Idk how you military wives do it
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JCM88 wrote:
Non of that was for you. And none of what I said was saying that anyone can't say whatever they feel like. It was really the opposite. Just giving my opinion again about how I disagree with someone else's opinion again. And I may have been mildly upset about the whole "hero" thing. Not saying I am, nor accept any claim of it. Just a bit peeved about someone who has never been trying to use the fact that someone is in the military to get under their skin.ⓉⓎⓁⒺⓇ ⒹⓊⓇⒹⒺⓃ wrote:
It's funny how people hide behind "freedom of speech". Then again who am I to say anything. I can't because I don't wear boots according to this genius.Thank god for the dictionary app
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Guess it worked... Dag nabbit
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Listen ⓉⓎⓁⒺⓇ ⒹⓊⓇⒹⒺⓃ. Let me set something straight before you go off on a tangent about military family members not being able to hold an opinion because they are not "true patriots". While we go off repeatedly, following through with what we signed on the dotted line to do, they are the ones that stay back. They are the ones that have to deal with our choice, taking care of a family with a missing parent, hoping never to get that one phone call that informs them that they will never see their husband/wife again, living the day to day life like everything is just fine and dandy. Military families are more patriots than you give them credit for marine, and I'm ashamed to have to remind you of that. They sacrifice more than your average citizen, and their opinions hold more water because of that.
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Opinion... Opinion... Opinion... Some do simply stay back and do the good spouse thing, some go off and sleep around, some are just in it for the money, some just got married because that's the princess' dream.
But it's not as cut nd dry as your trying to say it is, and it's not always this situation your talking about. And if you think for a second you HAD to remind you, then take a step down off your pedestool. Because as unpopular as my opinions are, there are valid points and behind them there is an extremely large amount of evidence backing them up.
And again (read last post), the lacking of my interest in the persons opinion that I was commenting on, was not the dependent, but a different joe. So if I may, Sir/Gny/brainwashed Lance coolie, ask you to come correct, if your going to come at all. (respect/expectations has yet again dropped another notch) *sigh
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Remind me*
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This shitbag is still going at it? What a tool.
Listen up guys, anyone in the military who acts like this fool is an embarrassment to our country. There is more to defending America than Afghanistan. Your actions and words are seen by people simply because you are in the military, so maybe you should try shutting the fuck up instead of embarrassing everyone.
What a true hero and inspiration you are. Part of the problem pretending not to be under the guise of military. Go fuck yourself.
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Your addition to a current conversation, "Most just who're it up and spend all our money...", is what sent this topic in a different direction. May I remind you the comment that JCM88 had stated, simply that your pessimistic comments are not welcome and are in no need warranted. A young woman inquiring how military wives handle their husbands leaving for months at a time should never be answered with how most marriages fail in the military, or that many commit adultery and spend our paychecks.
You may have freedom of speech, but there are times where you must use your brain to decipher when your opinion should be stated, or maybe you simple need to keep your mouth shut. Having the right doesn't mean when given the opportunity, you can break down the expectations of a future relationship
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As for my credentials... I have served on active duty over 10 years of my life, four deployments, over 70 combat missions, and many TDY's. I was married when I first signed on that dotted line, which quickly ended during my first deployment. It is true some relationships fail because one person cant handle the stress, but most do not fall into that category. I have since found a very strong woman, who can handle my crap and the choices I make, and after years of trying to trust again I made her my wife. Now I am away from my family over 6 months a year, performing my duties and supporting my country. Just earlier this month I was in Afghanistan, carrying a weapon as I went to midnight chow and leaving with a cliff bar and Gatorade so I had something extra in my pocket. I've missed the birth of my child, all 5 of her first birthdays, countless anniversaries and holidays, and much more.
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I've spend far more than "2 years" of my life in countries most would not dare to go, and I still maintain a positive outlook when it comes to family. I have an opinion because I have been there, but in no way would I ever want a young couple to be weary about their relationship as they join this way of life. Feel free to keep your mouth shut when u have pessimistic thoughts about military families and their success rate. Instead, please keep those opinions to your unfulfilled life of being alone and having no one to greet you with open arms as you return from overseas.
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Well said, and good points. But from one extreme to another, (being true to my pessimistic nature) the fact remains that the situation is what it is. And yes, I shOuld have worded it better in the beginning, my apologies. But if you saw a bunch of women say "I knit", "I go to school", "I sit at home and watch wheel of fortune", then you know dang well you would have scaughed and dismissed it as nothing. Sorry heffe', I just couldn't do it. I've never had a very good brain to mouth filter, and yes it has cost me, but it has gained me more respect and a good name for myself amongst my peers and pupils for not being one of the sheep. Its saved my pups from a dozen NJPs (non deserved) and ten times as many ass chewings for standing up for the truth and what should be, instead of what highers like to, well, you know ;).
Anywho, do you really think I've lowered this young ladies expectations of her future relationship? Or anyone else's for that matter? Come on now... You know I haven't.
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jennskiezz wrote:
Crown59, seriously dude. Get the fuck out.
You don't fucking tell a girl whose significant other is thousands of miles away to find a fuck buddy.
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Ha ha ha ha ha ha you so do if she's needs the stick she's find a way of getting it without anyone knowing ... By the way your husband is a legal murderer who might come back a changed man that you won't want anyway...Go get laid happy days .. Mabey a threesome with me and crown59 can be arranged .
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Ahhh... Someone's getting a little cranky now. :) I like it
Shouldn't a couple be weary? Do you not prepare your troops for the worst by letting them know there's a good possibility it's going to happen? I do. My mentors have. And never once have I, they, anyone criticized us for making sure someone is blindsided by it. I will "feel free" to continue to keep speaking the truth, and I will continue enjoying my very filling life, which I am not alone in, and will continue to take your, or any other educated opinion for what its worth.
I understand your point, I get the fact that it may have worked out for you eventually, but I will NOT let people think its all happy lovey family nonsense when it's not. If your not okay with me telling people that, tough, it's happening, will continue to happen, and there is nothing that will stop it. -
And congrats on being devoted like most of the rest of us. And missing birthdays and having relationships ending badly and "carrying a rifle". Just about all of the stats are about average for me and mine. Lack of "missions" that is, but that irrelevant.
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It's sad that you can't be happy for anyone and that you have to bring people down to feel better. You then say it's the way it is, God forbid anyone has a happy life. You reap what you sow. Spread your negativity, you're still alone at the end of the day.
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JCM88 wrote:
I feel happy for lots :)It's sad that you can't be happy for anyone and that you have to bring people down to feel better. You then say it's the way it is, God forbid anyone has a happy life. You reap what you sow. Spread your negativity, you're still alone at the end of the day.
I'm bringing no one "down"
I say it's the way it is, sad to say, it is
Reap what you sow... Karma is about as believable as magic tricks
It's about the end of my day and... OH LOOK! There's my honey bunny, curled up next to me :) -
ⓉⓎⓁⒺⓇ ⒹⓊⓇⒹⒺⓃ wrote:
Your right hand doesn't count. Neither does the gentleman of your left :)JCM88 wrote:
I feel happy for lots :)It's sad that you can't be happy for anyone and that you have to bring people down to feel better. You then say it's the way it is, God forbid anyone has a happy life. You reap what you sow. Spread your negativity, you're still alone at the end of the day.
I'm bringing no one "down"
I say it's the way it is, sad to say, it is
Reap what you sow... Karma is about as believable as magic tricks
It's about the end of my day and... OH LOOK! There's my honey bunny, curled up next to me :) -
JCM88 wrote:
At my left?ⓉⓎⓁⒺⓇ ⒹⓊⓇⒹⒺⓃ wrote:
Your right hand doesn't count. Neither does the gentleman of your left :)JCM88 wrote:
I feel happy for lots :)It's sad that you can't be happy for anyone and that you have to bring people down to feel better. You then say it's the way it is, God forbid anyone has a happy life. You reap what you sow. Spread your negativity, you're still alone at the end of the day.
I'm bringing no one "down"
I say it's the way it is, sad to say, it is
Reap what you sow... Karma is about as believable as magic tricks
It's about the end of my day and... OH LOOK! There's my honey bunny, curled up next to me :) -
ⓉⓎⓁⒺⓇ ⒹⓊⓇⒹⒺⓃ wrote:
Precisely. No worries I am not pestimistic and don't mind your lifestyle.JCM88 wrote:
At my left?ⓉⓎⓁⒺⓇ ⒹⓊⓇⒹⒺⓃ wrote:
Your right hand doesn't count. Neither does the gentleman of your left :)JCM88 wrote:
I feel happy for lots :)It's sad that you can't be happy for anyone and that you have to bring people down to feel better. You then say it's the way it is, God forbid anyone has a happy life. You reap what you sow. Spread your negativity, you're still alone at the end of the day.
I'm bringing no one "down"
I say it's the way it is, sad to say, it is
Reap what you sow... Karma is about as believable as magic tricks
It's about the end of my day and... OH LOOK! There's my honey bunny, curled up next to me :) -
Hey no worries... Ain't nothing wrong with a lil man on man action! I just wish he'd stop shaving his chest! It get so prickly! :-/
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ⓉⓎⓁⒺⓇ ⒹⓊⓇⒹⒺⓃ wrote:
The conversation is now mute, it's like arguing with a child hahaHey no worries... Ain't nothing wrong with a lil man on man action! I just wish he'd stop shaving his chest! It get so prickly! :-/
Semper Fidelis
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jennskiezz wrote:
But it has a happy ending?When my boyfriend left for college for his freshman year, I was told COUNTLESS times that it wouldn't work and that I should find someone else. That I should find someone to mess around with while my boyfriend was away. And guess what. I fucking took that advice and started dating around. I took a bunch of people's shitty advice and negative comments and let it ruin my love life for a year.
Obviously I shouldn't have succumbed to peer pressure and I should have placed my relationship above the words of my friends, but it's their negative comments that took my relationship down the very path I had feared.
*shrug. Just my two cents.
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JCM88 wrote:
It's been moot for a minute now. I thought you and I were just bantering to pass the time.ⓉⓎⓁⒺⓇ ⒹⓊⓇⒹⒺⓃ wrote:
The conversation is now mute, it's like arguing with a child hahaHey no worries... Ain't nothing wrong with a lil man on man action! I just wish he'd stop shaving his chest! It get so prickly! :-/
Semper Fidelis
Yut
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ⓉⓎⓁⒺⓇ ⒹⓊⓇⒹⒺⓃ wrote:
I know this couple, they're together and strong. I know this may upset you but its true. So go spill your hate somewhere else.jennskiezz wrote:
But it has a happy ending?When my boyfriend left for college for his freshman year, I was told COUNTLESS times that it wouldn't work and that I should find someone else. That I should find someone to mess around with while my boyfriend was away. And guess what. I fucking took that advice and started dating around. I took a bunch of people's shitty advice and negative comments and let it ruin my love life for a year.
Obviously I shouldn't have succumbed to peer pressure and I should have placed my relationship above the words of my friends, but it's their negative comments that took my relationship down the very path I had feared.
*shrug. Just my two cents.
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But it has a happy ending?
I know this couple, they're together and strong. I know this may upset you but its true. So go spill your hate somewhere else.
I was guna say that the happy ending is all that matters... H8ters guna H8 -
ⓉⓎⓁⒺⓇ ⒹⓊⓇⒹⒺⓃ wrote:
cuz thats what uve been saying throughout this thread? at least be constant if u want to express ur opinions.But it has a happy ending?
I know this couple, they're together and strong. I know this may upset you but its true. So go spill your hate somewhere else.
I was guna say that the happy ending is all that matters... H8ters guna H8 -
Befor it was about what Happens a lot..
This was about 2 people that you could write a good romantic book about...
2 opinions, unrelated, play nice -
ⓉⓎⓁⒺⓇ ⒹⓊⓇⒹⒺⓃ wrote:
glad we're finally getting back on topicBefor it was about what Happens a lot..
This was about 2 people that you could write a good romantic book about...
2 opinions, unrelated, play nice -
yomama1064 wrote:
What's the topic again?ⓉⓎⓁⒺⓇ ⒹⓊⓇⒹⒺⓃ wrote:
glad we're finally getting back on topicBefor it was about what Happens a lot..
This was about 2 people that you could write a good romantic book about...
2 opinions, unrelated, play nice -
As a woman with military training who only recently raised her hand to swear an oath to defend THIS one, I find your comments insulting to the military of any country. Way to go, rock star, for showing an utter lack of consideration and humanity to armed forces and their families. It takes a really brave man to call women - any women - "who'res" (lmao on the spelling btw) on a game message board. That's exactly what your great-grandparents fought for - your right to free speech that enables us all to see the ignorant individual you are. You must be raking it in with all that intelligence, no wonder they are spending all your money. Learn how to spell before making any further "patriotic" statements - they are a disgrace to this country.
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ⓉⓎⓁⒺⓇ ⒹⓊⓇⒹⒺⓃ wrote:
if u dont know then gtfo 😊yomama1064 wrote:
What's the topic again?ⓉⓎⓁⒺⓇ ⒹⓊⓇⒹⒺⓃ wrote:
glad we're finally getting back on topicBefor it was about what Happens a lot..
This was about 2 people that you could write a good romantic book about...
2 opinions, unrelated, play nice
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