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Alright so I want to take my girlfriend on a great date! Maybe you guys could help a little... Planning on taking her out Friday night in my truck, fill the bed with pillows and a sheet so it will be comfy, and after we get some pizza we will go out into the country in a field with my truck bed down, looking at the stars and just spending the time with eachother. Does anyone else have some ideas that will make it any better? If so please post. Thanks!
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Bug spray
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Sgt Mayday wrote:
LolBug spray
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Sgt Mayday wrote:
This all the way. But your plans sound great! I think you two will have a great timeBug spray
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Wine (if you're old enough), candles, maybe a mixed cd of her favorite songs.
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Ϯɧєℜєɖєєɱeℜ wrote:
Dont let the pillows and sheets fly out while driving.Alright so I want to take my girlfriend on a great date! Maybe you guys could help a little... Planning on taking her out Friday night in my truck, fill the bed with pillows and a sheet so it will be comfy, and after we get some pizza we will go out into the country in a field with my truck bed down, looking at the stars and just spending the time with eachother. Does anyone else have some ideas that will make it any better? If so please post. Thanks!
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ffmedic4143 wrote:
Wine (if you're old enough), candles, maybe a mixed cd of her favorite songs.
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Get a picture frame and make a collage of pictures, movie stubs, maybe a special memento or cd cover....then wrap it neatly and give it to her to let her know you cherish every moment with her. Sentimental shit goes over waaaay better than store bought crap!👍
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Sgt Mayday wrote:
Bug spray
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Condoms😜
But seriously get some big fluffy blanked do it isn't so hard inside the truck -
༺☣ℳཞ71ᏤཡℬüᎦ☣༻ wrote:
Shit, I never thought of that. Like I've had ticket stubs layin around and I've never had the idea to put it all together. Thanks! 👍Get a picture frame and make a collage of pictures, movie stubs, maybe a special memento or cd cover....then wrap it neatly and give it to her to let her know you cherish every moment with her. Sentimental shit goes over waaaay better than store bought crap!👍
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Thanks for all the feedback guys! Only 19 so no wine haha, but other ideas are amazing! Bug spray for sure!
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As for ideas, I'm assuming youll be a little ways away from the city where you can see the stars. If so, get an app called Star Chart. That way you can point your phone at the stars and be able to tell her what's up there. Just don't spend all your time on the phone! Never a good idea
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✭J⌖и Λl͟l͟e͞и✭ wrote:
Sweet ill look into that! I'm sure she will like that. Thanks again for all the ideas.As for ideas, I'm assuming youll be a little ways away from the city where you can see the stars. If so, get an app called Star Chart. That way you can point your phone at the stars and be able to tell her what's up there. Just don't spend all your time on the phone! Never a good idea
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Flares. Defiantly get some flares. You guys can have fun shooting them up in the sky
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Tip some cows. She will be impressed. And no, tipping a cow isn't tipping into a cow like cheech did...or was it chong.
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Take a trip to the field before hand or have a friend drop something off right before you arrive, maybe it's a present maybe it's dessert. Whatever just make the middle of nowhere feel like the destination rather than random.
Doesn't matter what it is big or small but then she will know you planned and put thought into it rather than just trying to think of a cheap date last minute or not having any ideas.
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You're taking her on a date which by the sounds of it, smacks of... "Hey, let's drive out to the country and fuck". 😳
Don't get me wrong, this is often a very good plan if all you want from her is a fuck! 👍 the very fact you are willing to go to at least a smidgin of effort by spending money on her, suggests to me that she is more special. Am I right? Making the cliche moves is too predictable. What you need to do is something which will blow her mind!
As a veteran of many failures with strategies similar to your own, STOP! If she is special, you really should put a little more effort in. Also, judging by several responses here, they clearly think it's a good plan, they clearly are virginal pre pubessant! Lol aside from Mr VDuB. He is on the correct course. Even though he too is a sex fiend. 😄
I am extremely tired right now but I shall return in the morn. I will give you what you need, to make her want to drive YOU to the country and fuck.
My day job, they call me hitch! ✌😄
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I was typing as YoungP posted.... That is a clever idea indeed. 👍 it does class the date up a little. However, the initial intention is very much still in the air. Plus, what's to stop so called friend hanging around in the shadows with a video recorder? Lol
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It's not really about having sex right now.. Kinda early in the relationship for that and I know she isn't thinking about that either... Sorry to burst your bubble but it is a nice idea for other people.
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Ϯɧєℜєɖєєɱeℜ wrote:
Burst bubble? I think you massively misinterpret my words.It's not really about having sex right now.. Kinda early in the relationship for that and I know she isn't thinking about that either... Sorry to burst your bubble but it is a nice idea for other people.
The very act of driving her out to the middle of nowhere is telling her your intentions are sex. Trust me. It's the oldest cliche out there. Anyone who tells you any different is either sparing your feelings or has no knowledge.
The message I'm trying to put across is to go for the exact opposite. Make her feel special. No amount of fluffy blankets or pizza is gonna make her feel particularly special.
However, I digress. I hope the evening goes well. One day, you will learn from the errors thou shalt make on your own journey. 👍
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♞Ƙиιɢнт⚔ wrote:
This man, he is a genius.Ϯɧєℜєɖєєɱeℜ wrote:
Burst bubble? I think you massively misinterpret my words.It's not really about having sex right now.. Kinda early in the relationship for that and I know she isn't thinking about that either... Sorry to burst your bubble but it is a nice idea for other people.
The very act of driving her out to the middle of nowhere is telling her your intentions are sex. Trust me. It's the oldest cliche out there. Anyone who tells you any different is either sparing your feelings or has no knowledge.
The message I'm trying to put across is to go for the exact opposite. Make her feel special. No amount of fluffy blankets or pizza is gonna make her feel particularly special.
However, I digress. I hope the evening goes well. One day, you will learn from the errors thou shalt make on your own journey. 👍
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༺☣ℳཞ71ᏤཡℬüᎦ☣༻ wrote:
This is critical. Be unique. Do something that is for her and her only something no ones ever done for her.Get a picture frame and make a collage of pictures, movie stubs, maybe a special memento or cd cover....then wrap it neatly and give it to her to let her know you cherish every moment with her. Sentimental shit goes over waaaay better than store bought crap!👍
Knight is also right, it's going to feel like you are bringing her out there just for a place to have sex. Don't let it go silent or awkward during the drive so she doesn't have stressing thoughts running through her mind about your intentions. Just how I see Maybe? Is she going to know she wil be star gazing?
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Having re-read my posts I can see how you may think I am suggesting that you make more effort to have sex with her.
This is not the case. The very fact you are bothering to ask for advice here, tells me she means a lot to you. (or could!)
Pizza - sheet - pillows - truck in the middle of nowhere! On a clear night with no light pollution. It could be amazing. Save this for a less important evening when you guys are simply chilling out. This is poor date material.
Dates should sparsely be used. And when they are they should be amazing. It doesn't have to be a date to simply chill out or hang...or whichever term the cool catz are spitting these days! Lol 😃 -
As far as an iPod app, skyview is also a good one. It does spud like a nice time, but it could sound like you're intentions are to go out to a field and screw. I know that's not your plans, but it could be misconstrued as such. Another interesting idea, if you're able to, set up a small campfire. Just enjoy her company and spend the evening really getting to know each other.
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Thanks guy! Got the star chart and it's pretty sweet, and I see now what your getting at knight. Her and I are both Christian and both are not expecting sex, just expecting to have a great time. But I will re read your posts and take it in, thanks again guys.
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Ϯɧєℜєɖєєɱeℜ wrote:
Good luck.Thanks guy! Got the star chart and it's pretty sweet, and I see now what your getting at knight. Her and I are both Christian and both are not expecting sex, just expecting to have a great time. But I will re read your posts and take it in, thanks again guys.
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What has being Christian got to do with sex? 😄
Simply because you are Christian, does not give you an excuse to take her on a boring, poorly thought up date. Pulling your phone out will infuriate her on the inside. If you are still going down this route at least avoid being lazy.
Get your ass out in your street right NOW and open the app. Start with a couple of easily identifiable clusters or constellations. If your location allows it, try and find the 'Summer Triangle'. It is made up of three stars, each from seperate constellations. If you're into the creed games, one of the stars will strike you as being pretty cool!! 😉 and they are fairly easy to find.
Ok, so learn a little about your chosen stars, this way you can point them out on your own. You don't need sound like you know it all. Keep using terms like... "I think" or if I remember correctly". If all goes well, find a star you both can see clearly, then get out your phone and find the name of it. Make it 'our star' 😉 .....
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Try your best to think up something better than pizza too. Know anyone with a small picnic hamper?
Put together a small collection of bites and sweets. You can buy these things pretty cheaply if cash is an issue. Probably cheaper than the price of pizza. 👍 don't forget to take plenty liquids. Water is a must, even if you take soda. Dry mouth can set in quickly if nerves play up. As we all know, if Dry mouth hits, we either stumble words or sound insanely stupid! 😄
Take her a small to medium sized flower. If there's nowhere to pick one, buy one but remove and store materials. 👍
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