For all of you that helped me awhile ago-
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That's always a hard thing to deal with. What makes it way worse is that she didn't tell you why. And you deserve an explanation, but you might not get it. It'll take a while, but eventually you'll reach a place in your mind where you'll want to be over her instead of wanting her back. It sucks to let go, but often that can be the only way forward. And don't turn to drugs, booze, or one night stands to help you "feel better". That will only make the pain worse when you feel it again. I'll be praying for you, dude. Hang in there, okay?
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I'm really sorry to hear that man. I was hoping you guys could pull through. But hey man, it's life. I know you may not wanna hear it, but it's true. There's always someone else. And it may take time for you to find that person, but be patient. Take that in between time to focus on yourself. Do whatever makes you happy, what makes you smile. Have a couple days/weeks/months to yourself. Hang with friends. Enjoy your life bro. Remember,
When you've hit rock bottom, there's nowhere to go but up! 👍
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Sorry man no we had are issues but that just a game u got rl issues sorry to here man stay strong
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mr71vwbus wrote:
LololMy divorce was the best thing that ever happened to me....
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I feel for you losing your first true love is never easy. If she truly is the one for you then only time will tell. Long distance relationships are never easy.
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You'll feel like crap now,I've been in the same situation,relationships come and go and there's plenty of fish in the sea.....get your head together and move on......simple,expect a mixed bag of replies on here,it is a public forum after all
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bugster wrote:
STFU morons. This guy needs help and you sure as hell ain't helpin. GTFO. 🙎mr71vwbus wrote:
My divorce was the best thing that ever happened to me....
You know why divorce costs soo much right?
Because it's worth it
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💩💩RudgicuS💩💩 wrote:
👍You'll feel like crap now,I've been in the same situation,relationships come and go and there's plenty of fish in the sea.....get your head together and move on......simple,expect a mixed bag of replies on here,it is a public forum after all
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I feel for you man... If you need to talk, I'm sure anyone who has posted a positive reply here would listen, including me.
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Sorry to hear about the break up. Hang in there. :)
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Thanks everyone, its really nice to know someone has my back in all of this...
SHE wouldn't tell me why, but her brother did this morning.
I guess i didn't talk to her enough.
Which is odd, because nearly all the time i had free was spent talking to her.. And she could've told me. I really don't get it.I fell asleep last night, sorry for not replying earlier.
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A wise man once said:
Theres more fish in the sea, but find your dolphin 😃 -
I always get Over a girl by having a wank then playing some Xbox :)
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Shes the only person that's ever understood me.. I do think about the fuuture a lot. But most of the time it involves her. She's just perfect. What's really killing me is that she won't say why..
That's a natural human psychological response. It happens to most people once a sentimental relationship is formed to a certain degree. Give it around 6 months and you will feel better. During that time you should try to take it easy and force yourself to do activities that make you happy. Be strong friend.
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Donnie Blingo wrote:
ER'D 🚑💨Find a new bitch, hit it and find the next
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Ok, so i guess that wasn't the reason, her brother was just being an ass, i have no idea why. Again.
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Aldenté Rionatí wrote:
Don't go all Psychologist on me here, ok? I've been through a lot of shit in the past few months. She's been one of two people always there for me. Thanks for trying to help.. But i don't think i'm going to get over it.Shes the only person that's ever understood me.. I do think about the fuuture a lot. But most of the time it involves her. She's just perfect. What's really killing me is that she won't say why..
That's a natural human psychological response. It happens to most people once a sentimental relationship is formed to a certain degree. Give it around 6 months and you will feel better. During that time you should try to take it easy and force yourself to do activities that make you happy. Be strong friend.
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It's not the end of the world. Just an end to a world you had with a girl. But every end is also a beginning.
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I penned this poem awhile back for my friend when he had a tuff time. Hope it helps
Hurt is Pain
Hurt is what you have
The thing is, I do too
Matter the fact, We all do
Life is hurt, This hurt
Is a pain deep down inside
It eats at you
It attacks in the dark of night
To steal away your sleep
With the sleep it takes your dreams
Crushing them with no remorse
Till all hope you have lost
It clouds the sky's
Till there no star
None to wish upon
This painful hurt
Greater in some then other
It makes us mad
Relief is foreign to us
So when relief is here
No fight only flight
We run to what we know
All we know is this pain
Locking ourself away
In our inner cell
We battle the pain
In a glorious fight
To a beautiful death
When last we are free
From the very pain
That drove us
To destroy it
To win the battle
And find the beautiful life
The one that has being waiting
In unshaken patience
For the day when we beat the pain -
I no how u feel but u will get over it and before u No it u will find a new girl
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Quite honestly, none of us can talk so certainly about the future. None of us know what tomorrow may bring. But don't let this hold you back. Instead, use it to push you forward. Remember this when you feel down about being alone. Let it remind you that there is someone out there who will be perfect. I know she means a lot to you, and I'm not asking you to abandon her, or your feelings, altogether.
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Do what you can to save your friendship. If she really means this much to you, then she's worth fighting for. If you really care about her, but you let it go and your friendship breaks apart, then someday you'll look bak and wish you had called her, grabbed her hand, something that would have fixed the shards back together. Just because you're not together, doesn't mean you have to be apart. And, who knows, someday you both might realize that it was the other person, all along, that they've been waiting for. Would you fight for a time like that?
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Chiken wrote:
What did you expect posting in a public forum... On tw. U could have just pm them.bugster wrote:
Both of you please get out...mr71vwbus wrote:
My divorce was the best thing that ever happened to me....
You know why divorce costs soo much right?
Because it's worth it
You don't even know the situation. -
On another note, don't hate ppl just trying to help. Break ups happen. Girls have ripped my heart out in the past. I promise if you can make yourself get up through the pain you will find one day you can't remember why you loved her.
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OR... "sister shadow" up there is dead on. Moving on is typically the best answer in my book, but do what feels right to you. If you can handle being friends, that's not a bad thing either. Some of my best friends have been serious exes. I hit had to let go first.
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Sister Shadow wrote:
Wow, best advice i've gotten. Thank you. I'd definitely fight for that. It's just so awkward when you still love the person but they don't love you.Do what you can to save your friendship. If she really means this much to you, then she's worth fighting for. If you really care about her, but you let it go and your friendship breaks apart, then someday you'll look bak and wish you had called her, grabbed her hand, something that would have fixed the shards back together. Just because you're not together, doesn't mean you have to be apart. And, who knows, someday you both might realize that it was the other person, all along, that they've been waiting for. Would you fight for a time like that?
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