Depression
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Beginning to hate life..
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Why?
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Love.. I gave her everything and I get broke
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Try smiling, even a fake smile makes you feel better. Your brain and your face are connected.
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I'll try
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We have all been there and things DO get better.
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Over a year and this..
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I Love her and want her to be safe though..
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It happened to me 10 years ago. 3.5 years of dating and then 2 years of marriage. she ran up my credit cards to the tune of $40k and hid it from me and was screwing somebody else. I thought it was the end of the world.
It turned out to be the best thing that happened to me. I wouldn't change a thing.
One you'll look back and realize the same thing. -
How did you pay it off?
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Wait are you serious or are you just acting like Eminem?
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I busted my ass working a 2nd job on the weekends (20 hrs a weekend) for a year which paid down $10k. Then I sold my house which had $40k equity in it and paid down $20k. Then lived with family for 8 months and paid the rest off. Then got a big promotion at work and bought a new bigger house.
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Didn't get the name from my ex wife. This is where I got the name.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CtZKL74LgMg&feature=youtube_gdata_player -
If this is how you act in real life, then this is why she dumped you. You're being too sensitive.
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☣ 🎸ӈɪƖƖßıƖƖγ🎸☣ wrote: I naturally am.
If this is how you act in real life, then this is why she dumped you. You're being too sensitive.
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Solution
punch codes and feel better..
Bam!! life💥 -
★DIЯTY BΛLLS★ wrote:
That's funny, but seriously messed up.Didn't get the name from my ex wife. This is where I got the name.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CtZKL74LgMg&feature=youtube_gdata_player -
☣ 🎸ӈɪƖƖßıƖƖγ🎸☣ wrote:
Kicking somebody while they are down is despicable, Especially when you don't know the situation or the person you may be hurting.If this is how you act in real life, then this is why she dumped you. You're being too sensitive.
Stay strong and pull through! All life likes to do sometimes is to beat you down. Don't let it win. -
🔰࿈Ᏸลอ🔥Ᏸεαη࿈🔰 wrote:
I'm not kicking him. If he wants the girl, then he needs to change his ways. I'm trying to help him.☣ 🎸ӈɪƖƖßıƖƖγ🎸☣ wrote:
Kicking somebody while they are down is despicable, Especially when you don't know the situation or the person you may be hurting.If this is how you act in real life, then this is why she dumped you. You're being too sensitive.
Stay strong and pull through! All life likes to do sometimes is to beat you down. Don't let it win. -
☣ 🎸ӈɪƖƖßıƖƖγ🎸☣ wrote:
Maybe it's her who needs to change her ways ... People shouldn't change into something they're not so if this chick doesn't like him for what he is I guarantee there's one who will.🔰࿈Ᏸลอ🔥Ᏸεαη࿈🔰 wrote:
I'm not kicking him. If he wants the girl, then he needs to change his ways. I'm trying to help him.☣ 🎸ӈɪƖƖßıƖƖγ🎸☣ wrote:
Kicking somebody while they are down is despicable, Especially when you don't know the situation or the person you may be hurting.If this is how you act in real life, then this is why she dumped you. You're being too sensitive.
Stay strong and pull through! All life likes to do sometimes is to beat you down. Don't let it win. -
How's the smiling trick working out? Advanced treatment includes some "Three Stooges."
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☣ 🎸ӈɪƖƖßıƖƖγ🎸☣ wrote:
I tried to believe that when I first read it, but the connotation of that sentence pretty harshly.🔰࿈Ᏸลอ🔥Ᏸεαη࿈🔰 wrote:
I'm not kicking him. If he wants the girl, then he needs to change his ways. I'm trying to help him.☣ 🎸ӈɪƖƖßıƖƖγ🎸☣ wrote:
Kicking somebody while they are down is despicable, Especially when you don't know the situation or the person you may be hurting.If this is how you act in real life, then this is why she dumped you. You're being too sensitive.
Stay strong and pull through! All life likes to do sometimes is to beat you down. Don't let it win.
I read it as "man up, she left you because you weren't man enough for her." -
☣ 🎸ӈɪƖƖßıƖƖγ🎸☣ wrote:
HillBilly,If this is how you act in real life, then this is why she dumped you. You're being too sensitive.
Being depressed is a pretty tough thing. It's a dark place when you can't think clearly and no matter if other people think the reasons for being down are stupid or unwarranted the darkness is very real and the pain and lack of understanding often crushing.
I've suffered depression a few times in my life. Each time most of the reason was something that cleared up. Looking back on those episodes I see that I was over reacting but at the time I had no idea and was in a lot of pain.
I've been having a year of some bad medical issues and have been pretty depressed for the the last few months. I know that things get better but this still hurts.
If you've never been depressed please don't judge someone who is. Last thing someone in pain needs is someone telling them they are less of a person for being in that pain.
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★DIЯTY BΛLLS★ wrote:
Not trying to thread hijack, but that is quite possibly the funniest thing I've ever seenDidn't get the name from my ex wife. This is where I got the name.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CtZKL74LgMg&feature=youtube_gdata_player -
It might not feel like it right now, but it is very true what they say - It does get better. Actually talking to someone (a support councillor is best) makes a big difference. Some people's untrained best intentions can have serious impacts seek professional advice.
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get a POF account and start meeting / talking to new single girls in you area, hate to say it maybe a lil embarrassing but that was how i got over my 9yr relationship, now i dont have a GF i have 3 who i can talk to or take out any time i want... Just check it out you'll be glad you did...
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Stay strong mate, I know the feeling
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Thanks guys:)
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☣ 🎸ӈɪƖƖßıƖƖγ🎸☣ wrote:
Some girls like the sensitive type...If this is how you act in real life, then this is why she dumped you. You're being too sensitive.
I know mine does.You shouldn't change yourself just to please someone else.
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🔰Superyan🔰 wrote:
I'm not saying change, but sometimes it scares people if you come on to strong. You just gotta show yourself a little bit at a time.☣ 🎸ӈɪƖƖßıƖƖγ🎸☣ wrote:
Some girls like the sensitive type...If this is how you act in real life, then this is why she dumped you. You're being too sensitive.
I know mine does.You shouldn't change yourself just to please someone else.
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༼ཋ༠ཧཧརསར༽ wrote:
That site also has negative consequences. I know from experience, but don't let it stop you.get a POF account and start meeting / talking to new single girls in you area, hate to say it maybe a lil embarrassing but that was how i got over my 9yr relationship, now i dont have a GF i have 3 who i can talk to or take out any time i want... Just check it out you'll be glad you did...
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