30 day no touch challenge
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I've been with my GF for 5 years now, I'm lucky if we DO touch in 30 days... Try the challenge again in a few years, it ill be LOTS easier. Lol
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ʜץƌʀɑ wrote:
That is a silly challenge. 30 days of no 'inappropriate' contact is a great challenge but simply being unable to hug her, hold her hand or even brush your hand across her cheek is pointless and counterproductive.SeñoritaMafioso wrote:
Like if we accidentally bump into each other thats fine, but no hugging or holding hands kind of stuff. Thanks for the advice guys..some of its good lolWhen you say you can't touch each other, do you mean touch touch, or like holding hands touch? 😳
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Meh, each their own. I find that physical contact builds and strengthens by emotional attachment. Those that recommend withholding pleasurable actions even as simple as hugging and holding hands seems to be suggesting that you shouldn't enjoy every minute with your love. Rather you should make yourself uncomfortable, awkward and frustrated. Well that's how I would feel. It would not feel natural to me to not hold hands, to hug or kiss.
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Baron Von Fritz wrote:
Wow. Calm down dude. It was all in good fun. Geez.✯ཥ༑ངਸཧཧབ✯ wrote:
Really? Really now? So you touch your girl however you want? And you would dump a girl for wanting to be respectful and decent? You sicken me.ShytTAlker69 wrote:
😳Dump her and find a girl who hasn't been to a brainwashing camp
😂😂😂😂😂
I must agree lol -
Best of luck to you hydra. I can't imagine going 30 days without touching my fiance's face or holding her hand. Personally, I see no issue with that contact. But seriously, good luck to ya.
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I was seeing a girl named candy that if I touched her this big guy threw me out of place.
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✯ཥ༑ངਸཧཧབ✯ wrote:
It's a very sensitive subject to me. I have disrespected girls before and that is a hole that I've learned to stay away from. Our duty as men is to protect females, not use them for our personal pleasure. No hard feelings, Picasso, just a very deep subject for me. 👍Baron Von Fritz wrote:
Wow. Calm down dude. It was all in good fun. Geez.✯ཥ༑ངਸཧཧབ✯ wrote:
Really? Really now? So you touch your girl however you want? And you would dump a girl for wanting to be respectful and decent? You sicken me.ShytTAlker69 wrote:
😳Dump her and find a girl who hasn't been to a brainwashing camp
😂😂😂😂😂
I must agree lol -
What if she is about to fall
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ʜץƌʀɑ wrote:
That's so sad!!! No cuddling?SeñoritaMafioso wrote:
Like if we accidentally bump into each other thats fine, but no hugging or holding hands kind of stuff. Thanks for the advice guys..some of its good lolWhen you say you can't touch each other, do you mean touch touch, or like holding hands touch? 😳
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I didnt say i liked it! Just its what she wants to try, so i'm looking for advice on how to last 30 days!
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imindazone wrote:
How would a flash ligh?.... Oh I see what you did there hahaBuy a flesh light
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This is the dumbest thing I heard, I think they meant sex but touching is just a human instinct, it binds the two together and you guys will only grow apart rather than getting closer
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🅱🅾🅰 🔥Achilles🔥 wrote:
I think that's the plan. To see if the couple can endure a month of hell. I'm sure there are plenty that can't, especially newer couples.This is the dumbest thing I heard, I think they meant sex but touching is just a human instinct, it binds the two together and you guys will only grow apart rather than getting closer
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Yeah, I'm on the side of touching.
The whole point of "relationships" is to make babies. Any Catholic priest will tell you that.
This stinks of abstainance indoctrination. You, know.. Feeling good is of the devil.
From a purely psychological point of view, I'd say this is damaging at best. It's going to create elevated attraction like dangling meat in front of a hungry dog.
Maybe get her a full-on burka for Christmas.
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What if she's drowning? 😱
Or choking?? 😱😱
Or about to step in front of a very fast-moving and dangerous vehicle??? 😱😱😱 -
I made it 30 days with out sex with my gf...but we enjoyed alternate activities 😏
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Violent Vin🇺🇸💀🔫 wrote:
Going with the bill clinton definition of sex?I made it 30 days with out sex with my gf...but we enjoyed alternate activities 😏
Anyways, I went 7 years without sex with my ex- fiancé. It was hell. We broke up. Not because of the abstinence, but other reasons. -
Baron Von Fritz wrote:
You do know that its in our genes to reproduce our self right? Holding back is against laws if physic, so you sir. Is wrong.✯ཥ༑ངਸཧཧབ✯ wrote:
Really? Really now? So you touch your girl however you want? And you would dump a girl for wanting to be respectful and decent? You sicken me.ShytTAlker69 wrote:
😳Dump her and find a girl who hasn't been to a brainwashing camp
😂😂😂😂😂
I must agree lol -
This is the dumbest challenge I have eve heard of.
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Brown🎵Note😲 wrote:
This is the best and most rational answer. Well said Note 👍Yeah, I'm on the side of touching.
The whole point of "relationships" is to make babies. Any Catholic priest will tell you that.
This stinks of abstainance indoctrination. You, know.. Feeling good is of the devil.
From a purely psychological point of view, I'd say this is damaging at best. It's going to create elevated attraction like dangling meat in front of a hungry dog.
Maybe get her a full-on burka for Christmas.
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Baron Von Fritz wrote:
✯ཥ༑ངਸཧཧབ✯ wrote:
Really? Really now? So you touch your girl however you want? And you would dump a girl for wanting to be respectful and decent? You sicken me.ShytTAlker69 wrote:
😳Dump her and find a girl who hasn't been to a brainwashing camp
😂😂😂😂😂
I must agree lolI would dump her because she went to that crazy camp, not because of the touching.
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Does it count if u r wearing a body condom. Then it'd be the condom touching her, not you?
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Touch yourself for 30 days.
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ʗℝ₳ℤㄚℝㅌⅆℕⅇʗҜ wrote:
When in doubt, rub it outRub it out.....
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ℬeƖƖɑIƗɑƖiɑɳɑ wrote:
We all do that already.Touch yourself for 30 days.
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Well i just want to say that i told her how i felt about the idea, and she told me that today jphad majorly sucked without being able to hug and hold each other, so she has officially changed her mind 😊
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Omg I'm such a nerd. I honestly thought the subject line meant, can YOU go thirty days without your iTouch.
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Z👿 wrote:
👆 this.That challenge is Dumb... Physical attraction is part of a relationship. Its shallow if thats the ONLY part of a relationship, but to ignore it completely is just as dumb imo
This challenge I've heard before and it's simply to test self control. No touching is not the only way to do that. I'd counter argue the challenge to prove that it doesn't prove anything.
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ʜץƌʀɑ wrote:
30 days to 1 👈Reality kicked in of human needsWell i just want to say that i told her how i felt about the idea, and she told me that today jphad majorly sucked without being able to hug and hold each other, so she has officially changed her mind 😊
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vulq wrote:
Just because it's in our genes doesn't mean that you have to do it all the time.Baron Von Fritz wrote:
You do know that its in our genes to reproduce our self right? Holding back is against laws if physic, so you sir. Is wrong.✯ཥ༑ངਸཧཧབ✯ wrote:
Really? Really now? So you touch your girl however you want? And you would dump a girl for wanting to be respectful and decent? You sicken me.ShytTAlker69 wrote:
😳Dump her and find a girl who hasn't been to a brainwashing camp
😂😂😂😂😂
I must agree lol
It can wait for longer periods then 30 days.
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