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How many times would you take being called a cheater before you either do it or just leave your wife?
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Ʈɧḛ Ƥuɳḭʂђeŗ wrote:
Don't do it then she'll be right.How many times would you take being called a cheater before you either do it or just leave your wife?
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A couple. And then I would try and talk to her and see why she's saying that until we can come to an agreement that I, in fact, am not a cheater.
I just creatively win 😜
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The "I'm being blamed for it so I might as well do it" is the definition of childishness and selfishness.
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🌾ᏦᎻᎪᏞ🌾 wrote:
Yeah it's pretty much using it as an excuse to actually do it.The "I'm being blamed for it so I might as well do it" is the definition of childishness and selfishness.
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Not saying I would do it, had talks with her about it she came to my side that I'm not then out of the blue started again. But I am about to go to a lawyer and start a divorce process. I hate being called a cheater. She originally told she thought it cuz I've been staying at work late, wich I saw why she thought it, cleared it up and poof back at it. I'm still in the military for now (all you military members out there know there isn't a set get off time as it is) but I normally stay a little later just to finish any paperwork I haven't done yet.
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Ʈɧḛ Ƥuɳḭʂђeŗ wrote:
I wouldn't advise doing either. Obviously, there's a trust issue going on.How many times would you take being called a cheater before you either do it or just leave your wife?
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If she's accusing you, it may be a guilty conscience. Hire a private dick so you don't have to pay alimony.
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My Ex refused to trust me, it destroyed our relationship. It was like sand going into a bag, eventually the bag was so heavy the bottom of the bag fell out. At that point I no longer loved her and had to move on. That was when she wanted to start relationship counselling but it was too late. Ask yourself do you love her? If the answer is yes then work on it do everything you can to save the marriage because if you don't there will come a day when you say I don't love her anymore and then it is time to leave. You deserve happiness and so does she, it's hard work but worth it if you love each other, like I do with my current wife. Best of luck.
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Boner Jams '03 wrote:
Cheaters are usually the one's with the most trust issuesIf she's accusing you, it may be a guilty conscience. Hire a private dick so you don't have to pay alimony.
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I surfed that from girlfriends and finally after a number of breakups decided to do the crime if I was going to do the time. My wife has never accused me and I have never cheated on her. It is a bummer when you find out your girlfriend has hacked into your email, opened your mail, and hacked your voice and starts calling your work. Crazzzzy
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Bad self-esteem is a relationship killer! With that said, though, how do you teact when she brings it up? Do you blow up, or are you reassuring? If you feel you've truly done everything you can to reassure her, then you have some decisions to make.
Is she controlling and/or smothering as well? Or this the main issue?
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Sorry, meant to say react, not teact.
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Well this is a sticky situation.
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Usually when someone accuses another of cheating without proof, that means they have a guilty conscience about it....so might be in your best interest to look into her activities. Either way i say definately do not cheat and bring her accusations into reality. Good luck
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I erasure her as best I can, and yes she hacked my yahoo account, she already uses my Facebook cuz I don't use it and always tells at me about the girls on there lol they are all married like in the east coast I'm in the west coast one is my brothers wife, another is was a friend of mine who is also friends with my brothers wife, I do have one of my ex's on there but she is just a very good friend (she is the only one my wife doesn't think I'm doing anything with lol).
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Ʈɧḛ Ƥuɳḭʂђeŗ wrote:
One of my X girlfriends hacked into my email account and my teenage daughters email account. She was completely nuts. She would bring stuff up and I would wonder how she found stuff out about me. Her favorite trick was to try to ask me questions late at night when I was falling asleep to see if she could trick me into saying something.I erasure her as best I can, and yes she hacked my yahoo account, .
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JoMiki wrote:
Lol my wife sometimes does that to me lolƮɧḛ Ƥuɳḭʂђeŗ wrote:
One of my X girlfriends hacked into my email account and my teenage daughters email account. She was completely nuts. She would bring stuff up and I would wonder how she found stuff out about me. Her favorite trick was to try to ask me questions late at night when I was falling asleep to see if she could trick me into saying something.I erasure her as best I can, and yes she hacked my yahoo account, .
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You need a relationship, not an interrogation.
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☣ 🎸ӈɪƖƖßıƖƖγ🎸☣ wrote:
👆👆👆👆👆 this!!You need a relationship, not an interrogation.
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💀༄्ཧ़ཀंེབ།༨ཛყ༄💀 wrote:
👆👆👆👆and this lolYou need some Tequila my friend.
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Boner Jams '03 wrote:
👆👍If she's accusing you, it may be a guilty conscience. Hire a private dick so you don't have to pay alimony.
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༺☠Ꮹཞ༏ཀཀ☠༻ wrote:
Lol funny but if you are suffering the punishment of the crime without actually doing anything then you might as well commit that crime - just my personal selfish and childish thought on this (although would have to have been brought up many times before taking that stance)🌾ᏦᎻᎪᏞ🌾 wrote:
Yeah it's pretty much using it as an excuse to actually do it.The "I'm being blamed for it so I might as well do it" is the definition of childishness and selfishness.
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ɆͣƉͩƉͩ💥🔫ᏚℍʘŦ∙∘• wrote:
I actually do understand that mentality myself also. "If I'm being accused of it I may as well do it"༺☠Ꮹཞ༏ཀཀ☠༻ wrote:
Lol funny but if you are suffering the punishment of the crime without actually doing anything then you might as well commit that crime - just my personal selfish and childish thought on this (although would have to have been brought up many times before taking that stance)🌾ᏦᎻᎪᏞ🌾 wrote:
Yeah it's pretty much using it as an excuse to actually do it.The "I'm being blamed for it so I might as well do it" is the definition of childishness and selfishness.
It's always better to take the high road though IMO. At least you'll know the truth yourself. If she's accusing you then either she's done it herself or is too untrusting to be with at all. Being married complicates things though. -
Wow, and I was thinking... Maybe she wants to try the swinger lifestyle with you, nah idk... But don't cheat to prove her right, that's not who you are, so don't let her negativity change you to someone less than you are!
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Ʈɧḛ Ƥuɳḭʂђeŗ wrote:
I would recommend cheating on her, recording it and showing it to her when you are next accused. If your doing the time you may as well commit the crime 😋How many times would you take being called a cheater before you either do it or just leave your wife?
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Boner Jams '03 wrote:
If you're in Australia there is no fault divorce. You pay child support regardless how the separation/divorce comes about - unless you have sole custody of children.If she's accusing you, it may be a guilty conscience. Hire a private dick so you don't have to pay alimony.
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Child support is the only thing keeping me around. Other than the fact that's she's the laziest woman on earth I have nothing that shows she's a bad mother. I want to keep my son but I need evidence showing that he's better with me.
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