids as a starting point to see if that may help.
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I have my 5 years old in martial arts he stated 9 months ago amazing what he's has learned already put I realize that doesn't help right now. I agree talk to parents but it may not help.
Be great to keep them 3 years old forever :) good luck -
⌖꓄ɧɑ☠Ᏸυʈϲɧɑ⌖ wrote:
Contact the school district and tell them that if it doesn't stop, that you'll go to the local news station. I bet you get a quick response.So i have a 9 year old who is getting bullied in school by this group of boys. I have brought it to the attention of the teachers and principle. What do i do next ? Do i go above them to the board of Ed? Do i go back in the school ? Should i go to the authorities . I dont know what to do any more. Maybe someone on here has any ideas of what i could do next.
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Speak to their parents and let them know to tell their children to stop bullying yours. I was once made fun of for stuttering, but I wouldn't recommend how I got them back. Speak to their parents, if that doesn't work then go to authority.
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Innocent Saba wrote:
👆👆👆👆👆👆👆I do believe in trying to get things resolved through the proper Channels and non violent means whenever possible but I'm also a firm believer in the fact that a good ass kicking every once on a while goes a long way. Especially when it comes at the hands of someone unexpected. Might not be the answer you're looking for but it's a answer none the less. I wish you good luck and a speedy resolution. Not something I'm looking forward to having to deal with, with my kids.
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Dont go to the teachers 😂😂 you trying to get your son picked on even more?
Teach him banter and if he gets good at it, they will find someone that doesnt take the piss right back at them 👍 -
What you can do next all depends on the kind of bullying it is. If it was my kid (which it may well be in a couple of years time) I'd always go through proper channels and take it higher AFTER first trying to coach my kid on how to resolve it themselves, or failing that speaking first to the kids involved and then to the parents of the kids involved. There's always a solution, it's just not always obvious or the first thing you try.
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Ask UNCLE. He deals with this stuff everyday! He can tell you what to do with advice from both sides of the fence.
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where's free mason when you need him
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masmafio wrote:
How did you get them back?Speak to their parents and let them know to tell their children to stop bullying yours. I was once made fun of for stuttering, but I wouldn't recommend how I got them back. Speak to their parents, if that doesn't work then go to authority.
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☣Alexander☣ wrote:
Sad but true. I was bullied and it didn't stop until I suckered punched him right in the face. Sometimes it's the only answer.Teach him how to punch.
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I agree with everyone here. Use all outlets at once. Proper chain of authority while teaching him to protect himself. Do some reading online and figure out what you can teach him from a kids perspective. Bullys are super weak people. They generally have severe self confidence issues. Your kid can win out in the end on his own if handled the correct way I believe - there's certainly a wealth of psychological knowledge on the net...use it.
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Most teachers and principals freak out at the threat of involving the police,
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destroyer92400 wrote:
☣Alexander☣ wrote:
Sad but true. I was bullied and it didn't stop until I suckered punched him right in the face. Sometimes it's the only answer.Teach him how to punch.
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If this is physical bullying the best way to resolve it would be to try to get your son or daughter to have it out with the main instigator. Your child may get a good ass whooping but I promise you win or lose it will stop, bullies won't bully someone that fights back.
Problem you may find is like my daughter your child may not have one violent bone in his or her body, which is a great thing but makes him or her a target.
If its mental bullying I think that's worse, because a lot of the other kids will jump on the name calling then your child will feel isolated.
I ran a Dojo for 12 year and the amount of parents with this problem was huge.If he or she won't fight back or if its name calling , go to the head master.
If it continues move schools , I seen many kids change over night after leaving one school to go to another -
1st i would like to thank you all for the PMs and suggestions in here. I went into the school this morning with my sons and had a sit down with the guidance councilor , Principle and vice Principle. I gave them a couple options on how we were going to handle the situation. 1st they were going to handle it with someone shadowing the children to ensure that it stops 2nd that i was going to the authorities and filing a report against them and the consolidated school district. Since they are the ones i entrust with my children everyday to keep them safe. And as far as the whole teach you kid how to fight . I have done that. My son had taken Bando for a couple years and knows how to break nose and defend himself. That is not the answer unless his life is threatened or he is defending himself.
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And after picking up my son the teacher informed me that the boys who were bullying him were caught by the councilor and reprimanded. The three boys have been suspended until they have a parent teacher conference. There is a possibility the children will be moved out of the school if the problems persist.
Again thank you all for your insight on the matter your all a great community and look forward to getting more insight from you in the future.
⌖꓄ɧɑ☠Ᏸυʈϲɧɑ⌖ -
ᏨᘿᎡᏖᏬᎦᗬ wrote:
This is true, if my parents in school had went and talked to the teachers it would only make things worse.Dont go to the teachers 😂😂 you trying to get your son picked on even more?
Teach him banter and if he gets good at it, they will find someone that doesnt take the piss right back at them 👍 -
I hope it works out butcha, my oldest is only in kindergarten, I hope he never goes through that suffering
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Great news thanks for the update, doing a great job dad :)
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Ꭶk¥L¡И£ wrote:
👍 Some kid will end up tased and arrested over petty juvenile bs. Tell your boy to stand up to the bully. They will probably end up friends the next day.Most teachers and principals freak out at the threat of involving the police,
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Bringing attention of the incidents to the teachers and making sure they are paying attention to this type of thing is a good move.
But also, make sure your kid isn't that weird, smelly nose picker. Every school has one...... -
⌖꓄ɧɑ☠Ᏸυʈϲɧɑ⌖ wrote:
Sounds like you've got a good school there since they acted so quickly. I know where you live so I'm not surprised. 👍And after picking up my son the teacher informed me that the boys who were bullying him were caught by the councilor and reprimanded. The three boys have been suspended until they have a parent teacher conference. There is a possibility the children will be moved out of the school if the problems persist.
Again thank you all for your insight on the matter your all a great community and look forward to getting more insight from you in the future.
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Do what needs to be done with bullies... Start a V. Yes you can do that outside of TW. Have your kid find others who those bullies bully then ally up and put a smack down on the kids. 99% of the time bullies can't back up what they say.
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Hope all turns out well Butcha.
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⌖꓄ɧɑ☠Ᏸυʈϲɧɑ⌖ wrote:
Son is getting bullied,asks video game players for helpSo i have a 9 year old who is getting bullied in school by this group of boys. I have brought it to the attention of the teachers and principle. What do i do next ? Do i go above them to the board of Ed? Do i go back in the school ? Should i go to the authorities . I dont know what to do any more. Maybe someone on here has any ideas of what i could do next.
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