How do you deal with the death of your father?
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First of all it isn't my father. Its my ex GL father but were are still real close friends.
She and her father were real tight.
She believes her father was the reason her and her mother got along too.
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She says she wants to stop crying but she can't stop thinking about her father.
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I haven't. It's been like 4 years and I still haven't come to terms with it. I'm still in denial a little I think.
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I lost my mom a couple years ago. It just takes time and good friends to talk to. I listened to alot of music, to help keep my mind at ease.
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It will be 3 years on May 20th for me. I have never gotten over it. I just deal with it.
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I just started to read this over I started to think that I really miss him too. I think I had a tear or two. He was like my second dad. He was the closest thing I had to a real dad because my dad is disabled. Just two weeks ago I was playing soccer with him and some other friends. He also cooked up some great burgers that night too. And his heart just stopped...
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5 years ago. I'll never get over it. I accept it but not a day goes by I don't think about him or feel this huge hole in my heart.
I guess we just learn to accept it and stop crying about it all the time.
Honestly, the first year I was a total mess.
Just be there for her. Listen. Hold her. Hug her. Remind her that she was loved and is loved. Ask her to tell you great stories. Just be there. That's it.
I know this is dumb, but what's an ex GL?
Regardless it's so great you are trying to be supportive. 💗
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🔥⌖saelo⌖🔥 wrote:
Oh I ment GF. And thank you for some advice.5 years ago. I'll never get over it. I accept it but not a day goes by I don't think about him or feel this huge hole in my heart.
I guess we just learn to accept it and stop crying about it all the time.
Honestly, the first year I was a total mess.
Just be there for her. Listen. Hold her. Hug her. Remind her that she was loved and is loved. Ask her to tell you great stories. Just be there. That's it.
I know this is dumb, but what's an ex GL?
Regardless it's so great you are trying to be supportive. 💗
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YOU wrote:
First of all it isn't my father. Its my ex GF father but were are still real close friends.
She and her father were real tight.
She believes her father was the reason her and her mother got along too.
She is falling apart. -
Sir talk a lot wrote:
This is so sad. Makes me want to really appreciate every second.I just started to read this over I started to think that I really miss him too. I think I had a tear or two. He was like my second dad. He was the closest thing I had to a real dad because my dad is disabled. Just two weeks ago I was playing soccer with him and some other friends. He also cooked up some great burgers that night too. And his heart just stopped...
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I never lost a mum or papá but i lost a good friend but loseing a mom or pa is bad my pa has cancer and i tat that i was going to lose him he we whet to the USA to see becues in that time he was sick and thats when they told him that he was not going to live to new year but its been to years and hes here but hes so sick that he has to stay in the USA but its a bad feeing sad and you just lost no what to do
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el guatemalteco wrote:
When ur with him tell him about all the good times. It will make u two both cry but your if ur father passes away he will die with good memories.I never lost a mum or papá but i lost a good friend but loseing a mom or pa is bad my pa has cancer and i tat that i was going to lose him he we whet to the USA to see becues in that time he was sick and thats when they told him that he was not going to live to new year but its been to years and hes here but hes so sick that he has to stay in the USA but its a bad feeing sad and you just lost no what to do
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Bro, my dad died 3 days after my 6th birthday. Almost 17 years later, and I'm STILL not over it. I just try to think of the good times, and remember that I'll see him again one day
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