Is it cheating?
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Mr. Creepy wrote:
bionic woman wrote:
Mr. Creepy wrote:
Depends if she's cheated on you before. If she has, you're in the clear. B/c you can always bring up what she did.
If she's loyal, don't do it you dumb shart. They're hard to come by.
True but who would want that I don't share and neither will my SO or that's the end of us
I'm a loyal one
Then don't do it, derp. I'm just saying that if she cheats, you have a golden ticket to do whatever you want. Regardless of what she says.
That may be true but if she jumped off a cliff would you do that too
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I personally want to be in a relationship that neither party feels the desire to sext. If I felt the need to sext, I am not with the right women. (Call me old fashion). I also believe that 2 consenting adults should be able define what their relationship is or is not without the judgement of others.
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NONO BOBO wrote:
I personally want to be in a relationship that neither party feels the desire to sext. If I felt the need to sext, I am not with the right women. (Call me old fashion). I also believe that 2 consenting adults should be able define what their relationship is or is not without the judgement of others.
Exactly
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bionic woman wrote:
What you don't seem to understand is that other people's values aren't the same as yours. Just because you consider it cheating doesn't mean that someone else does. If a couple has an open relationship then that's how their relationship is. Just because you're not that way or don't agree doesn't mean they're wrong.༺☠ᏩɌ༏M༏Ɲ∆L☠༻ wrote:
bionic woman wrote:
No. That is your opinion.⌖🔥ωⅇɢṡɪⅇṣ🔥⌖ wrote:
bionic woman wrote:
And that's your opinion lolI'm not being judge mental I'm
Just a fact not opinion
I'm not
I personally wouldn't be in an open relationship. Knowing my wife was sleeping with another guy wouldn't sit well with me. And my wife wouldn't either she's the jealous type. -
bionic woman wrote:
Your invisible friend in the sky who threatens and cajoles you into doing his bidding. I don't believe in him or the church. I have a higher moral standard than that....Hyena wrote:
Who Judge Dredd??? Pretty sure there are more Judges than just him...
And how can you call it cheating if they tell their partner???
I think you are mixing up adultery, with cheating. Further I believe the commandment relates to adultery, which requires 1 married party. If neither party is married it isn't adultery....
No God is the only Judge
I'm not and neither is anyone else Your right but their cheating and disrespecting their self -
༺☠ᏩɌ༏M༏Ɲ∆L☠༻ wrote:
Nicely put Grimm. 👍bionic woman wrote:
What you don't seem to understand is that other people's values aren't the same as yours. Just because you consider it cheating doesn't mean that someone else does. If a couple has an open relationship then that's how their relationship is. Just because you're not that way or don't agree doesn't mean they're wrong.༺☠ᏩɌ༏M༏Ɲ∆L☠༻ wrote:
bionic woman wrote:
No. That is your opinion.⌖🔥ωⅇɢṡɪⅇṣ🔥⌖ wrote:
✂bionic woman wrote:✂
✂I'm not
I personally wouldn't be in an open relationship. Knowing my wife was sleeping with another guy wouldn't sit well with me. And my wife wouldn't either she's the jealous type. -
I do understand Never said everyone had the same values Everyone is different I wouldn't be in a open relationship either I don't share that way
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Hyena wrote:
bionic woman wrote:
Your invisible friend in the sky who threatens and cajoles you into doing his bidding. I don't believe in him or the church. I have a higher moral standard than that....Hyena wrote:
Who Judge Dredd??? Pretty sure there are more Judges than just him...
And how can you call it cheating if they tell their partner???
I think you are mixing up adultery, with cheating. Further I believe the commandment relates to adultery, which requires 1 married party. If neither party is married it isn't adultery....
No God is the only Judge
I'm not and neither is anyone else Your right but their cheating and disrespecting their selfYou have that choice
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bionic woman wrote:
But you said it was wrong. That's judging others by your moral standard...I do understand Never said everyone had the same values Everyone is different I wouldn't be in a open relationship either I don't share that way
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bionic woman wrote:
So do you...Hyena wrote:
bionic woman wrote:
Your invisible friend in the sky who threatens and cajoles you into doing his bidding. I don't believe in him or the church. I have a higher moral standard than that....Hyena wrote:
Who Judge Dredd??? Pretty sure there are more Judges than just him...
And how can you call it cheating if they tell their partner???
I think you are mixing up adultery, with cheating. Further I believe the commandment relates to adultery, which requires 1 married party. If neither party is married it isn't adultery....
No God is the only Judge
I'm not and neither is anyone else Your right but their cheating and disrespecting their selfYou have that choice
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Hyena wrote:
bionic woman wrote:
But you said it was wrong. That's judging others by your moral standard...I do understand Never said everyone had the same values Everyone is different I wouldn't be in a open relationship either I don't share that way
I did but that's not judging just merely state n what I wouldn't do
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bionic woman wrote:
That's not what you said. Read it again. You stated "it was wrong", not that it was your opinion.Hyena wrote:
bionic woman wrote:
But you said it was wrong. That's judging others by your moral standard...I do understand Never said everyone had the same values Everyone is different I wouldn't be in a open relationship either I don't share that way
I did but that's not judging just merely state n what I wouldn't do
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Hyena wrote:
bionic woman wrote:
That's not what you said. Read it again. You stated "it was wrong", not that it was your opinion.Hyena wrote:
bionic woman wrote:
But you said it was wrong. That's judging others by your moral standard...I do understand Never said everyone had the same values Everyone is different I wouldn't be in a open relationship either I don't share that way
I did but that's not judging just merely state n what I wouldn't do
Anyway I'm not trying argue or make enimies So, truce or not Either way I'm done w/ this particular forum
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bionic woman wrote:
Lol, typical religious zealot, unable to acknowledge her error.Hyena wrote:
bionic woman wrote:
That's not what you said. Read it again. You stated "it was wrong", not that it was your opinion.Hyena wrote:
bionic woman wrote:
But you said it was wrong. That's judging others by your moral standard...I do understand Never said everyone had the same values Everyone is different I wouldn't be in a open relationship either I don't share that way
I did but that's not judging just merely state n what I wouldn't do
Anyway I'm not trying argue or make enimies So, truce or not Either way I'm done w/ this particular forum
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i thought it was only cheating if you fall in love, or get her pregnant, or bring home and std, or get caught. outside of that i think your good.... sexting seems innocent and low risk. it's like giving a smile or wink at someone in the mall or something...
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Deicide wrote:
😉😉i thought it was only cheating if you fall in love, or get her pregnant, or bring home and std, or get caught. outside of that i think your good.... sexting seems innocent and low risk. it's like giving a smile or wink at someone in the mall or something...
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yip its cheating.
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oh... and it depends on how long you leave it in , if you pull out early enough it's definitely not cheating.
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across state lines or out of your home town is not cheating either i don't think.
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bionic woman wrote:
So you think the act of sexting is pathetic or you think people getting mad about it is?💋ƀཞḭʑʑ💋 wrote:
Oops, it made mine look copied because I cut the wrong part. I stand by it, though. "Testing someone" is manipulation and it's the same as lying. I would have a harder time trusting someone who plays games than someone who sexts people.
I still think sexting is pathetic, though.It's All pathetic
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and if it's inside the church walls ... i don't think it's cheating... that's like auto forgiveness or something. like it never happened.
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and if the experience is bad for whatever reason, bad kiss, bad sex, bad sexting lol, then it's obviously not cheating.
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✯ᎷᎪᎠᎠᎻᎪᎢᎢᎬᏒ✯ wrote:
bionic woman wrote:
So you think the act of sexting is pathetic or you think people getting mad about it is?💋ƀཞḭʑʑ💋 wrote:
Oops, it made mine look copied because I cut the wrong part. I stand by it, though. "Testing someone" is manipulation and it's the same as lying. I would have a harder time trusting someone who plays games than someone who sexts people.
I still think sexting is pathetic, though.It's All pathetic
I think sexting someone when you're in a relationship is pathetic. If you can share actual intimacy with someone why are you passing little porny cyber notes? You can't even hear a sultry voice. There's nothing on the other end; it's cold. I consider being that desperate to get your ya yas out to be pretty pathetic.
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Hyena
Far from true
I can admit my
errors when I make one
Stating that it's wrong was my opinion -
💋ƀཞḭʑʑ💋 wrote:
what if you are sexting someone that you are in a relationship with on the side and it's just a part of the fun of it? does it make it less pathetic? what if you are sexting your wife and girl friends and you are physical with all of them?✯ᎷᎪᎠᎠᎻᎪᎢᎢᎬᏒ✯ wrote:
bionic woman wrote:
So you think the act of sexting is pathetic or you think people getting mad about it is?It's All pathetic
I think sexting someone when you're in a relationship is pathetic. If you can share actual intimacy with someone why are you passing little porny cyber notes? You can't even hear a sultry voice. There's nothing on the other end; it's cold. I consider being that desperate to get your ya yas out to be pretty pathetic.
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"It absolutely means you don't love her"
"It's still cheating whether you're open or not. Period"That doesn't sound like opinion to me. It sounds like someone who thinks their beliefs are objective fact
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Brad Lovegrove wrote:
"It absolutely means you don't love her"
"It's still cheating whether you're open or not. Period"That doesn't sound like opinion to me. It sounds like someone who thinks their beliefs are objective fact
Thanks for clearing that up
I see what ya mean I'm sorry but I stated that wrong Was suppose to come off as a opinion not belief As I said earlier I'm argue n this subject anymore I'm done next subject I came to tw for fun not to have enimies Truce everyone -
Deicide wrote:
i thought it was only cheating if you fall in love, or get her pregnant, or bring home and std, or get caught. outside of that i think your good.... sexting seems innocent and low risk. it's like giving a smile or wink at someone in the mall or something...
Honestly that's how I see it. What's the worse that can really happen?
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Ive also heard its not cheating if you dont go all the way in, or if you leave before she wakes up or if you use a condom.
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And oral doesnt count...
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