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• Tweek Feb 5, 2012

  There may have been unknown circumstances that caused her to to what she did, but, don't be a fool and pretend it never happened. Ask directly about it, and judge their answer. You can get a good hint of her personality from that.
• fachan retired Feb 5, 2012

  I think you should just meet with her. You never know the circumstances that she left. Give her the benefit of the doubt and a chance to explain. But guard yourself from being taken.
• GreenManXphile Feb 5, 2012

  If she was desperate and immoral enough to ruin her bonds with your family, for just 30 thousand, I'd bet she's just as uncaring now.

  However it is just 30 thousand. So there is that chance that she is trying to reach out now due to regret. It has been 14 years or so. People do change, and there's slim chance she is trying to con you out of more now rather than later. I mean you are are 22 and what could she con you out of. Also she probably spent that money years ago. She wouldn't still have it after nearly a decade and a half later.

  Based on the info given, which keep in mind I totally just skimmed through within the first 10 or so posts, i'd say it's a 70/30 chance for her still being a conniving harlot who cares little for you, over a person trying to make amends. There also is that aspect of her using you for some sort of emotional attack she is planning.
• GreenManXphile Feb 5, 2012

  I dabbled in counseling for a couple years and you'd be surprised how much people get off on emotional manipulation of others who aren't even aware of the attackers intentions. It comes easy to an alarmingly high percentage of society.
• Σχϲιѕιøη Feb 5, 2012

  💚ǤƦєɛɲՊɑɳҳ℘ℎıƖҽ wrote:

  I dabbled in counseling for a couple years and you'd be surprised how much people get off on emotional manipulation of others who aren't even aware of the attackers intentions. It comes easy to an alarmingly high percentage of society.
  

  This, Green, is why you're my favorite
• MuppetPaste Feb 5, 2012

  💚ǤƦєɛɲՊɑɳҳ℘ℎıƖҽ wrote:

  I dabbled in counseling for a couple years and you'd be surprised how much people get off on emotional manipulation of others who aren't even aware of the attackers intentions. It comes easy to an alarmingly high percentage of society.
  

  The act of manipulating others emotions or energies (chakras even) in order to make yourself feel better and in turn, the victim feels worse can actually be defined in terms as an act of "vampyrism".
• BakedBananas Feb 5, 2012

  What Patty said - even if the statute of limitations is past. Stealing is stealing, and to steal from a child, no matter what her personal circumstances were, is totally abhorrant. You can choose your friends but not your relatives, but yours has been gone too long and been so totally despicable, that she is no longer in that category. Unless she has already approached you with intent to make amends, then you are better off without her.

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