Lonely teenager of the month question
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What's up turf smurfs? I'm coming at you from Newfoundland, home of George Street, the street with the most bars per square foot in North America. Sadly, I'm not 19, therefore eliminating me from enjoying this service. As a teenager, I have a relationship question that will undoubtedly result in a few lost turf. Is it okay for me to ask a girl out by text?
Scenario: - casual date
- text a lot already
-don't see in person very often
-want to get to know her better; not entirely comfortable with calling her up out of the blue
That's all: Go for it. -
Why the hell not. I've never done it, then again texting wasn't really the thing to do when I was in high school.
If that's how you normally talk it would be weird to call just to ask her out, wouldn't it? Stick with what works.
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mojopilot wrote:
That's how I'm feeling. I've never done it before either, to be honest, I've always just done it in person. Usually I hung out with the person more beforehand though.Why the hell not. I've never done it, then again texting wasn't really the thing to do when I was in high school.
If that's how you normally talk it would be weird to call just to ask her out, wouldn't it? Stick with what works.
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if texting is already your main form of communication i dont see a problem. but i would get some advice from some of the female mobsters. them females have a different way of thinking.
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Nah bro dont do it by text. Bit of a wimpy way to do it in my opinion no disrespect there. It's the same kind of thing as asking someone else to ask them for you lmao. Just my past experience
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◢☠jͥoͫƎ☠◣ wrote:
I know, I've always thought that. I don't see her around though, and calling would just be super awkward. Like I said, I've never done it by text.Nah bro dont do it by text. Bit of a wimpy way to do it in my opinion no disrespect there. It's the same kind of thing as asking someone else to ask them for you lmao. Just my past experience
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Maybe it's experiment time... Any bets? -
TheNewfieBullet wrote:
10 'Mertás on her saying yes. Don't let me down now 👍💡Idea💡
Maybe it's experiment time... Any bets? -
TheNewfieBullet wrote:
If it would b weird to call her, then it would prolly b extra weird to see her in person on a date...What's up turf smurfs? I'm coming at you from Newfoundland, home of George Street, the street with the most bars per square foot in North America. Sadly, I'm not 19, therefore eliminating me from enjoying this service. As a teenager, I have a relationship question that will undoubtedly result in a few lost turf. Is it okay for me to ask a girl out by text?
Scenario: - casual date
- text a lot already
-don't see in person very often
-want to get to know her better; not entirely comfortable with calling her up out of the blue
That's all: Go for it. -
This is how I asked one of my girlfriends out....
Me: Hey can I ask you something really important?
Her: okay? :)
Me: if a fish eats a fishy cracker is it considered cannibalism?
Her: oh....ah. I guess not.
Me: ok. Btw, you wanna go out?
Her: yes!No joke.
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If your goal is to get your relationship to a more personal level, then why wouldn't calling be the right thing to do? Texting would be less awkward than calling, but you are going to have to learn to talk to her sooner or later. Besides, it is harder to say no to someone than it is to text no to them. Improve your odds & call her.
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GIRL HERE...
1) what do you mean by casual date
2) how clear will you be in specifying the shift in your relationship
3) we like to be called at some stage, however as a teen with a boyfriend who cannot call anybody, text is fine
also, save calling for when you know her a bit better, so you call for a friendly chat, rather than a really awkward conversation (just going on what you have told me about your current relationship paradime)
good luck. -
Iv been released to the wild dating scene for a few months now and i had the same question recently. i did txt her, she replied ok for the date but never got back to me and it never happened. Kiking myself now because i should of just called....
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call her...
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nvm apparently talking to people is 2 awks. on your date will you guys sit next to each other texting each other? or how would that work.
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Listen to Jaeos, all these dudes thinking they understand women, they're lieing😜😂
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For what it's worth the night I met my wife she she sent me a text like an hour after we exchanged numbers asking if I wanted to come over. That was a fun night, and worked out pretty well.
It's not about how you ask, it's about how the date goes. Don't sweat the small stuff.
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Ghetto Monstazz wrote:
Oh Jesus, I've seen couples like that, so fucked.nvm apparently talking to people is 2 awks. on your date will you guys sit next to each other texting each other? or how would that work.
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Older guy here. And though I will definitely NOT call myself an expert on women's thoughts, I do know a text to start a relationship won't work. However, if you just want to hang with her and get to know her better, I say go for it. Say something like "wanna get together for coffee" or some shit. Make it seem like less than a date and more like two friends hanging out. This could open the door to the phone calls. Which could move things to more intimate settings, like movies and dinner. But what do I know? We used to ask girls out by notes when I was young.
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Jaeos wrote:
1) just to get to know her better, see if I'm ready to be in a relationship with herGIRL HERE...
1) what do you mean by casual date
2) how clear will you be in specifying the shift in your relationship
3) we like to be called at some stage, however as a teen with a boyfriend who cannot call anybody, text is fine
also, save calling for when you know her a bit better, so you call for a friendly chat, rather than a really awkward conversation (just going on what you have told me about your current relationship paradime)
good luck.
2) sorry?
3) thank you :) -
✰MAΥHΞΜ✰ wrote:
This dude doesn't think I understand women. I've been married 10 years & am just as far from enlightenment as I was when I was 15. Womens thoughts are still a mystery. My advice isn't lying though, it's guessing. There's a difference. 😜Listen to Jaeos, all these dudes thinking they understand women, they're lieing😜😂
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Texting her on a date is kind of lame in my opinion. Do you know where she lives? Go ask her out personally.
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I would prefer if a guy asked me out in person rather than over a text message. A text message can be so impersonal. If someone is interested in me I'd rather hear it straight from them, not from my phone. It says a lot more than a text message ever could. Just sayin. 😘
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c. wrote:
A very different way of thinking. 😝if texting is already your main form of communication i dont see a problem. but i would get some advice from some of the female mobsters. them females have a different way of thinking.
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