My head is rushing..
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I can't believe I'm doing this but I need to vent out my personal life.
So lately I feel like I've been in the shadows with my girl. What I mean is that I don't even feel like I'm a priority anymore. I've been with this girl for almost 2 years and till this point it was smooth sailing. I feel like the flame has simmered down and about to go out. I don't want that but at the same time I feel like it should so we can both go our different ways. I am not gonna lie.. I felt really close to her.. So close I have shared every deepest secret with her. But now.. I don't know. I thought u was in love, this is the first time I even said I was in love with anyone. I don't know what to do..I'm here sitting in dark thinking if I should say something or not.
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My heart sinks with the though of me and her going our own ways but there's that little voice saying that it's the right thing to do. I don't know what to listen to. It pains me just talking about it. It hurts bad and it's hard to breathe. Like I said before I've never said I was in love with anyone till she came in. I didn't even say "I love you" back to her till I was sure. That's how I always been. But now I'm at this fork on the road.. To go on with the relationship or to turn and go our ways..
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Ask her out on another date, like the old days....
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Rjsjjsjs I'm so mad/sad/confused. I have that feeling where I rather be in any other situation but this.
Gah I know in the past I knock on people about putting their personal life on tw forums before so I apologize for that.
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you probably just need some sleep. you will think better in the morning..............
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Ok... Well. If she likes romance give it to her, do something fresh.
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That's the thing.. I can't sleep.. I can't think properly because I'm torn.. I try to always And do something but it never works out. Out schedules just don't mash this year. School&work makes it almost impossible.
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You could always bury her in the backyard. That way, it's like going your separate ways, but she's still close.
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Want it to get better? Show her a good time.. Take her out nando's or something.. If. It doesnt work maybe ask her about it? If shes a horny one fuck the shit out of her :), maybe lick her out if you aint already lol.. But i understand where your fomimg from i was in your predicument for a long time.. And ive never been with the girl,we was just close.. But was in love with her for 3 years! :/ then we fell out n she left school as shes a year older then me and it felt wierd i felt empty, but then cz we didnt see each other we stopped speaking, and at first i hated it n over time i forgot about her. That was the first time i loved someone :/
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ChainsawCharlie wrote:
...You could always bury her in the backyard. That way, it's like going your separate ways, but she's still close.
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~|LINE|~ wrote:
*sings* I used to love her, but I had to kill her.....ChainsawCharlie wrote:
...You could always bury her in the backyard. That way, it's like going your separate ways, but she's still close.
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JayDee wrote:
My heart sinks with the though of me and her going our own ways but there's that little voice saying that it's the right thing to do. I don't know what to listen to. It pains me just talking about it. It hurts bad and it's hard to breathe. Like I said before I've never said I was in love with anyone till she came in. I didn't even say "I love you" back to her till I was sure. That's how I always been. But now I'm at this fork on the road.. To go on with the relationship or to turn and go our ways..
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Man.. This really got me when I can't even laugh at a joke..
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Lemme ask you: did this all happen for a certain reason or no? If she's not making you a priority, I'd say you should have a deep talk with her and express your feelings, maybe take her on some new, exciting dates as a previous person said, and if it doesn't work, go your own ways. Trying to make something work that never will is just putting stress and heartache on you.
Relationships are about changing; the guy puts his girl as his number 1 priority and the girl puts her man as number 1. There's no more "me"; it's "us" now, you know? If you don't work as a team, it's never going to last. Also, if it doesn't work out in your favor, as hard as it is, just remember that it only means there's someone better out there for you.
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I was in love with this girl. Madly and deeply, only girl I ever loved. We fell apart, lost track of eachother. Turns out 3 years down the line, she was in love with me too. We got back together and here we are. Our relationship is stronger then ever. So 2 choices.
1: ride it out til the end
or
2: ask to spend sometime apartyou'll either miss eachother so much you run back to eachother or you comepletly forget about eachother and move on. All I know is that all those years not a day went by that I didn't miss her. I hope it doesn't take as long for you.
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🐱>✊ anyday!! Put up with it till you make ur mind..
Idk I'm the type that rather be single and ready to mingle yet I've been with this girl for almost a year. She let's me do as I please. Why give that up?I stil do me 😉.. I've had other girls that tryed to 🔨 you know set rules and such. They sucked!
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JayDee, I feel for you man. Love hurts. But my first consideration for you is your age. Is this the girl you want to marry? Can you imagine spending the next 20+ years o your life together? Or do you owe yourself the opportunity to experience other relationships? When I left high school I had a teach say "leave what you love the most (football, band, theater, etc). If you are drawn back to it, then that's what you should major in.". That applies here too.
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Well i will be taking some of y'all advice and see where it goes from there. Thank you all.
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I was there once too bro, same place, same feelings... We are celebrating our 18th wedding anniversary on Sept 26.
Because you are so close, it makes it more complicated. Good luck.
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