i need some serious support right now.
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I wasnt going to do this but i have to or im going to make a huge mistake.
my iphone is broken and will hopefully be returned to me in the morning, fixed.
my girl and i went out for drinks with some friends last night.
everything was going great. i got pretty blitzed. then we got home.
i passed out on the couch and woke up to a beating.
she somehow got into my phone, which i lock bc she locks hers and it pisses me off.
she thought i was talkin smack with some hoe.
not the case at all.
its out neighbor. earlier that day i was walking my dog and she flagged me down. she said “hey dude, my gf moved back in with her mom. i got a new phone and lost all my numbers. text me yours so we can all go out for a beer or something”... -
i went inside and texted some broken spanish about my number. she said “who is this” i replied and she said “oh lol hola mi bonita” or something like that. i said “nada ya gracias. thats all i know unless you want me to tell you that your mom licked my balls in my house tomorrow. but thats not really a conversation starter” she loled and that was about it. i swear.
but before i could explain all this i received my nice black eye. and now me and my dog and my xbox are staying at my mothers. iphoneless to make all matters worse.
i know this needs to be over because this isnt the first time she has done this.
this relationship is a very rocky one.
my delema is that... i love her. i know its supposed to get easier with time but i miss her already BAD. and its only been one fucking day. i have a decent amount of RL friends. but im here, with just a comp and my brain. trying to go to sleep but my mind is racing.
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The only thing to do is end the relationship. If you don't it's only going to get worse. There is no amount of good that can outweigh that bad. You should have called the police and thrown her ass in jail. It's time for you to start acting like you matter instead of being a doormat, which is what you are if you allow yourself to be hit. You don't deserve it and should not allow it. Start acting like a strong woman. My wife would destroy me if I ever laid a hand on her and rightfully so. Stop being a victim and start by making the decision that you do not deserve to be treated like that.
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police will never be brought to my doorstep on my call. hell no. she would never do that to me and id never do that to her. she has a job and a daughter. shes completely normal in every direction. and im not acting like a victim, i just need some support to not go home. i am a strong woman. the only reason i didnt beat the living shit out of her back is because she just recently had neck surgery. and last night i was so drunk i had no idea what was going on. i dont mind a brawl between us two girls every now and then but beating the shit out of your drunk gf on the couch kind of crosses the line.
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Sounds like there is a lot of jealously on ur GF's part and she should have let u tell her what happened first before reacting. If you love her then y'all need to sit down and talk and work things out. Love is a very strange thing and if you think that the relationship is worth it then you should try and work things out. I hope I was able to help you out some. Good luck
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PuppetMaster wrote:
thank you. that was some really good advice.My wife has been estranged from me for 3 months due to reasons I can't tell you about BUT I can tell you that nothing can make the pain go away.
Just remember that pain, physical or otherwise is just weakness exiting the body. Now, you don't want to be weak so pain is a good thing. Just feel it.
and thank you too vinnie. i know where your comming from. i mean, as you can tell, its an extremely touchy subject at the moment. -
The first few days are going to be the worst because of how uprooted you'll feel. The reality will have to slowly sink in, but once it does you can start the healing. Vinnie actually put it pretty well. You're strong, you've overcome obstacles in your life and you'll overcome this.
And if you do something like apologize to her and try to go back to her or let her act like she's in any way a victim, I'm going to punch you in the boob, then cap your turf.
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Happy to help. IMO there is never a justification for violence in a relationship. If you think that there's room for it then I don't know what to tell you. I wish you the best and hope that you find some happiness. It's pretty obvious from the recent posts that you aren't happy in this situation. Don't settle for "comfortable" or normal. Going back into that situation isn't acting like a strong woman. It's the easy and weak move. You sound like you are better than that!
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You have posted about a few issues with your girlfriend..... You should ditch her..... Unless I'm getting you confused with another lesbian...
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If you do go back you should talk to her and get it straight about her hitting you. Nobody deserves to be hit on. If you truly love someone u don't beat on them, that's just signs of insecurities. As I said earlier love is a strange thing and we can offer u words of encouragement but ultimately the final decision is up to you. Whatever decision u make please think long and hard about it and don't make a rushed decision because whatever use idiom u make will affect you one way or the other, good or bad
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no, im the lesbian you speak of. i posted one about a week ago when we realized she wants to live in the country and i totally dont. another reason why this slip up cant be ignored. there is def more bad then good.
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PuppetMaster wrote:
i know right? ANOTHER REASON why it cant be ignored.I wouldn't be surprised if this person (your gf) has a bit of guilt lurking around? Maybe she did something behind your back or similar and now she's relieving her guilt by making you feel like you've done something wrong?
Of course, I'm basing the above theory solely on what I know that people in general, are capable of.
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Philosopher wrote:
What if i told you that i want you to punch my boob and i hate my turf?The first few days are going to be the worst because of how uprooted you'll feel. The reality will have to slowly sink in, but once it does you can start the healing. Vinnie actually put it pretty well. You're strong, you've overcome obstacles in your life and you'll overcome this.
And if you do something like apologize to her and try to go back to her or let her act like she's in any way a victim, I'm going to punch you in the boob, then cap your turf.
haha see this is helping already. keep my busyyy. god not having a phone to play tw or text my friends and shit suxxxx.
speaking of which.
phil, shes begging me to go out of town with her. i cant. your having a party. and right now you are more important then she. -
I was nice to you in this thread and you were rude to me in mine. For your information I didn't have much of a life when I was a kid, not like you. Obviously forum posting when I was young has helped me have respect for others. Maybe that's why your relationship is failing.
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Sorry but why are you giving girls your number so you can go out for a beer with them? I'd be pissed too, looks sus from a girlfriends/wifes point of view.
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PuppetMaster wrote:
calm down. nice stab. go read my post in your thread okay?I was nice to you in this thread and you were rude to me in mine. For your information I didn't have much of a life when I was a kid, not like you. Obviously forum posting when I was young has helped me have respect for others. Maybe that's why your relationship is failing.
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👿ℳℝՏ Ҝⅈʟʟعℝ ₲👿 wrote:
fucking moron. can you read? she wanted to go out with all of us.Sorry but why are you giving girls your number so you can go out for a beer with them? I'd be pissed too, looks sus from a girlfriends/wifes point of view.
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Add RaiKou wrote:
👿ℳℝՏ Ҝⅈʟʟعℝ ₲👿 wrote:
fucking moron. can you read? she wanted to go out with all of us.Sorry but why are you giving girls your number so you can go out for a beer with them? I'd be pissed too, looks sus from a girlfriends/wifes point of view.
Oh now she's getting angry. Stir the veggies. Hahahaha.
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Add RaiKou wrote:
What if i told you that i want you to punch my boob and i hate my turf?
1) if you said you wanted to get boob punched I'd say you're into some weird shit.haha see this is helping already. keep my busyyy. god not having a phone to play tw or text my friends and shit suxxxx.
speaking of which.
phil, shes begging me to go out of town with her. i cant. your having a party. and right now you are more important then she.
2) we both know you love your turf almost as much as your Xbox and dog.
3) ain't no party like a philosopher party 'cause a philosopher party don't stop
4) don't go on a trip with her
5) anyone who labels me as important in their life needs to reprioritize things
6) nah JK I'm awesome. -
Add RaiKou wrote:
👿ℳℝՏ Ҝⅈʟʟعℝ ₲👿 wrote:
fucking moron. can you read? she wanted to go out with all of us.Sorry but why are you giving girls your number so you can go out for a beer with them? I'd be pissed too, looks sus from a girlfriends/wifes point of view.
My apologies for not reading your post 110% correctly.
By the way that's a lovely way to speak to a woman, I'd punch you in the eye too.
Enjoy your many trips to the ER, egotistical prick.
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love you phil.
puppet... fuck off. take a joke. dickwad. stir those veggies with your dick. -
Add RaiKou wrote:
😂😂😂love you phil.
puppet... fuck off. take a joke. dickwad. stir those veggies with your dick. -
Add RaiKou wrote:
love you phil.
puppet... fuck off. take a joke. dickwad. stir those veggies with your dick.Haha. Now at least your being yourself.
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cj. i dont know what those emojicons were. i cant see them on the laptop version of the forums.
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👿ℳℝՏ Ҝⅈʟʟعℝ ₲👿 wrote:
Add RaiKou wrote:
👿ℳℝՏ Ҝⅈʟʟعℝ ₲👿 wrote:
fucking moron. can you read? she wanted to go out with all of us.Sorry but why are you giving girls your number so you can go out for a beer with them? I'd be pissed too, looks sus from a girlfriends/wifes point of view.
My apologies for not reading your post 110% correctly.
By the way that's a lovely way to speak to a woman, I'd punch you in the eye too.
Enjoy your many trips to the ER, egotistical prick.
Yes enjoy them.
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Add RaiKou wrote:
guys, i dont even have my phone. who cares about being in the ER. and of course im gonna get mad at you puppet.you were a total douchbag because i cracked a joke AFTER thanking you for your awesome advise. and you...whatever your name is. you sided with her...i dont care if you read the post right or wrong. i asked for support not "oh you deserved it". er me all day long. idgf right now.
No. You bagged me out for not having a life when I was 13 because I said I used forums. You didn't even take the time to read who posted this thread. You realized after you bagged me out that I was in fact, someone who gave you advice.
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yeah. so what? thus apologized. and plus like i said. i didnt mean to be like a dick about it. and i didnt mean to like hit a nerve.
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guys, i dont even have my phone. who cares about being in the ER. and of course im gonna get mad at you puppet.you were a total douchbag because i cracked a joke AFTER thanking you for your awesome advise. and you...whatever your name is. you sided with her...i dont care if you read the post right or wrong. i asked for support not "oh you deserved it". er me all day long. idgf right now.
Also whatever your name is, i AM a woman. and i will speak to any man or woman that way who tells me i deserved to wake up to a black eye.
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Thats good you don't care because all your turfs are knocked out of commission aswell now.
I don't like people like you, and neither does 95% of the tw community.Besa mi culo, puto 😘
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i know puto means bitch...and i think there are some people on here that will disagree with you.
like i said...i... dont have...my phone...
i dont care.
thanks for all the wasted energy tho.
maybe next time someone asks for help read correctly.
and dont tell someone they deserved to get hit in the face.
then maybe they wont call you a fucking moron. -
Dance puppet.
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