Well, here it goes.
Forums โบ General Discussion โบ Well, here it goes.-
On one hand I hope this fades off into the forgotten, on another I hope I find support.
I am in the same boat as swagger. For 8 years now I know I have felt like I should be female. I have been in hiding for so long I had given up.
My girlfriend found out and prodded until I admitted it.
She has been extremely supportive! But it's at a point where I need more support than just one person.
So I am finally turning to the TW community. Bronwyn (swagger), I know we have Pm'd back and forth about me admitting it, well here it is.
It's out in the open. I don't feel good about it like I had hoped....
I await the ridicule, and the loss of friends.
I post this at 3:16am to hopefully avoid most of the community.
All I can ask is please don't think any different of me. I'm still the same person.
P.s. raikou, this is in part why I didn't feel comfy about the proof vids. It's been a secret for far too long, and I have swagger to thank for the final push of confidence.
Well.... Swagger and alcohol.
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Won't think anything different of you bud, glad you feel confident to admit.
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Thanks joe, well I best get walkin home. Hopefully my wifi at home is still working. โ
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I've always wanted to know what a Ginny feels like. Keep me posted ๐
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Good luck to you! Respect for admitting this. ๐
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Thanks, and Ginny?
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๐แซะฒsฮนdฮนฮฑฮท๐ wrote:
(Va)ginnyThanks, and Ginny?
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Brave. Very brave.๐๐๐๐
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Johnny Cage wrote:
Ah, thanks for the verification, I guess?๐แซะฒsฮนdฮนฮฑฮท๐ wrote:
(Va)ginnyThanks, and Ginny?
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Benny DaBOSS๐ซ๐๐ wrote:
Thank you benny, this is going much better than my paranoia made me imagine.Brave. Very brave.๐๐๐๐
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Congrats on being you ๐ you should know by now this crazy family of ours is very supportive.........yes we have a few nut jobs...but what family doesn't ๐.
I wonder who will come out next ๐ haha
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Imo obsidian, and this goes for swagger aswell ofc...
If you lose friends, or contact with certain people over this, it means you were "just another person to talk to when they are alone in a bar" i hope you get what i mean by this.Real friends wont let you down or leave you over this.
So strenght to you for the near future ( and next phrase might be a bit out of line?) but it takes balls to come out with this...
I wish you all the best.
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Kevster ๐บ๐ธ๐๐ซ wrote:
Haha thanks kevster, and yeah I knew, but I've never made anything truly positive in the gd, I mean my hopping diary was a little popular, but I didn't really feel I was part of the gd anymore than a comment here or there. I've only had a couple people who chat with me via non-gd methods.Congrats on being you ๐ you should know by now this crazy family of ours is very supportive.........yes we have a few nut jobs...but what family doesn't ๐.
I wonder who will come out next ๐ haha
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fartex wrote:
I completely understand, and thank you too!Imo obsidian, and this goes for swagger aswell ofc...
If you lose friends, or contact with certain people over this, it means you were "just another person to talk to when they are alone in a bar" i hope you get what i mean by this.Real friends wont let you down or leave you over this.
So strenght to you for the near future ( and next phrase might be a bit out of line?) but it takes balls to come out with this...
I wish you all the best.
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Best of luck! It takes much courage to do what y'all are doing! Keep on keeping on, and do what makes you happy.
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๐ฐเฟแฐเธฅเธญ๐ฅแฐฮตฮฑฮทเฟ๐ฐ wrote:
Thanks bad bean!Best of luck! It takes much courage to do what y'all are doing! Keep on keeping on, and do what makes you happy.
You should think about writing, at least IMO, I wanna know more about the pimp! ๐
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Do what you want to do and be who who want to be. Life is just a lesson. Exaple on your bday you want vanilla cake but your family and friends want chocolate. Get vanilla it's your bday. Same thing with life if they are your family and friends they should accept you for who you are and if not it's their loss
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Snails wrote:
Thanks snails, that's actually how I live life in a nutshell, except in this instance... This is just a little more difficult than anything before it....Do what you want to do and be who who want to be. Life is just a lesson. Exaple on your bday you want vanilla cake but your family and friends want chocolate. Get vanilla it's your bday. Same thing with life if they are your family and friends they should accept you for who you are and if not it's their loss
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Of course I can imagine this is by far the most difficult thing in your life. But you live only once. Try to not waste any more time on not being yourself just because society standards and opinions. Life's too short for that...
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Off topic a bit, after some googleing, there is quite the difference between Ginny and vaginny, I hope Ginny was the actual reference.
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Ronster wrote:
I've wasted 8 years, and despite the relief of some others knowing, the fear, and nervousness of telling my family is still strong.Of course I can imagine this is by far the most difficult thing in your life. But you live only once. Try to not waste any more time on not being yourself just because society standards and opinions. Life's too short for that...
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๐แซะฒsฮนdฮนฮฑฮท๐ wrote:
That I fully understand. Of course it's not easy. On the contrary. But realizing you don't want to waste any more precious time might give you the strength to make the step.Ronster wrote:
I've wasted 8 years, and despite the relief of some others knowing, the fear, and nervousness of telling my family is still strong.Of course I can imagine this is by far the most difficult thing in your life. But you live only once. Try to not waste any more time on not being yourself just because society standards and opinions. Life's too short for that...
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Hey ๐แซะฒsฮนdฮนฮฑฮท๐ Just hope you know that the people to walk away aren't the people worth having stand next to you in the first place.
I don't know you, but you have my support.
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Good on you for having the courage to say all that you have said. And a tad off topic, swagger came out? I had no clue, but either way much respect to both of you. Takes a lot of courage to say something that a lot of people would hate on.
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I've said the same thing to swagger and gtr36 on their threads as I'm gonna say to you. Do what you need to do to make yourself happy in life. Haters gonna hate, but those true will stand by you throughout.
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I don't think anybody will think different of you it makes really no difference. be happy that your happy ๐if that makes any sense ...
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Good luck, and I'm glad you've got Swags to get through the announcement stage with you. I've mentioned to Swags a couple of times, that in Thailand they officially recognize a third sex and it is very common to meet transexuals in all walks of life. The pair of you should take a trip over there. Good luck when you tell your family.
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Obsidian, do what makes you happy. As long as its not hurting anyone else, it can't be wrong. Once you feel comfortable with yourself, it won'tatter what others think...
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Brave decision, you will obviously have the support of most of the tw family, including me.
Look upon this announcement as the first day of the rest of your life. Enjoy it. -
Does does this make you a lesbian? Since you dig chicks and all
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Karas wrote:
๐this X 2Hey ๐แซะฒsฮนdฮนฮฑฮท๐ Just hope you know that the people to walk away aren't the people worth having stand next to you in the first place.
I don't know you, but you have my support.
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