If the love of your life breaks up with you then what?

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🔫Foggee🔫 Jan 31, 2012

What should I do if the love of my life, who I love more than anything in the whole world breaks up with me, what should I do. I'm so frustrated and broken right now.
~ Ƒızzøƞɛ ~ Jan 31, 2012

Give her a little time, and show her how you feel. You don't want to drive her off, but if she's the love of your life, you can't let her go without a fight. I know it's hard to find that happy medium between expressing yourself and giving her space, but that is where you'll find you chance to repair it. GL Mr. Foggee.
Brown🎵Note Jan 31, 2012

Settle yourself, and when the mood strikes, find the next love of your life.

Most people have several in the course of their lifetime.
🔫Foggee🔫 Jan 31, 2012

Brown🎵Note😲 wrote:
Settle yourself, and when the mood strikes, find the next love of your life.

Most people have several in the course of their lifetime.

I am not one of those date a thousand ppl who care kind of person.
Brown🎵Note Jan 31, 2012

🔫Foggee🔫 wrote:
Brown🎵Note😲 wrote:
Settle yourself, and when the mood strikes, find the next love of your life.

Most people have several in the course of their lifetime.

I am not one of those date a thousand ppl who care kind of person.

Sometimes we don't have a choice. When I was 22, I latched onto "the love of my life", even after she left me. It's just non-productive to force it. You'll run them off. It just makes it worse.

There will be others. For the love of dog, enjoy being independent for a while and cheer up as fast as you possibly can.

I mean, if they still want to try, go for it. If not, let it go.
bngbngpopop Jan 31, 2012

Some just posted about this same topic. There is some good insight in there.

The only real thing that helped get out of the depression of losing my love was knowing that
1. It is better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all.
2. That if I truly loved him, I should let him go... And that if we met again it was meant to be, if not a deeper love for another was out there.

And now, 5 years later, I found my life partner. The love I share with him is deep. He is everything and more than I could have ever dreamed. And with every step we take towards the future, we step together.
There is hope. Turn your face towards the sun and all shadows fall behind.
🔫Foggee🔫 Jan 31, 2012

Kk.
🔫Foggee🔫 Jan 31, 2012

bngbngpopop wrote:
Some just posted about this same topic. There is some good insight in there.

The only real thing that helped get out of the depression of losing my love was knowing that
1. It is better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all.
2. That if I truly loved him, I should let him go... And that if we met again it was meant to be, if not a deeper love for another was out there.

And now, 5 years later, I found my life partner. The love I share with him is deep. He is everything and more than I could have ever dreamed. And with every step we take towards the future, we step together.
There is hope. Turn your face towards the sun and all shadows fall behind.

It sound like somebody RPing. Lol. But good stuff thanks
ᏨᗴᎡᏖᏬ$ᗪ Jan 31, 2012

Keep on turfing.
ℱᵃƖ🐝Ɩᵃʗყ Jan 31, 2012

Find another. Lots of fish.
Ojibwe Jan 31, 2012

She got a sister?
™ Jan 31, 2012

The love of your life could still be out there. Before there's a first. There is always a second.
🐕Travdog70🐕 Jan 31, 2012

NEXT !
ՏhadowA͜ngelƊ. Jan 31, 2012

Well, why did you care about her so much? Was it because of what she meant to you? Or is it because of how she makes you feel? I can't tell you which is right and which is wrong. If you think your relationship is worth preserving, then run after her. If not, or if she still rejects you, then there's obviously a reason and she may not be the one right for you. I suggest you move on by living life for a few months. Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love, because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall.
BryGuyH Feb 1, 2012

Just go off and live your life like it never happened and do everything you can to forget about them. One of two things will happen: a) they'll come back and you can decide if you want to be with them and you can do it all over again or b) they don't and haven't wasted any more of your life doing things that won't accomplish anything.

Like most stuff in life the harder you want it the less likely you are to get it.
🔰ਸᏧᏧ ℜⱥ༏Ҡℴ ц🔰 Feb 1, 2012

I'm sorry man. I wish I had some really special advice for you. Me and mime broke up. I really don't think there is any saving the remationhip. It definitely gets better with time but is so hard today. Just think about tomorrow and not a second about the past.
Matt Adore Feb 1, 2012

go out w/ her rival... nothing makes a girl compete like jealousy
Ojibwe Feb 1, 2012

Maybe you should ask yourself why she doesn't want to be with you. Make this a learning experience and do better next time.
mojopilot Feb 1, 2012

travdog70 wrote:
NEXT !

That's it!
♠Ace of Spades♠ Feb 1, 2012

Don't chase them, replace them.
♠
MuppetPaste Feb 1, 2012

Pain is weakness exiting your body. Feel the pain EXPEL the weakness. Then when your energy is clear, so too will be your mind, then, only then shall you have your answer.
Primo Loco Feb 1, 2012

Happened to me. Capped over 300 turfs. Actually helps vent any anger inside.