Confession of a code whore.. pt IV
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Parenting is a lesson in Hypocracy... Its true and any parent will agree.. We (rightfully) try and teach our children from the mistakes we made.. But we are the biggest hypocrites and liers ever.. Today my daughter punched a boy in the noses at daycare for pulling up her dress.. Truthfully im proud of her, but it is wrong to hit and teach violence..but at least the karate lessons are paying off.. And im a hypocrite because deep down i know there was a better way to handle that situation and show my daughter a better path.. Parents lie.. We tell our kids about santa, and so on.. Harmless right? Or do we crush them when we have to tell them the truth? Back to Hypocracy: we say dont drink, smoke, have sex, do drugs, cheat, skip school. And rightfully so we want our kids to learn from our mistakes and protect them..but we all did something wrong as a child.. Forgive the childs mistake and try and guide them on the right path.. Whatever path u think is best and kids forgive your parents, theyre trying their best.
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Way to go for her! My son had a HORRID anger problem at 2-3 I put him in a kid's version of Krav Maga (really they just taught him punches, kicks, rolling and fun stuff with moral lessons attached) but it was where I took Krav Maga. Anger problem - GONE! He deals with his anger MUCH better. I owe it to the outlet and me not being deployed anymore. I think thats where a lot of it came from. He acts and looks like me a lot I think my ex takes it out on him (maybe I'm wrong) but he's a great boy now. Really lovable. My mother use to treat me harsher and she admitted it to me later in life because I look and act like my dad. So I would get the worst of it. Worst beating I had in my childhood life was because of a lie she said. I know what you mean, especially when my kids get to teenage years... I was a little shit back then I hope they aren't even 10% as bad as I was.
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Great post and so true although I would never admit it to my daughter lol
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+1, I didn't have a dad growing up so struggle as to my role at times. My girls know I love them, but don't like it when I say "no" as I am the more protective out of my wife and I.
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Hyena wrote:
As long as they know that tour doing great+1, I didn't have a dad growing up so struggle as to my role at times. My girls know I love them, but don't like it when I say "no" as I am the more protective out of my wife and I.
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The truth? WHAT?! 🎄🎅🎄
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༒ᏴᏌᎠᏩᎥᎬ༒ wrote:
SANTA!!!!!! He's real. Saw him with my own eyes! 👀The truth? WHAT?! 🎄🎅🎄
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Sammy Guns🔫🌊🗻 wrote:
O of couse honey 😉༒ᏴᏌᎠᏩᎥᎬ༒ wrote:
SANTA!!!!!! He's real. Saw him with my own eyes! 👀The truth? WHAT?! 🎄🎅🎄
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I see your point of view, but we tell them not to do it so they can learn from our mistakes, even if they don't know it.
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🅰 Gi®ls 🔫 wrote:
Can I be your honey to???Sammy Guns🔫🌊🗻 wrote:
O of couse honey 😉༒ᏴᏌᎠᏩᎥᎬ༒ wrote:
SANTA!!!!!! He's real. Saw him with my own eyes! 👀The truth? WHAT?! 🎄🎅🎄
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A GIRL U FUCKING WHORE U SAID U LIKED ME AND COMING TO FIND OUT U HAVE A KID IM FUCKING 15 U SAID U LIKED ME EW PERVERT
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^ someone is tripping
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WELL SHE IS
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AND HOBO BOB ATTACKED ME CUZ HE JEALOUS
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This a joke?
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nope
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that mah bruh is a whore
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Kid stfu your annoying
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We all make mistakes. Simple. But we all need to know right from wrong. That's what parents are for. It seems (I may be wrong) that there is less of that these days and people leave the moral compass of their children with the state/schools/other.
You may consider yourself a hypocrite if you tell your kid not to do something that you've done but at least (hopefully) you know it's wrong and why. Plus tou dont want them to make the mistakes that you made. That's the lesson you want to pass on. That is parenting. How great it would be if we could learn from others mistakes. Alas, it's rare that we do.
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Natebob wrote:
You know i was trying to ignore u and the stuf u wrote on my wall.. But this borders on abusive..plz stopthat mah bruh is a whore
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Why are you making these threads?
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Jrab wrote:
To board a question.. Why r u reading themWhy are you making these threads?
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O wow you ruined Santa. Your a jerk. He's real guys. Dont believe that crap.
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Jrab wrote:
Hmm, not sure if ignorant or trolling.O wow you ruined Santa. Your a jerk. He's real guys. Dont believe that crap.
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🅰 Gi®ls 🔫 wrote:
He's just got some issues...(if he's so upset bout u saying u liking him when u didn't he must have liked u too) 😜 people these days...Natebob wrote:
You know i was trying to ignore u and the stuf u wrote on my wall.. But this borders on abusive..plz stopthat mah bruh is a whore
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Jrab wrote:
Leave her alone I like them so don't read if you dontWell I'm not it pops up everytime I look to see real discussions.
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Ϯµཞƒ💀ℒøཞÐ wrote:
I'm not trying to troll. There are kids actually on here.Jrab wrote:
Hmm, not sure if ignorant or trolling.O wow you ruined Santa. Your a jerk. He's real guys. Dont believe that crap.
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A usual th trolls hijack the real meaning of the post
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I am not being negative all I am saying pls keep note to what your title is and what you post. I mean make it PG.
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I agree 110% with you. My son is only 18 months but already I see myself trying to teach him from my past mistakes so he doesn't make them too.
When he is older I will definitely be having talks with him about sex, no I don't think he should wait until marriage and lets face it not many guys wait past 16 but I will be having the "safe" talk. Mr G and I were lucky to have fallen in love and had such a connection that we got married but we did it all backwards, surprise baby first then marriage etc and I love my family to bits, although I think my son should wait until he is married and financially stable to have kids.
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Jrab wrote:
Ok i can respect your reply, however u are taking i out of context..I am not being negative all I am saying pls keep note to what your title is and what you post. I mean make it PG.
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