Just a Rant. Sorry.
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A great way to make friends is by joining some type of club joining a club is a great way to get your self confidence up
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as 16 is a bit tougher yet the year for GCSE is almost over so just ignoring is probably best and just study, in sixth form, Uni, college you will meet new people so don't give up
I wasn't talking of medicine more of an outlet speaker if further counselling
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🔰Superyan🔰 wrote:
Gay means happy, faggot means a bundle of sticks(pretty sure), and fag is a cigarette from the UK. Those people don't deserve to be called friends. Try hanging out with different people, and you always have us to talk to. I'm on Pal all the time.I'd like to apologise to anyone offended by the part where I said they call me gay.
I don't consider being homosexual being bad or an insult.
It just isn't nice to be called everyday.
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I'd sit next to you 👍👍👍
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School small part of your life. Someday you won't even see those creeps. If you do some come up to you and think you are best friends. People are creeps. You will be better looking then them. Later you will look back. And say butt-hole
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I admit I don't know you but I know your not a bad guy so the first thing u need to do is to get some self confidence and tell these 'friends' if your gonna treat me like shit you can f*** off
If someones a twat to you you have the right to treat them like a twat
If someone's nice to you be nice back (you're 'friends' aren't doing this -
Ryan, those are not friends. They are horrible people.
Trust me, it's far better in life and much less soul destroying to be alone than to be treated like shit constantly.
Most of us learn this sometime in our adult life. Often in a terrible love relationship.
Unfortunately, you are learning this tough to swallow lesson very early in life. It's a bitter pill.
On the other side of it though, you will begin to find self respect, self- esteem and some dignity. You will learn healthy boundaries for what treatment you will accept and what you will not. You need those boundaries.
The type of people you call your friends are the types to stay far far away from in life.
I'm sorry you have felt they are the only choice you have. They are not. Until you find a few people of quality, it's much better to be a lone wolf.
Never ever sit with those little bastards again. Sit alone and read a book. Sorry, my friend.
Please continue to vent here with your TW family and friends.
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Ryan, I'm really not sure the exact situation even reading this entire post. I just don't understand WHY you think they are your only possible friends? This may come as a shock to you but from the way they are acting it seems like they don't want you around. Why on earth would you want to be around people who treat you like that and don't seem to want you around? You're better than that. You need to find new friends, or people who are more understanding to you. Don't try and force yourself on people, and if you happened to and you get treated like that, then move on. There are SO many people in the world, so many different types. Find people that are more like you, that have similar interests. I personally, (if I were you) would not let anyone treat me like that, friend or not. They sound ignorant and bigoted, you're known by the company you keep. Do you want to be known as ignorant and bigoted?
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Sammy, it's the popular group of the school.
I've been with them since year 7. It was great until I became ill and I came back better.
Now they just do this to me. I'm sort of clinging to the past. -
₲ɛƞɛяɑƖ ₳łɑƌɛɛƞ wrote:
Good advice. You're better off learning this now, because if you do continue spending time these guys you're delaying the inevitable. You will eventually get fed up with them and wish you hadn't wasted so much time on them. You deserve better.Leave them. Find people who respect you for you. Tell them what you think.
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Would it be fair to assume that they are nice at other times? They just get to you; it's the little things added up, and then you're sick of it, but then they turn around and are pleasant company again? And then you kind of subconsciously forgive them because they're being kind? An then the cycle begins again?
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Everything said here sums it all up. Fuck em. It'll get better Ryan a swear. Like Bella said, it gets better after high school. People are less petty and pathetic.
And I'd sit next to ya. I know your leg probably gets sore. As one of my fave authors said- don't sweat the small stuff daddy-o 👍 -
SeñoritaMafioso wrote:
Exactly. I'll tell myself I'll crack of they are nasty to me again.Would it be fair to assume that they are nice at other times? They just get to you; it's the little things added up, and then you're sick of it, but then they turn around and are pleasant company again? And then you kind of subconsciously forgive them because they're being kind? An then the cycle begins again?
But they are nice to me and treat me great for a day. And I'll forgive them completely.
Then the next day, they'll carry on doing what they were doing until I'm about to crack again.
It's like they know when I'm about to give in. -
🔰Superyan🔰 wrote:
Then you're bringing it on yourself. If you see it, allow them to do this to you over and over, don't learn to grow a backbone in high school where none of this shit will matter in the big picture, how are you going to expect to have backbone and be assertive when it matters? Their "popularity" in high school won't mean shit later.Sammy, it's the popular group of the school.
I've been with them since year 7. It was great until I became ill and I came back better.
Now they just do this to me. I'm sort of clinging to the past. -
Turf🐑Warrior wrote:
👆👍 said it the best.₲ɛƞɛяɑƖ ₳łɑƌɛɛƞ wrote:
Good advice. You're better off learning this now, because if you do continue spending time these guys you're delaying the inevitable. You will eventually get fed up with them and wish you hadn't wasted so much time on them. You deserve better.Leave them. Find people who respect you for you. Tell them what you think.
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Sammy Guns🔫🌊🗻 wrote:
I'm not with them just because they are popular.🔰Superyan🔰 wrote:
Then you're bringing it on yourself. If you see it, allow them to do this to you over and over, don't learn to grow a backbone in high school where none of this shit will matter in the big picture, how are you going to expect to have backbone and be assertive when it matters? Their "popularity" in high school won't mean shit later.Sammy, it's the popular group of the school.
I've been with them since year 7. It was great until I became ill and I came back better.
Now they just do this to me. I'm sort of clinging to the past.
I've been friends with some since nursery. I mentioned the popularity just to show that everyone loves them and it'll be so easy to get everyone against me. -
Talk to them calmly and respectfully about the way you feel, say how awful you feel and that you are friends with them but can't stand it much longer.
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I am going to take all your advice.
Solitude won't be too bad. -
🔰Superyan🔰 wrote:
I practically live in solitude. Speaking from experience, you get used to it.I am going to take all your advice.
Solitude won't be too bad.
But seriously, it's okay to vent somewhere. Just tell them what's bugging you, and if they don't seem to care, they're not good friends. -
🔰Superyan🔰 wrote:
Take it smooth though else you may have consequencesI am going to take all your advice.
Solitude won't be too bad. -
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☠Ɲø☤Ƒཇⱥℜ☠ wrote:
Go ahead. Speak your mind......
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I know exactly how you feel. This sounds like me and my friends. Only 1 of then sticks up for me, 1 makes fun of everyone, and all the others are 2 faced
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Ditch your "friends" and get new ones. They are jack asses. Trust me I know it feels like without them you'll have no one. But this isn't the case. You will find real friends. I myself have gone through this situation. Heck my old "friends" respect me now.
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Ryan, I'm a former loner. Solitude sucks. But it helps you figure out what kind of people you want to surround yourself with. I had 4 friends in high school. 15 years later, you know how many I talk to? One of them, and it's only barely. As you get older, you will meet more people with similar interests. And they won't treat you like a leper. be the guy you want to be Ryan. And fuck the false friends. The best way to find those true friends in the group is to distance yourself from all of them and see who tries to stay close.
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I am sara an i wod sit wt yuo 😁
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You need better friends bro.
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I'd sure as Hell sit with you Ryan. You've been a great guy on the forums here, and one of the most serious- yet funny players i've came across in my time here. Some peoples ignorance baffles me 😒 But solitude isn't so bad. You'll figure out what YOU enjoy, as yourself and nobody else. Which is great 👍👍 Just keep your head held high and don't look back on them. It's their loss, not yours.
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“⚡Տɧɑƌøա₭ɪɲɠ⚡ wrote:
This is a good point. Solitude works well with friends or bf/gf's. Time on your own allows you to take time and really recognize what you want and what you dont want in companions.Ryan, I'm a former loner. Solitude sucks. But it helps you figure out what kind of people you want to surround yourself with. I had 4 friends in high school. 15 years later, you know how many I talk to? One of them, and it's only barely. As you get older, you will meet more people with similar interests. And they won't treat you like a leper. be the guy you want to be Ryan. And fuck the false friends. The best way to find those true friends in the group is to distance yourself from all of them and see who tries to stay close.
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Roll solo Ryan!! Till you find real friends. These peasants sound like immature assholes.
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