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I hate when women who use kids to get at their ex. It destroys the kid and it harms everyone. These woman should be shot and dragged behind wild horses by their uterus. I would kill for my daugther to have a real dad. Sad part is the real single dads dont want to be glorified they just wanna see their kid(s), they pay their child support and of they go. They dont want kudos for doing whats right. Woman dont get kudos for doing it and if they leave their kid guess what its pitchfork and torches. End result its not the kids fault and he/she shouldnt have to suffer for it. So woman, build a bridge and get of it, men step up and do whats right for your kid. In the end the kid will respect u both for it
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O and one more thing. Deadbeat dad should be castrated in public for abandoning his child, and rapist should have no rights to their child what so ever. The state of ny feels a rapitist should have his moment in court.. Just because he is a rapist doesnt make him a bad dad. I type more but that las sentence made me wanna puke
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I completely support and approve this message. My ex wife did this with my oldet son back when he was 4. He is 16 and all mine now.
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My mom keeps my 9 y.o. sister from talking to my dad on the phone. She's done so much to piss me off I don't even go see her anymore.
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🔰Ꮴιํииγ🔰 wrote:
Thats absolutely horrible and so wrong... An forgive me whatever happen between the two parents should stay with them, not u and your sisterMy mom keeps my 9 y.o. sister from talking to my dad on the phone. She's done so much to piss me off I don't even go see her anymore.
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They let rapist see the children their victims had? What kind of fucked up laws are these?
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Hang in there girl. I know your doing your best to do the right thing.
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💀ՏɧʀɪɲʉϮ💀 wrote:
They have a right to their day in court thats it so far..They let rapist see the children their victims had? What kind of fucked up laws are these?
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🔰ਸᏧᏧ ℜⱥ༏Ҡℴ ц🔰 wrote:
Ty 😊Hang in there girl. I know your doing your best to do the right thing.
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Being a non custodial father, I completely agree. My ex used to keep my daughter from me and soak up my support payments. I took her to court for shared custody and won. I'm now as much a part of my daughter's life as I'm able to be, since I'm working two jobs. Any guy can be a father, but it takes a real man to be called "daddy". And I'll be honest, just hearing my little girl call me that makes even the worst days enjoyable.
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Yes it is detrimental to "the child" because they only know what we as single parents teach them. I myself fall into this category as a single supportive daddy. Yes my child sees his mother, but I agree she should be drug around by her uterus for being the non supportive parent in our child's learning curve. I just don't know how those parents can abuse children mentally by conducting themselves in such a manor. Dead beat moms and dads you will get what's comming to you, maybe not in this lifetime but you will in the next one......
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ʗℝ₳ℤㄚℝㅌⅆℕⅇʗҜ wrote:
From your mouth to whatever diety you believe inYes it is detrimental to "the child" because they only know what we as single parents teach them. I myself fall into this category as a single supportive daddy. Yes my child sees his mother, but I agree she should be drug around by her uterus for being the non supportive parent in our child's learning curve. I just don't know how those parents can abuse children mentally by conducting themselves in such a manor. Dead beat moms and dads you will get what's comming to you, maybe not in this lifetime but you will in the next one......
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I have been trying to get custody of my daughter for 5 years. The state of Michigan apparently supports deadbeat mothers though. She hasnt had a job since she was born and just because I make descent money I have to pay out the ass for child support and alimony. And I have been looking for a job up there for a long time but I can't find anything that will pay me as much as I have to make to cover my bills. So I only get to see her a few times a month. I am far from perfect and I mess up a lot but I can say I am a damn good dad.
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I'm one of those fathers that pay child support but rarely see my two children...😔
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whyteboibrian wrote:
But at least u try, thats what is importantI have been trying to get custody of my daughter for 5 years. The state of Michigan apparently supports deadbeat mothers though. She hasnt had a job since she was born and just because I make descent money I have to pay out the ass for child support and alimony. And I have been looking for a job up there for a long time but I can't find anything that will pay me as much as I have to make to cover my bills. So I only get to see her a few times a month. I am far from perfect and I mess up a lot but I can say I am a damn good dad.
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James87💀🔫⚠ wrote:
Depending on thr state u can see your kids every weekend uf your willing to put in the effortI'm one of those fathers that pay child support but rarely see my two children...😔
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I've struggled in my marriage since coming home from Afghanistan. If it weren't for my kid we most definately would gone our seperate ways. nothing in the world matters more than my daughter though and I would rather struggle through a tough marriage if it means she can have both a mom and dad. That doesn't mean it's always best to stay together but I can't understand people who don't want to be the most in their kids lives they can.
Great post as always 🔰🅰 Gi®l's 🔫🔰
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Sad what some people don't realize is just because you pay child support it doesn't entitle you to visitation. 2 completely desperate matters and yes Michigan sucks for a father as does florida
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🔰🅰Gi®ls🔫🔰 wrote:
Amen!I hate when women who use kids to get at their ex. It destroys the kid and it harms everyone. These woman should be shot and dragged behind wild horses by their uterus. I would kill for my daugther to have a real dad. Sad part is the real single dads dont want to be glorified they just wanna see their kid(s), they pay their child support and of they go. They dont want kudos for doing whats right. Woman dont get kudos t
It's truly a form of abuse and mothers need to recognize that what they are doing in these situations is massively damaging let alone selfish. There's a lot of psychiatrists out there that say it's in the top three of worst things you can do to your child - pitting a child against mother or father. Parents need to remember and understand how these things shape and form their children forever rather than being selfish cunts hoping for a temporary feel good.
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Reading all of the above, i yet realise again how fortunate i am in my situation. I do t have to pay any support, nor does my ex gf. We never faught iver anything when we splitted up 9 years ago now as we both had a talk and bith came to realise that by going for custidy, money,... All we would accomplish is making life so much harder for eachother than it has to be. Many peoples deemed us crazy and all, but in the end, everyone is jealous of how we worked things out. in the end, its our daughter that would suffer the most, just because things didnt work out between us, doesnt mean she has to pay the price
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fartex wrote:
See u nailed it.. And your daughter will prosper because of itReading all of the above, i yet realise again how fortunate i am in my situation. I do t have to pay any support, nor does my ex gf. We never faught iver anything when we splitted up 9 years ago now as we both had a talk and bith came to realise that by going for custidy, money,... All we would accomplish is making life so much harder for eachother than it has to be. Many peoples deemed us crazy and all, but in the end, everyone is jealous of how we worked things out. in the end, its our daughter that would suffer the most, just because things didnt work out between us, doesnt mean she has to pay the price
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Yep, shes 11 now and starts to realise how different her situation is opposed to some of her friends. Its all about give and "recieve" instead of taking.
To bad not all people can see how easy their lives would be without the constant battle with the ex and the abuse of their own children to get at the ex. I mean, whats the point?
Ps i want to apologise for the frikkin typo's in my previous post, but small screens and me dont kind of like eachother 😄
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I need a woman like you ! 😍
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Damn, you're going through a tough time.... 😔
I have my son every weekend and once or twice during weekdays. My ex, me and my son even do fun stuff together like going to amusement parks, playgrounds, take walks in the forest, go out for dinner etc.
I have a lot of respect for my ex for doing this since I fell in love w someone else during the pregnancy. Still feel really bad about it and never thought something like this would happen to me. But... I'm very happy my ex sees I'm a great dad and she wants me to play a big role in my son's life.
I pay more than I have to, but I can afford it and want to make sure they both don't lack anything.
My gf is very supportive in all this. I guess I'm a lucky man... -
My mother walked out on us when I was 2. Don't even remember her. I look at my 5 year old and 6 month old and try to come up with a reason I would leave them. If anybody ever tried to seperate us, I promise u will hear about it on the news. I never understand how a parent can turn their backs on innocent kids that just want to be loved. Wizzoo on another great thread 👍👋
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My father was a deadbeat dad, he thought $50 a fortnight made him a good dad. He only showed up for visitation when it suited him. He played favorites between my sister and I resulting in a rift that can never heal. He was all about himself.
Now he doesn't see his grandkids.
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🔰🅰Gi®ls🔫🔰 wrote:
I hate when women who use kids to get at their ex. It destroys the kid and it harms everyone. These woman should be shot and dragged behind wild horses by their uterus. I would kill for my daugther to have a real dad. Sad part is the real single dads dont want to be glorified they just wanna see their kid(s), they pay their child support and of they go. They dont want kudos for doing whats right. Woman dont get kudos for doing it and if they leave their kid guess what its pitchfork and torches. End result its not the kids fault and he/she shouldnt have to suffer for it. So woman, build a bridge and get of it, men step up and do whats right for your kid. In the end the kid will respect u both for it
Well said girls. I Wish all woman with kids thought like you. My kids have lost out on so much due to my ex being in the above category!!!!
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Hyena wrote:
See lessen learnedMy father was a deadbeat dad, he thought $50 a fortnight made him a good dad. He only showed up for visitation when it suited him. He played favorites between my sister and I resulting in a rift that can never heal. He was all about himself.
Now he doesn't see his grandkids.
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And ny state shows it true colors to hell with the victims, let the rapist have the right to have their case heard.. Im sorry, im a bit loaded right now, my daughter is at my brothers, but what right does a man have to a child when he rapes and beats a woman into a coma the right to a child? Someone please give me the 411
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🔰🅰Gi®ls🔫🔰 wrote:
"the law is an ass"And ny state shows it true colors to hell with the victims, let the rapist have the right to have their case heard.. Im sorry, im a bit loaded right now, my daughter is at my brothers, but what right does a man have to a child when he rapes and beats a woman into a coma the right to a child? Someone please give me the 411
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