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My bff sister who is 14 just found out she is pregnant, and everyone is happy and excited.. The joke going around is maybe ahe can get on tv.. Is it wrong that I wanna smack the 💩out of her parents? I was 15 when i got raped and impregnated 16 when i had my daughter.. I was horrifed, my parents threw me out and still dont talk to me..So for all the teen girls who think its cute to have a baby.. IT IS NOT.. It is work like u cannot imagine, their is no hanging with friends, no going dancing, no chilling on the phone for hours.. Your life belongs to that child.. And if you dont have any support from mom and dad good luck.. If it wasnt for my brothers i would have been out on the streets l.. It is exhausting and u r not ready for it.. I had to leave school and lost a lot of friends.. Everyone came at first but once te cute baby syndrome wore off they were gone... I have five friends left of the original 20. So girls there is plenty of ways to be protected and stay safe.. Do not get dragged into parenthood.
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Forget being protected.
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When will teen girls realize that babies aren't like a new purse? They think the world will be so much easier for them when in reality they just ruined it. This is different for you Agirl because of what happened for you. Similar situation happened to my friend and I am now the godfather of her. But as for the girls who think life will be great because of it, then they don't deserve the praise.
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Mr. Beefy0 wrote:
No they dontWhen will teen girls realize that babies aren't like a new purse? They think the world will be so much easier for them when in reality they just ruined it. This is different for you Agirl because of what happened for you. Similar situation happened to my friend and I am now the godfather of her. But as for the girls who think life will be great because of it, then they don't deserve the praise.
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🅰 Gi®ls 🔫 wrote:
Was that agree or disagree? I'm kinda out of it todayMr. Beefy0 wrote:
No they dontWhen will teen girls realize that babies aren't like a new purse? They think the world will be so much easier for them when in reality they just ruined it. This is different for you Agirl because of what happened for you. Similar situation happened to my friend and I am now the godfather of her. But as for the girls who think life will be great because of it, then they don't deserve the praise.
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Superyan wrote:
👍👍Forget being protected.
Save sex till marriage. -
I'm glad I waited till I was 30 to have a kid. I'm not mature as I should be now let alone when I was a teen.
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I am shocked that she is happy her daughter is pregnant at 14. I will be having the talk with my son as soon as he is old enough to understand, but at the same time if he does get a girl pregnant at a young age I will do everything I can to support them as long as he stays by her side.
I am trying my very best as a young mum to make sure my son is raised to be a good, respectful man.Mr G and I did get pregnant when I was sort of young and my parents were not impressed at all but I quite simply told them I didn't care what they had to say I was going to take care of my responsibility and do the right thing by my son.
Luckily for me I have a husband who stood by me through everything and does his best to provide us with everything we need.Having a child young is not easy at all and your life does revolve around them 100%, but I wouldn't have it any other way.
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👍 amen to that..
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Abort! Abort!
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completely agree with smacking the parents... And the father for that matter.
Harry Hill sings a song called "I want a baby" ...
It was funny till I read this post.
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Hugh Jass wrote:
That's just sick😡👎👎👎Abort! Abort!
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Superyan wrote:
I agreeForget being protected.
Save sex till marriage. -
saelo wrote:
"...I was horrifed, my parents threw me out and still dont talk to me."
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Omg. You were raped and your parents threw you out for that? And still don't talk to you?Do you mind me asking why you didn't take morning after pills to prevent pregnancy?
Regarding the point of this thread: children having children is very sad to me, no doubt. It's hard enough with two financially stable, mature adults doing the job together. Mrs G, sound like you and Mr G have done a great job.
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1. Nope they r very catholic and ashamed of me.. I was still a virgin at the time.. The "father" is serving 25 to life
2.I was hospitalized.. Badly beaten..
3. Its not the babys fault..@ least thats what i believe.. Others say abort and they have a right to that.. I just felt i couldnt do more harm to myself.. -
saelo wrote:
Ok.. My parents r very old school.Omg. I know a lot of very strict Catholics but none like that. You think they threw you out because of their Catholicism?
What state did this happen in? Wow. At least he got a really long sentence.
While you were in hospital after being beaten and sexually assaulted, no health care worker at least offered emergency contraception?
Omg.Truly a horror story.
The state is ny, the charges ranged from attempted homicide to satatory rape
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Man… I'm a Cathlic too… old school Cathlics would shut out family members that got impregnated because of RAPE?!? That just doesn't seem right… and I must say, because I'm Pro-Life, I respect you very much for not trying to abort your child, even though it can from a far less desirable source than most children do…
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Big Mike D wrote:
Superyan wrote:
I agreeForget being protected.
Save sex till marriage. -
Hugh Jass wrote:
I just sent your Hugh Jass straight to the ER.Abort! Abort!
Grow the hell up and don't be so disrespectful with idiotic comments like that. -
saelo wrote:
"...I was horrifed, my parents threw me out and still dont talk to me."
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Omg. You were raped and your parents threw you out for that? And still don't talk to you?Do you mind me asking why you didn't take morning after pills to prevent pregnancy?
Regarding the point of this thread: children having children is very sad to me, no doubt. It's hard enough with two financially stable, mature adults doing the job together. Mrs G, sound like you and Mr G have done a great job.
Thanks hun, it's hard even though we both work but every second is worth it and we wouldn't change our kids for the world.
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And just to bring it to everyones attention, have a quick look at the creative turf names Hugh Jass has.
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Superyan wrote:
Yeah, don't have sex until a preacher gives someone a coupon that entitles them to half your shit when they get tired of you!!! Its ok to have sex people. Just make sure you're mature enough to handle the consequences that might come with it.Forget being protected.
Save sex till marriage. -
🎸₩℣ӈɪƖƖßıƖƖγ🎸 wrote:
This may be a slightly more worldly take on things but it bears pointing out that 14 and 15 year old girls are rarely ready or mature enough to deal with the consequences of sex be it STDs or pregnancy. And they will never be ready to deal with being beaten and raped so I kinda see the road Ryan was trying to take, ya dig?Superyan wrote:
Yeah, don't have sex until a preacher gives someone a coupon that entitles them to half your shit when they get tired of you!!! Its ok to have sex people. Just make sure you're mature enough to handle the consequences that might come with it.Forget being protected.
Save sex till marriage. -
Big Mike D wrote:
Disgusting, It's like taking a tire iron to an elderly womanHugh Jass wrote:
That's just sick😡👎👎👎Abort! Abort!
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Hugh made terrible comments in another thread and was reported and probably banned, apparently not for long enough.
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Hugh Jass wrote:
You weren't perma banned you sick fuck?Abort! Abort!
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Ꮹཞ།ཀཀ wrote:
Hugh Jass wrote:
You weren't perma banned you sick fuck?Abort! Abort!
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Add: Brae wrote:
What road?🎸₩℣ӈɪƖƖßıƖƖγ🎸 wrote:
This may be a slightly more worldly take on things but it bears pointing out that 14 and 15 year old girls are rarely ready or mature enough to deal with the consequences of sex be it STDs or pregnancy. And they will never be ready to deal with being beaten and raped so I kinda see the road Ryan was trying to take, ya dig?Superyan wrote:
Yeah, don't have sex until a preacher gives someone a coupon that entitles them to half your shit when they get tired of you!!! Its ok to have sex people. Just make sure you're mature enough to handle the consequences that might come with it.Forget being protected.
Save sex till marriage. -
🎸₩℣ӈɪƖƖßıƖƖγ🎸 wrote:
Stupidity at it's finest. That us a terrible view of marriage. You don't go around marrying people you don't love. You spend time and effort before getting married. Making sure that you always want to be with person for the rest of your life.Superyan wrote:
Yeah, don't have sex until a preacher gives someone a coupon that entitles them to half your shit when they get tired of you!!! Its ok to have sex people. Just make sure you're mature enough to handle the consequences that might come with it.Forget being protected.
Save sex till marriage.
It's far better then having sex with every person your in a relationship with. -
I learned to know my fiance when she was pregnant of a girl she was 19 at the time and i was 21.. Her former bf left her hanging.. Now 10 years later we have a son together of 3 years and i accepted my daughter as my own 4 years ago.. Even at the age of 21 when still going to school it is a huge task and responsability.. Hearing this story i like smack her and you parents for not supporting any of u in the right manner!!
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Mr Lincoln wrote:
Condoms people.Big Mike D wrote:
Superyan wrote:
I agreeForget being protected.
Save sex till marriage. -
Agirlsgun, it's almost unbelievable that people could be treated the way you have. Victims being blamed for rape unfortunately is all to common. I even heard the story that the Irish courts sent a warning to a teen girl who had fallen pregnant to rape that if she left the country to have an abortion she would be charged with murder upon her return.
It is a credit to you and those who have stood by you that you are the person you are today. For those who didn't I don't think that is very Christian of them and they should stop and think about where they are going at the end....
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