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My girlfriend broke up with me this morning. She sad she just needs a break. Well she seein some guy. All he wants to do is get in her pants. And he's a dick. Me and her had been dating for a year and three months. She's asking me if she could come over to my house. And it's just confusing. She said we are taking a break and she's seein another guy. But yet she still wants to come to my house. Any advice on what I should do? Please I want honest to god answers.
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💀TRAILERTRASH💀 wrote:
Thats really weird, maybe after she went with the guy she realized her mistake and wanted to make ammends?My girlfriend broke up with me this morning. She sad she just needs a break. Well she seein some guy. All he wants to do is get in her pants. And he's a dick. Me and her had been dating for a year and three months. She's asking me if she could come over to my house. And it's just confusing. She said we are taking a break and she's seein another guy. But yet she still wants to come to my house. Any advice on what I should do? Please I want honest to god answers.
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Unless you like swinging or wanna spit roast her, it's either you or him. She's gotta make the choice, make it clearly, and stick to it. If she choose him, as hard as it is, put her out of your life or at least any thoughts of a relationship. If she chooses you then up to you if you still want her, shes gott ditch the other dude and be faithful to you. Although if she's taking a break and seeing another dude already, sorry to say it doesn't sound like things would work well if she did come back as those are not good signs of where she's at with you.
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JmanX wrote:
Unless you like swinging or wanna spit roast her, it's either you or him. She's gotta make the choice, make it clearly, and stick to it. If she choose him, as hard as it is, put her out of your life or at least any thoughts of a relationship. If she chooses you then up to you if you still want her, shes gott ditch the other dude and be faithful to you. Although if she's taking a break and seeing another dude already, sorry to say it doesn't sound like things would work well if she did come back as those are not good signs of where she's at with you.
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From a woman to you, I'd say it could be time for you to move on. JmanX said it really well. If she's already seeing another guy, and still wanting you to be near her, she's not connecting to the reality of her hurtful decision.
As much as it may pain you, distance yourself from her as best you can. I'd also suggest taking time to write or talk to her about how hurtful it is that she is already seeing someone. I'd also encourage you to tell her that because you have been together for so long and care for her, that you may not be able to hang out with her at all.
Distance will help you heal and move on. Learn and grow and love again! -
Batel wrote:
exactlyFrom a woman to you, I'd say it could be time for you to move on. JmanX said it really well. If she's already seeing another guy, and still wanting you to be near her, she's not connecting to the reality of her hurtful decision.
As much as it may pain you, distance yourself from her as best you can. I'd also suggest taking time to write or talk to her about how hurtful it is that she is already seeing someone. I'd also encourage you to tell her that because you have been together for so long and care for her, that you may not be able to hang out with her at all.
Distance will help you heal and move on. Learn and grow and love again! -
💀TRAILERTRASH💀 wrote:
That's unfair to u. Sounds like she wants she wants to try this guy but in case it doesn't work out then she'll take u. Dude dong be 2nd choice she made hers n you guys been together over a year. She sounds bored. Get a date n do something crazy n spontaneous. Then facebook all the fun u had. See how fast she apologize for being dumb enough to break up wit u.My girlfriend broke up with me this morning. She sad she just needs a break. Well she seein some guy. All he wants to do is get in her pants. And he's a dick. Me and her had been dating for a year and three months. She's asking me if she could come over to my house. And it's just confusing. She said we are taking a break and she's seein another guy. But yet she still wants to come to my house. Any advice on what I should do? Please I want honest to god answers.
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She's not like that. She said she's not dating him but just talkin to him. I've told her how much it hurts, but all she said was "All i can say is I'm sorry". I just gave up at that point. I had been tryin to talk to her about it for an 1 hour straight. I even called her and she was cryin but she said we just need to take a break for a week. And I just gave up at that point. She told me she was sorry for making me hurt. And she said she promises she wouldn't do anything with any one as in kiss anyone and whatnot. She promised me over the phone. But I just don't know. This guy doesn't like me at all. He may be just tryin to piss me off. I really don't know. But any chance I get imma fight him whether I get my ass beat or not i don't care. He's been talkin shit to me sayin he's been fucking her and shit all day. He's the same age as me and the only place they've seen eachother in person is at summer school. He's one of those guys that brag to his friends about who he "fucked" last night.
Thanks.
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Kick her to the curb and move on.
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Don't fight fair if you think you might lose no point in it. Sometimes you can't fight fair to get your point across. With the girl though keep your head up you will find someone better she clearly lost out on someone who really cared for her for some smooth talking jackass. I know it hurts but you will be a better person for it in the long run.
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she is giving the other guy a test drive to see if she wants to trade up and keeping you on the line in case she doesnt. dont bother trying to get her to be straight because that wont happen. when words dont jive with actions they are lying about something. best bet is to stop all communication, try your best to look like you are having the time of your life without her and see what she does. sucks, im sorry its goin down for you like that 😒
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Maybe she just does need à break. Maybe she is a
Ittle tired. Give her a week and if she does not answer, turn your shoulder on her, however hard. -
Batel wrote:
Listen to this ☝☝☝☝From a woman to you, I'd say it could be time for you to move on. JmanX said it really well. If she's already seeing another guy, and still wanting you to be near her, she's not connecting to the reality of her hurtful decision.
As much as it may pain you, distance yourself from her as best you can. I'd also suggest taking time to write or talk to her about how hurtful it is that she is already seeing someone. I'd also encourage you to tell her that because you have been together for so long and care for her, that you may not be able to hang out with her at all.
Distance will help you heal and move on. Learn and grow and love again! -
She might like ur family or something and that's why she wants to cone over. It happens. Could b wring. Ignore her fir abit and see what happens . 90% she boned or got with the dude
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I think you gotta explain how hurt your are. If she doesn't care, being with her just isn't a good place to put yourself in -- it's gonna hurt you more. If she cares, she should either leave you alone or ditch the other dude...
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If she's so great and awesome, then u gotta be something also, to have landed her that is. Don't forget that, start boosting your self-confidence now by reassuring yourself now! Maybe she does need a break, how long and how many times are you willing to put up with this? Women are a painful process to figure out, don't be a fuckin idiot and get suicidal!! It's all part of being a man(a real man) how u cope and adapt to adversity and change will define you as a person. Don't be the guy 10 years fom now stuck somewhere he doesn't want to be standing there spinning your wedding ring on your finger, (someone asks what your doing) and u say trying to figure out the combination!lol. It's summer enjoy your youth and only love as much as your willing to fall! Now back to some war dammit!!
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I guess the big question is what would of happened if you did this to her. I would talk it out with her, but if you ask that question that will answer alot.
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Backspace wrote:
She's 13... And she's not like that.She might like ur family or something and that's why she wants to cone over. It happens. Could b wring. Ignore her fir abit and see what happens . 90% she boned or got with the dude
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💀TRAILERTRASH💀 wrote:
She is 13!!! And how old r uBackspace wrote:
She's 13... And she's not like that.She might like ur family or something and that's why she wants to cone over. It happens. Could b wring. Ignore her fir abit and see what happens . 90% she boned or got with the dude
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👑HOBO KING👑 wrote:
💀TRAILERTRASH💀 wrote:
She is 13!!! And how old r uBackspace wrote:
She's 13... And she's not like that.She might like ur family or something and that's why she wants to cone over. It happens. Could b wring. Ignore her fir abit and see what happens . 90% she boned or got with the dude
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If I were you, I'd sit back and keep my mouth shut watch it play it. Don't let her come over to your house just because, don't be rude or mean to her. Just let things play out.., it's hard but Learn a lot about her intentions and it will keep you out of trouble with punk ass!! Good luck !!!
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Don't push it again ok. Let her come over but don't push anything right away become really good dreinds again and I mean extremely close and then don't ask her out start to get a little bit flirty then start to ask if she would like to go to the movies with some friends and what not and do this for about maybe 2weeks then ask if she would like to step it up again. Hope I helped
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