Worst day EVER!!!! Much needed advice...
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As some of you have heard my fiancé, brokensilence86, and my house burned to the ground. Well here's an update... It is now being deemed arson. Basically the perpetrator drenched my shed with accelerant and lit it up which, in turn, caught my house on fire... Now for the advice... If you were in my shoes how would you deal with the nightmares?
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Be glad you have your life. In the end nothing else matters
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Think happy thoughts before going to sleep. Works for me, or seek counselling?
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ZRAYGO wrote:
👆👍Be glad you have your life. In the end nothing else matters
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First realize that it is going to take some time. You and your fiancé are okay and you have each other to lean on. It's tough, but you have to stop thinking emotionally and start thinking logically. You two are okay and anything lost was just items. Some special, I'm sure, but not as special as if it had been one of you. Good luck in your future marriage. This is just a small problem for you to overcome.
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Really sorry for your loss especially the pets. I know I had horrible flashbacks when I found one of my cats dead after it was hit by a car. Protect what you have which is each other. Sit down and count what good you have no matter how small. Build a plan of little steps to rebuild your life. If you find out who did this sue them and take their house. Like in TurfWars the best result is sweet revenge but in a way you come out on top. Not with one of you in jail. Best of wishes for your coming nuptials.
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Yu ar alredy gettng thru a terbl ordeel TGETHR. This strenthns yu as individuls bt also as a cupl. If yu can get thru smthng ths bad tgethr? Thn yur rlashnship truly has bn testd by fire and ,like a spanish sword, will not brake.
Im sory fr all yu lost in th fire. But thank th gods yu both ar ok💙big wizzoo💙 -
Got insurene?
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Put ur mind to something use fell like things the insurance company dont know you had then enjoy filling out the claim forms ! On a serious note tho shit u guys a lucky in the new home in best in smoke alarms and a dog preferably a fucken big one that will tear any potential arsonists to shreds !
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SkyTheLimit wrote:
Wise and true words. 💙Bigger WIZZOO💙😉Yu ar alredy gettng thru a terbl ordeel TGETHR. This strenthns yu as individuls bt also as a cupl. If yu can get thru smthng ths bad tgethr? Thn yur rlashnship truly has bn testd by fire and ,like a spanish sword, will not brake.
Im sory fr all yu lost in th fire. But thank th gods yu both ar ok💙big wizzoo💙 -
Be thankful that you both are alive.
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MOB 'N ROB wrote:
👍👍👍good luck 💙Biggest WIZZOO💙😉😉SkyTheLimit wrote:
Wise and true words. 💙Bigger WIZZOO💙😉Yu ar alredy gettng thru a terbl ordeel TGETHR. This strenthns yu as individuls bt also as a cupl. If yu can get thru smthng ths bad tgethr? Thn yur rlashnship truly has bn testd by fire and ,like a spanish sword, will not brake.
Im sory fr all yu lost in th fire. But thank th gods yu both ar ok💙big wizzoo💙 -
What they said is perfect. No need to recap. I'm sorry and good luck. Let me know if u guys need anything. My grandparents house burned to the ground. But.... They were in it. Bout 2 years ago. Goin on 3. So yeah. Hit me up if u need to talk.
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🔰ਸᏧᏧ ℜⱥ༏Ҡℴ ц🔰 wrote:
Really sorry to hear that.What they said is perfect. No need to recap. I'm sorry and good luck. Let me know if u guys need anything. My grandparents house burned to the ground. But.... They were in it. Bout 2 years ago. Goin on 3. So yeah. Hit me up if u need to talk.
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I guess my main problem is that we lost everything including some pets. Our momma cat and a kitten. A neighbor found another kitten of ours and is keeping it and won't give it back. We do have 2 BIG guard dogs. A german shepherd/ husky mix and a pit bull/ boxer/ lab mix. But the leads they were on only reached the back door. Not all the way to the shed that was lit. We thought about robbers not arsonists. I don't really even know how to comfort my fiancé right now... He feels bad cause he couldn't protect his family... And now he's upset because I'm having nightmares and he can't stop them.
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Im sorry for your losses. This will be one of those hard times in life where you have to pull it together. In the end its all just stuff. We came to this world naked and we will leave naked. Be strong. Your alive,be thankful and tell your man it was out of his control. Your nightmares will go away as time heals the wounds. Again im sorry for what happened to you,hope my words help.
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🔰ਸᏧᏧ ℜⱥ༏Ҡℴ ц🔰 wrote:
Ohmygosh im so vry sory raikouWhat they said is perfect. No need to recap. I'm sorry and good luck. Let me know if u guys need anything. My grandparents house burned to the ground. But.... They were in it. Bout 2 years ago. Goin on 3. So yeah. Hit me up if u need to talk.
Wizzoo hugs, truth -
Well first be grateful you were not killed. And second hopefully take solice in the fact that justice will be served. And if it's not only u know the answer. I for one know if someone did something that affected me or people or animals close to me and they got off scot free then I would make sure they pay for what they did. But that's just me. Do they know who did it? And like I said be grateful for your safety!
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Let law handle it. I am glad you are live. Sorry about pets.
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Never be afraid to get counseling if you think you need it for issues that may affect your life afterward...could manifest many ways. Be proactive. Counselors know more on this than we do.
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Just remember it's ok to cry.It's ok to ask for help."Don't ask god to make thing easier for you,ask him to make you stronger"I dunno who you are but trust me things always get better, dust your self off and smile at the sunrise.
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