2 year old tantrums
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Superyan wrote:
Different cultures I guess. It would be totally dishonorable for me to strike or threaten physical violence to a child. When a child misbehaves you don't control him with physical dominance, you teach them correct behavior through your good example.Ojibwe wrote:
I was hit everytime I was naughty or disrespectful. I'm the complete opposite of violent...Hitting a child just teaches them it's ok to be violent. I never spanked or smacked my children and don't find it necessary.
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My son is a little younger than yours but when he does that I ignore him, walk away and let him have his tantrum. After he is finished he can have what he was yelling and screaming for. That way he still gets what he wants but only if he is nice about it. Seems to work :)
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I have a 3yo and it does get easier.... I have found consistency abd following through with punishments to be the most effective discipline.... Either timeout or I simply say if you do this again you will get a smack on your hand, then following through and also explaining afterwards abd saying 'do you know why you got timeout or a smack' and discussing it.... Needless to say in very happy with my daughters behavior...
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Father of a 11 and 6 year old boy. Depends on the situation. But I have to say, I was raised with spanking. I felt for the longest time that spanking was an effective disaplinary tool. I do not have that opinion now. In my opinion, it is important to remember that everything provided to your child comes through you. Reminding my children of this fact has proven most effective. Examples:
Won't clean up = doesn't eat until its clean. Won't calm down = early bed time. Won't go to bed = no tv/video games. As a parent you know what they enjoy and what matters to them. They earn those things through behavior. Never threaten something and then not do it. If you have allowed negitive behavior for awhile it's going to take awhile to change. They will challenge the new rules. Stay strong. -
I also use the corner a lot. The corner is especially effective in public places. If they don't stay in the corner they don't eat, play, whatever is important to them. If they throw a fit in the corner, just explain that they are going to stay in longer the longer they throw a fit. Once you have the corner established at home, take it on the road.
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Johnny Cage wrote:
This is exactly what I do. I always try to explain to her that she is punished for X reason and how it affects others or the effects that might happen if she continues to do X.I have a 3yo and it does get easier.... I have found consistency abd following through with punishments to be the most effective discipline.... Either timeout or I simply say if you do this again you will get a smack on your hand, then following through and also explaining afterwards abd saying 'do you know why you got timeout or a smack' and discussing it.... Needless to say in very happy with my daughters behavior...
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ΘиэЂuмвBαsтαя₫ wrote:
LOL 😂 but wait... What if he has a larger mob 😱Cap all his turfs.👍
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Spank him hard and speak in a commanding tone. If he hits you back i have no idea. Maybe your not spanking him hard enough.
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ΘиэЂuмвBαsтαя₫ wrote:
😳😹😹😹😹😹😹Cap all his turfs.👍
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3y.o and 1y.o girls. I have only spanked when what they are doing is dangerous. Tantrums or not doing what I ask gets a count of 3 and if I say 3 it is into the naughty corner. They don't leave the naughty corner because then daddy gets cranky.
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Superyan wrote:
Ojibwe wrote:
I was hit everytime I was naughty or disrespectful. I'm the complete opposite of violent...Hitting a child just teaches them it's ok to be violent. I never spanked or smacked my children and don't find it necessary.
Me too
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Spank him. Don't do this new age parenting crap.
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Sir talk a lot wrote:
Just an input here..Superyan wrote:
Ojibwe wrote:
I was hit everytime I was naughty or disrespectful. I'm the complete opposite of violent...Hitting a child just teaches them it's ok to be violent. I never spanked or smacked my children and don't find it necessary.
Me too
I was spanked when I did things I wasnt supposed to do. Like tantrums and backtalking: Half the time my dad would count, and at the end, since I wasn't listening, I'd tell "Getawhuppin" 😝
I'm no worse the wear for it.
Spanking depends wholly on the child's attitude. I didn't care.
They started taking my stuff, and got more of a response.
Try everything said in here once, and see which one gets the response your looking for. ;)
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