Confessions of a Code Whore..Good Morning Editon

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$&)(&$ Apr 6, 2012

Good Morning all.. Today confession...last night i got in late from work, like 2am late, my 3 year old wakes up gives me a kiss and says... When r u getting married and getting me a daddy, your not getting any younger u know... Then she goes back to sleep..Now after the shock and giggles wore off @ 19 years old Im not so sure im ready or want to get married.. My bf is a great guy he has his own mechanic shop and has been with me over two years..i know he wants to, but idk what to do, i shake everytime he brings it up..is my three year old really smarter than me? Or should I just beat my mom for putting ideas in her head?
The Nomad Apr 6, 2012

Oh wow, teenage pregnancy? Do you ever regret having your kid?
$&)(&$ Apr 6, 2012

The Nomad wrote:
Oh wow, teenage pregnancy? Do you ever regret having your kid?

Lets just say her father is serving hard time for the lack of choice he gave me in the conception phase..
And talk about a hard hitting question...

But no matter how hard things got and the lack of family support for not having an abortion..the look in her eyes and the unconditional love make everything worth wild...

So no, no regrets, and i wouldnt change a thing...
Hyena Apr 6, 2012

Sounds like you are setting a good example for your daughter. Set one here too. Get married when you are ready too.
Hyena Apr 6, 2012

🅰 Gi®ls 🔫 wrote:
The Nomad wrote:
Oh wow, teenage pregnancy? Do you ever regret having your kid?

Lets just say her father is serving hard time for the lack of choice he gave me in the conception phase..
And talk about a hard hitting question...

But no matter how hard things got and the lack of family support for not having an abortion..the look in her eyes and the unconditional love make everything worth wild...

So no, no regrets, and i wouldnt change a thing...

Sorry too hear that, my best friend at work had a similar experience 26 years ago, though she didn't have a child from it.
$&)(&$ Apr 6, 2012

Hyena wrote:
🅰 Gi®ls 🔫 wrote:
The Nomad wrote:
Oh wow, teenage pregnancy? Do you ever regret having your kid?

Lets just say her father is serving hard time for the lack of choice he gave me in the conception phase..
And talk about a hard hitting question...

But no matter how hard things got and the lack of family support for not having an abortion..the look in her eyes and the unconditional love make everything worth wild...

So no, no regrets, and i wouldnt change a thing...

Sorry too hear that, my best friend at work had a similar experience 26 years ago, though she didn't have a child from it.
Just the way my luck is...first experience and i get pregnant..
Hyena Apr 6, 2012

Well glad to hear he is being punished...

Sounds like you have a good man now though. And a beautiful daughter, that makes for a loving family.

You just keep growing stronger and better as a person and show your daughter how to be a mature woman. You are her prime example of how to behave.
★〓⌖ Viper ⌖〓★ Apr 6, 2012

🅰 Gi®ls 🔫 wrote: Lets just say her father is serving hard time for the lack of choice he gave me in the conception phase..
And talk about a hard hitting question...

But no matter how hard things got and the lack of family support for not having an abortion..the look in her eyes and the unconditional love make everything worth wild...

So no, no regrets, and i wouldnt change a thing...

Well, I don't think I've heard reasoning this mature and thought through as well as this in the TW forums in months. I, as a guy, apologize for what the piece of crap did to start all this for you and hope you can forgive the rest of us. As a father, things may get tough from time to time but there is no more fulfilling thing in life than your kid(s). Thanks for showing me a small glimmer of hope in the cesspool that has become the GD forum and its inhabitants.
⌖🔥Groucho🔥⌖ Apr 6, 2012

🔥⌖ Viper ⌖🔥 wrote:
🅰 Gi®ls 🔫 wrote: Lets just say her father is serving hard time for the lack of choice he gave me in the conception phase..
And talk about a hard hitting question...

But no matter how hard things got and the lack of family support for not having an abortion..the look in her eyes and the unconditional love make everything worth wild...

So no, no regrets, and i wouldnt change a thing...

Well, I don't think I've heard reasoning this mature and thought through as well as this in the TW forums in months. I, as a guy, apologize for what the piece of crap did to start all this for you and hope you can forgive the rest of us. As a father, things may get tough from time to time but there is no more fulfilling thing in life than your kid(s). Thanks for showing me a small glimmer of hope in the cesspool that has become the GD forum and its inhabitants.
👆👆 👍
$&)(&$ Apr 6, 2012

You guys are so sweet.. But i nvr got angry at men because of this..dont get me wrong.. Its hard and took a long time to let a man touch me again...but ... I just had an empathy... So obvious im stupid... Through all of it my bf had been by my side..ty all.. I think my 3yr old was right...
gungirl Apr 6, 2012

That's my chica... Call me fool, and let's hang
$&)(&$ Apr 6, 2012

gungirl wrote:
That's my chica... Call me fool, and let's hang

Maybe if u pick up your phone😜
Hyena Apr 6, 2012

As long as this is the guy you want to be old and infirm next to at the old persons nursing home. It's the right choice.

Keep us all up to date on the details as everything unfolds...
$&)(&$ Apr 6, 2012

Hyena wrote:
As long as this is the guy you want to be old and infirm next to at the old persons nursing home. It's the right choice.

Keep us all up to date on the details as everything unfolds...

Since he is 8 years older than me and woman live longer.. Im pretty sure i can avoid that and collect the 💰💰💰💰💰💰... Im kidding.. I left him a VM, very serious and said we needed to talk... I give him 30 minutes and he will be here..
★〓⌖ Viper ⌖〓★ Apr 6, 2012

Ohboi....
$&)(&$ Apr 6, 2012

I got ENGAGED 🎉🎈🎉🎈💝🎉🎈💝🎉🎈💝
KING OF TURF Apr 6, 2012

🅰 Gi®ls 🔫 wrote:
I got ENGAGED 🎉🎈🎉🎈💝🎉🎈💝🎉🎈💝

Congrats! 🎉🎉
〓 MR71VWBUS 〓 Apr 6, 2012

KING OF TURF wrote:
🅰 Gi®ls 🔫 wrote:
I got ENGAGED 🎉🎈🎉🎈💝🎉🎈💝🎉🎈💝

Congrats! 🎉🎉
Cupcake27 Apr 6, 2012

🅰 Gi®ls 🔫 wrote:
I got ENGAGED 🎉🎈🎉🎈💝🎉🎈💝🎉🎈💝

Congrats!!! 🎉🎉🎉
👿💋A͜ʟωɑץʂ ₲💋👿 Apr 6, 2012

🅰 Gi®ls 🔫 wrote:
I got ENGAGED 🎉🎈🎉🎈💝🎉🎈💝🎉🎈💝

Congrats, ur story really touched me and I wish you nothing but the best!
Ꭱ3V Apr 6, 2012

mr71vwbus wrote:
KING OF TURF wrote:
🅰 Gi®ls 🔫 wrote:
I got ENGAGED 🎉🎈🎉🎈💝🎉🎈💝🎉🎈💝

Congrats! 🎉🎉
STLKID Apr 6, 2012

Woot toot!!!
BЯʘʘKLYИ™ Apr 6, 2012

Congrats 🅰👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
•C U N T• Apr 6, 2012

°\(ッ)/°
Congrats 🎉🎈🎉🎈
ᎷᎪᏟᏦᎷᎬᏟᎻ ᎪᎠᎠ ᏦᎷ Apr 6, 2012

Woot!!! Gratz!!!!
ɆͣƉͩƉͩ∙∘💥🔫ᏚℍʘŦ Apr 6, 2012

🔔🎉🎈🎈💒💒🙏👏👏👏 congratulations and all the very best to u both for the future.

And from yr posts and life experience discussions can tell he is a LUCKY man 👍👍
Hobo Bob Apr 6, 2012

Introduce him to TW.
The Nomad Apr 6, 2012

🔥⌖ Viper ⌖🔥 wrote:
🅰 Gi®ls 🔫 wrote: Lets just say her father is serving hard time for the lack of choice he gave me in the conception phase..
And talk about a hard hitting question...

But no matter how hard things got and the lack of family support for not having an abortion..the look in her eyes and the unconditional love make everything worth wild...

So no, no regrets, and i wouldnt change a thing...

Well, I don't think I've heard reasoning this mature and thought through as well as this in the TW forums in months. I, as a guy, apologize for what the piece of crap did to start all this for you and hope you can forgive the rest of us. As a father, things may get tough from time to time but there is no more fulfilling thing in life than your kid(s). Thanks for showing me a small glimmer of hope in the cesspool that has become the GD forum and its inhabitants.
+1 :)