I need some one to talk too.
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Recently my parents have been fighting and yelling at each other way too much. (they always fight, but this is happening to often).
Im getting to think that they don't love each other anymore, and the only reason they stick together is because of me.
I don't know what to do, I know the fights don't involve me, but it's hard not to think about it when u head them yelling at each other from across the house.
Like I said I just need some one to talk too. -
Ouch....That sucks....Sometimes I fell lucky to be with parents that love each other.
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Have you tried talking to them bro?
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Ꮹཞ།ཀཀ wrote:
My dad says my mom is in a bad mood, and my mom says my dad is just a sick man.Have you tried talking to them bro?
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Wish I could help man. That's some complicate shit. I know me and my girl fight like mad dogs sometimes, but I can tell you I love her with all my heart and I'm no where near close or ready or about to give up on her yet.
Good luck man. sometimes people just make better friends in the end. Despite how much they actually do love you and each other.
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YOU wrote:
It doesn't really go far.Ꮹཞ།ཀཀ wrote:
My dad says my mom is in a bad mood, and my mom says my dad is just a sick man.Have you tried talking to them bro?
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Sir talk a lot wrote:
I bet. I'm sorry bro. Try talking to them a bit more? Tell them that the constant fighting is getting you down?YOU wrote:
It doesn't really go far.Ꮹཞ།ཀཀ wrote:
My dad says my mom is in a bad mood, and my mom says my dad is just a sick man.Have you tried talking to them bro?
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It seems to be a part of every relationship, especially a marriage. When I was (probably) about your age my dad had almost lost the house because of bad financial decisions - you can only imagine the stress and arguments that led to. Now, they're back on solid ground and seemingly are very happy. Of course living in the same house exp
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The problem is that kids are always the most affected when their parents divorce.
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Oses you to so much as well. The same holds true in this as it does with many other things - if it bothers you confront it but most importantly think about where you're at and if you're doing the best you can.
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U can talk to me anytime bro
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Man sir sorry to hear this.. I'm one of those dads that could not take anymore and divorced.. She got my son to hate me and all.. And i miss him..What I would say is try to get them to remember the good times they had together the reason they married. And trust me it has nothing to do with you. They love each other they are just having a hard time. Remind them of the love they have for each other. Cook them some Mac and cheese light a candle sit them down tell them to shut up and remember the good days. They need this for them....
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My parents got divorced when I was 8. I could've have up then. I tried my hardest not to let it get the best of me, and I didn't 😃 6 years later, I'm pretty stable.
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Tried praying?...God's always been helpful to me. 👍 Need anybody to chat with, it'd be charming to talk to you 😺
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Talk to me
I know the feel bro -
Find out how they met, and arrange similar circumstances, bang, love💘💘💘
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the destroyer 3 wrote:
It may work in movies...Find out how they met, and arrange similar circumstances, bang, love💘💘💘
But not IRL
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Ive been there bro... What u said to start this forum brought back a lot of memories. It sucks. Mom sayin how terrible my dad is, dad sayin how terrible my mom is. Both of them tryin to make me choose who to live with when they separated. Lost friends... Best thing for you man is what makes u happy. Try not to be around when they fight. Makes it way harder on ur mind. I ended up moving with my mom. She was better at brainwashing where as my dad wanted what was best for me. This was many years ago but I still can remember all the fights. Nowadays they at least talk civilly but I wont forget it. I don't hate my parents that's for sure love them both dearly. Now that I'm a dad I know what I want for my son and what I had isn't it. If u ever wanna talk when they fight send me a pm. I'm on here quite often n if I can prevent just one person from goin through what I went through I would be happy.
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El Don SUPERMAN wrote:
I like this idea. Not when they are furious with each other but when they seem calm. They may not be thinking about how their sniping is affecting you. Keep focused on how it makes you feel when they argue and what you are afraid of.Why don't you try sitting them both down and telling them what you think and how you feel
Please also talk to us here. In this thread or pm.
My parents divorced when I was a teen. It was really quite stressful and difficult for me to manage. I kept it all inside though.
I'm glad you are smarter than I was and know that talking about it will be helpful.
Hugs.💚
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saelo wrote:
El Don SUPERMAN wrote:
I like this idea. Not when they are furious with each other but when they seem calm. They may not be thinking about how their sniping is affecting you. Keep focused on how it makes you feel when they argue and what you are afraid of.Why don't you try sitting them both down and telling them what you think and how you feel
Please also talk to us here. In this thread or pm.
My parents divorced when I was a teen. It was really quite stressful and difficult for me to manage. I kept it all inside though.
I'm glad you are smarter than I was and know that talking about it will be helpful.
Hugs.💚
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♠👿ℐօƙℰℜ4ℒⅈℱℰ👿♠ wrote:
I bet you are a wonderful father.Ive been there bro... What u said to start this forum brought back a lot of memories. It sucks. Mom sayin how terrible my dad is, dad sayin how terrible my mom is. Both of them tryin to make me choose who to live with when they separated. Lost friends... Best thing for you man is what makes u happy. Try not to be around when they fight. Makes it way harder on ur mind. ✂Now that I'm a dad I know what I want for my son and what I had isn't it.✂
Oddly, I guess our 'rents gave us a gift. An insight into parenting early in life. To then use that horrible experience and to transform it into something of beauty and wisdom for the little ones in our lives today, makes it kind of worth it.
Hugs to you as well! 💘
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In the end no matter what "IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT". You are the child, they r the adults, if they stay together just for you than, it shows the power of their love for u us greter than any one thing they want for themselves.. Whether any one agrees with me or not , it is a selfless act of love for u.. now they need to learn how to behave in front of u..and if they do split.. Then they still love u all the same
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🔰🅰Gi®ls🔫🔰 wrote:
👍In the end no matter what "IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT". You are the child, they r the adults, if they stay together just for you than, it shows the power of their love for u us greter than any one thing they want for themselves.. Whether any one agrees with me or not , it is a selfless act of love for u.. now they need to learn how to behave in front of u..and if they do split.. Then they still love u all the same
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You need to sit with them & talk to your parents, I don't know how old you're, but ask them & if you can help them with something. 👍
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Sir talk a lot wrote:
This exact same thing is happening to me. I feel you bro. This has been going on for 2 years now for me and my parents are close to splitting up. At first I didnt care, but then I thought of all the family get togethers and other family events that probably wouldn't happen anymore, and not seeing my parents (especially my dad) as much as I should. It's hard man. But my parents really don't even act like they're married anymore. So idk if I should want them to be together or notRecently my parents have been fighting and yelling at each other way too much. (they always fight, but this is happening to often).
Im getting to think that they don't love each other anymore, and the only reason they stick together is because of me.
I don't know what to do, I know the fights don't involve me, but it's hard not to think about it when u head them yelling at each other from across the house.
Like I said I just need some one to talk too. -
Thanks for all the support I have been talking to my best friend about this. It really helps talking about these kind of things if someone close to you is/was going through the same thing.
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